I Don't Know Why, My Lord...

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Ranger_One

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Soon 2 B Single - My first marriage was 27 yrs & he past away - Three days ago I just found out my second husband is leaving me after 10 years of being married. We laugh together & I thought he loved me - He has told me he loves someone else that's 31 that he new years ago in the Army. He is 60, & I am 65. I am so very sad & do not know how I will survive - I love being married & hate the thought of being alone - It is hard to write these words...PRAY FOR ME, PLEASE
 

Roughsoul1991

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Praying now so sad to hear but nothing is bigger than God. Healing will come in time.
 
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I’m so sorry to hear about your situation. My heart ached as I read your post, and wish I could give you a hug - I just cannot imagine going through what you're experiencing. I just said a prayer for you, and I hope that God will provide the comfort and help you need at this time. Do you think it would help to speak with a counselor? A good counselor might be able to give you some solid guidance. It might be worth trying. Sending hugs & prayers your way!
 

blue_ladybug

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You are never alone, Ranger. :) God is always with you, and He will bring you through this. Read Luke 1:37.
 
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Ranger_One

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Thank You So Very Much - I Believe-N-Prayers
 
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Ranger_One

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Thank You!!!
 
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Soon 2 B Single - My first marriage was 27 yrs & he past away - Three days ago I just found out my second husband is leaving me after 10 years of being married. We laugh together & I thought he loved me - He has told me he loves someone else that's 31 that he new years ago in the Army. He is 60, & I am 65. I am so very sad & do not know how I will survive - I love being married & hate the thought of being alone - It is hard to write these words...PRAY FOR ME, PLEASE
I've always been alone, but I'm never alone - the Lord is with me. Being alone with the Lord is fun.
 

tourist

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I don't believe that your second husband really loved you or he would not have dumped you for a woman half his age. We both know that is not going to end well for him. You have every right to be sad but God will give you the love and support that you will need to survive and thrive. I have said a prayer for you. Hopefully, you will find support, understanding and comfort on this site. Glad to have you as part of our family. Welcome to CC.
 
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Ranger_One

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I want to thank everyone for your Support & PRAYERS!!!! ( tourist) Yes I do believe it will not end well for him (SAD)...Last night I could not sleep, so I talk to God our Father most of the night. I ask for two Angels to be with me & comfort me. I have know-one here & I am glad this Christian site is here..
 

tourist

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I want to thank everyone for your Support & PRAYERS!!!! ( tourist) Yes I do believe it will not end well for him (SAD)...Last night I could not sleep, so I talk to God our Father most of the night. I ask for two Angels to be with me & comfort me. I have know-one here & I am glad this Christian site is here..
I talk to God our Father too. He is very comforting. I pray that you sleep well tonight knowing that God's angels are watching over you. God Bless You.
 

Violet24

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Ranger_One....Praying that your Heavenly Father will surround you with his presence & give you the strength you need spiritually and emotionally to continue living each day in faith. Jesus promises to be a refuge in the storm, a strong tower, & a light in the darkness. Stay close to Jesus & He will be faithful to carry you through this storm. Trust Him completely to take care of you!
Praying for you now....
 

levi85

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Father God, we pray for Ranger_one, let you please bless her in this matter, in Jesus loving name, Amen!
 
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j-Rubix

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I pray that the Lord bring you comfort, and a time such as this. It is indeed hard, to lose a loved one. I pray that Jesus comes to you, and brings you a sweet peace, that goes beyond all understanding. I pray that He Himself, Jesus, lifts you up, during this struggle you are in. I pray that He even show you, how even this difficult trial, might be turned around (even if the situation does not end up changing) for good, as you are in Christ Jesus. Romans 8:28. If you continue to seek Him, even in such hard times, He will be there. He is likely carrying you through this on His power, if you feel you don't have much of your own right now. I will keep you in my prayers.

God bless you, and may Jesus, may He help you, when you need it the most.
 
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fivegrands

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I am so sorry for your pain and disappointment. I think that rejection is one of the hardest emotions to handle, and it can be the most hurtful - especially when it doesn't make sense. Please look at Isaiah 54:5 -
For your Maker is your husband—
the Lord Almighty is his name—
the Holy One of Israel is your Redeemer;
he is called the God of all the earth.

It doesn't get any better than that! Maybe you can use this painful time as an opportunity to rely completely on God, and find a way to get your emotional support from your time with Him. No one loves you more than He does. Praying with you for God's best outcome.
 
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Momdog8

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We have a merciful God and pray that he gives you guidance and peace through this difficult time. I pray for you in Jesus name. I pray for your husband that he may see his mistake before it is to late. I pray for you to have peace in Jesus name. Amen
 
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JCinAZ

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Hey Ranger_One,

Sorry to hear you are going thru this.

Praying for us to remember who the enemy is.

In the garden the serpent never bothered Adam until Eve was there.

The enemy wants to kill, steal and destroy relationships.

These truths don't remove the sting of betrayal.

But we grow in our relationship with our Heavenly Father.

I am a stander, standing for my marriage to be restored, during this time while the enemy led my wife into a prodigal lifestyle.

Praying for our marriages to be restored,

J

 
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DaTK

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I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.