My Marriage

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livingwater26

Guest
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Please pray for my marriage. I am a new wife and things seem like they fall apart more everyday. My husband and I seem to be on two different wavelengths all the time. It doesn't matter what I do, things just don't seem to work out. I'm frustrated and ready to give up. I know that God wants the best for me, and I believe that God wants me to stay in this marriage, but I don't think I can handle this for much longer. We need understanding and wisdom. We've only been married a year and some months. I don't know what to do next.

Frustrated,
JC
 

pickles

Senior Member
Apr 20, 2009
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JC, yes, I will pray for your marriage. Can you get counciling at your church?
Being able to talk and listen to each other is the key to resolution. Sometimes the differences that atracted you to each other ,can be the things that cause you to buck heads as well. Keep the moment you knew you loved your hubby always first in your heart.
I will be praying for both of you.
God bless, pickles
 
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Belgian_Pilot

Guest
#3
JC, I'm not familiar with the married life, so I will do what you asked and pray for you and your husband. :)
 
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704champion

Guest
#4
hey living,

I know what you mean. I've been married a liitle over two years now and it still doesn't seem any easier.

my wife and I did get married rather quickly, but I would have never imagine some of the stupid arguments we've gotten into.

being part of the slacker generation I guess I tend to be slack now and then. my wife's hang up's concern her past. pray pray pray!!! and yes I will pray for you as well!

watch the movie, fireproof. maybe a 40 day plan could help your marriage out.
 
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CrossEYED

Guest
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i will pray sister i know how you feel.i have been married 4 years and it has been hard.i have also thought i cant take it much longer.we need gods grace to help us be the wives god called us to be.i cant change my husband so i need to allow god to change me.it is very painful process but i think god uses marriage to make us holy,to pick up our cross and follow him.
 
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sunshine_debbie

Guest
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The first years of marriage are actually the hardest believe it or not. I want you to remember one word - COMPROMISE. Do it and do it until you cant do it anymore, and then do it again.

Pray every day together and apart, and read the Bible together and apart EVERY DAY.

I will pray for you

Debbie
 
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artistic_dreams

Guest
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my husband and i just got married last november and let me tell you.....we are having our rough moments.....dont give up hon...you will get past it...just dont let the sun go down on ur wrath...try to talk it out the best you can....ur in our prayers...blessings to you...