Prayer request: Exploitation

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AbeLinkedIn

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Hey all, I wish my first post here was happier, especially after Christmas, but I need to get this off my chest:

See, my girlfriend of 6 months whom I love with all my life is being exploited. I would go into more detail but decorum forbids it. She's forced into bondage but I can't do anything without making it worse except pray, but I can't do it alone. If you need more details I'll happily PM you but in this thread I'd rather keep it G rated. I appreciate the help.

The name's James by the way, pleasure to meet you
 

levi85

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Lord please stop this Exploitation and bless. Lord please bless this prayer request. In Jesus name, Amen!
 

RickyZ

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Looks like the pm function has been blocked. What's going on with her?
 

Tommy379

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Praying and call the police.
 
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AbeLinkedIn

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Looks like the pm function has been blocked. What's going on with her?
Alright I'll say it but I must warn you things will get a little graphic:

So last night I was having a Skype with my girlfriend who lives in Texas (I'm in GA so we Skype fairly often) when all of a sudden she had to go and come back, which I initially thought nothing of, but then later she had to do it again, so I was wondering what she was doing. She told me that someone was forcing her to make videos of herself pleasuring herself and send them to him with the threat of him putting them online. I don't know how she got herself in this situation but I do know that she was sexually abused as a child and this whole experience has been nothing but traumatic.

She's a sweet, amazing, beautiful woman who I'd go to the ends of the Earth to please, but I'm praying that somehow she's out of this mess. We ended the call with a local friend of hers who worked with the police to pay this, for lack of a better word, pimp a visit and tell him to quit or else he's going to jail (Since what he's doing is illegal). I guess my prayer not is for the situation to be over.
 

Tommy379

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Alright I'll say it but I must warn you things will get a little graphic:

So last night I was having a Skype with my girlfriend who lives in Texas (I'm in GA so we Skype fairly often) when all of a sudden she had to go and come back, which I initially thought nothing of, but then later she had to do it again, so I was wondering what she was doing. She told me that someone was forcing her to make videos of herself pleasuring herself and send them to him with the threat of him putting them online. I don't know how she got herself in this situation but I do know that she was sexually abused as a child and this whole experience has been nothing but traumatic.

She's a sweet, amazing, beautiful woman who I'd go to the ends of the Earth to please, but I'm praying that somehow she's out of this mess. We ended the call with a local friend of hers who worked with the police to pay this, for lack of a better word, pimp a visit and tell him to quit or else he's going to jail (Since what he's doing is illegal). I guess my prayer not is for the situation to be over.
If what the pimp is doing is illegal, why not the police friend arrest them while they are there?
 
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Well he's a friend of the police, it's hard to describe, my girlfriend was nearly in hysterics when she told me so a few things might have gotten muddied.
 

blue_ladybug

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Forced into bondage by who? She can't be forced to do anything, unless she WANTS to do it. Maybe either her or you need to contact the proper authorities.


Hey all, I wish my first post here was happier, especially after Christmas, but I need to get this off my chest:

See, my girlfriend of 6 months whom I love with all my life is being exploited. I would go into more detail but decorum forbids it. She's forced into bondage but I can't do anything without making it worse except pray, but I can't do it alone. If you need more details I'll happily PM you but in this thread I'd rather keep it G rated. I appreciate the help.

The name's James by the way, pleasure to meet you
 

Tommy379

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Well he's a friend of the police, it's hard to describe, my girlfriend was nearly in hysterics when she told me so a few things might have gotten muddied.
Why not contact the police?
 
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Contacting the police would only make matters worse. She doesn't want her parents to know about this because they can be reactionary.
 

Tommy379

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Call them anyways. A crime, according to you, has been committed.
 

RickyZ

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Realize that she will not be able to keep this secret, it will come out sooner or later. So fear of her parents finding out should not be an issue because they are going to anyway. The fear should be of letting this go on. Too, her parents should be supporting her in getting this stopped, if not, assuming she's about your age, she shouldn't be living with them. I mean, what's worse, them finding out she's being blackmailed or them finding out she let it go on and on?

You have to involve the police. It will only get worse until you do.
 

NotmebutHim

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Ummm something doesn't smell right.

Blue Ladybug, Tintin, you two know what I'm getting at........
 
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praying for you both.
 

NotmebutHim

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Another reason that I don't feel right about the story is due to the "police having criminals as friends" angle. I suppose my doubt arises from the fact that I am a civilian member of a LE forum, and one point that is driven home frequently is that if you are aspiring (or in the process) to become a police officer, or already are one, you'd better not have any known criminals as friends. If you do, consider yourself SOL.
 

Tommy379

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Either:
A. The story is true, and the op needs some nards and call the five-0.
B. The story is totally fabricated.
C. The girlfriend is in a relationship with someone else and is telling lie onto lie to cover up the truth.
 

NotmebutHim

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Hmmmmm.........crickets...........bomb thrower perhaps?