Prayer Need!!: I just want to care what God has to say about my situation.

After seeking out for counsel (my pastor,parents,sister,froends)regarding my cheating husband,I have come to the conclusion that God is the ONLY person who can TRULY understand me,NOBODY,not even my own parents,or sister seemed to understand my situation....MY Pastor says I should think it very throughly,for if I decide to get a divorce I would have to stay unmarried,so I need to be sure about to how to proceed,that he'll pray for me.My dad says I couldn't make it "financially" without him,and that I should just give it time,specially until I get a job (since I'm unemployed ),my friends understand why I would choose to "temporarily"stay with him,but think I should kick him to the curb....a brother from church today suggested that if I still love him,I should develop thick skin and let it slide for the sake of our 9yr old daughter. Today marks a week since I found out,but he doesn't know that I know. But last night he slept in the living room after getting mad at me for some petty stuff,later on I searched his cellphone records on line(that's how I found out he has been talking to another woman:during the week he talks to this woman before work,at lunch time&after work,then weekends while he's supposedly running errands,or fixing cars....well...the night ne slept in the living room, he was calling and texting her....I'm overwhelmed by my findings,and I don't know how can I hide my findings any longer,I've been irritable,moody,and I just want To hear from God,I want to feel that he hears me that he truly sees what I'm going thru and is the only one I can truly count on......for I feel that no one else does...NO ONE!!!!!,& I'VE HAD IT!!!!!!!!

You have proof that he is cheating. You're mad at him for sneaking around and cheating, and that anger is justified, BUT how is YOU sneaking around and checking up on what HE does any different? You're both being sly and sneaky. Tell him that you know what he's up to, show him the proof, then tell him that you're filing divorce papers. God has shown you what hubby is up to, and God knows that you know that adultery IS grounds for divorce.

You're right....thanks...pray I let go of all this anger,and irritability....remember to say a little prayer so that I start hearing from the Lord as I draw nearear to him.

Lord we we pray let you please hear the heart of Vane78, and bless her life, yes Lord, bless in all these things, in Jesus loving name, Amen!

Pray for you

Get the number call her and ask her to leave your husband along sake of your Daughter.

Trust me ,I have thought about doing that....but I'm not sure...but thank you for your prayer support,I really need it!

Whenthe two become one, that is what establishes a spousal relationship in thespiritual realm before God. Marriage is a public confession of thatrelationship. That is why the marriage is not considered valid until it'sconsummated, you can't have a confession of something that doesn't exist.

As one flesh, as spouses, the two are forever joined and responsible to eachother. You can divorce, but you're still spousal and responsible to each otherbefore God. Forever.

So you have to look big-picture-wise when it comes to these things. You'reeternally linked no matter what happens. And the situation is not going to bemade right over night, so don't even try. Situations like this are like tryingto squeeze a balloon… the tighter you hold here, the more it escapes there. Beingpushy will only push him farther away. What’s that old saying, absence makesthe heart grow fonder, while familiarity breeds contempt? Give him some space,let him see what he’d be missing. Give him a chance to miss you.

Remember,nothing can destroy that spousal relationship, it’s forever before God. So panickingabout today is fruitless. Give it some space, be there as you should be as thedays unwind, and God will take care of the rest. Because to Him, you’ll never be apart.

Sending prayers.

Have you and your husband discussed this? I know many couples who have recovered from infidelity and their marriage has been made stronger. Do you believe God can perform a miracle in your marriage? I believe He can! Hang in there!