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My wife left me over a month ago. She told me she is talking to another man. We have had a hard marriage but i thought we were happy. We have 3 wonderful kids together. Our youngest had cancer and she is clear of it now but its been a long road. She told me that she hasnt been happy for a while but she never told me during our time together. Our biggest obstacle has been communication. We talk now about everything but she seems to be enchanted by this other guy that he listens to her and is saying all the right things. Im so worried that she is gonna get hurt and get embarressed that she thinks she cant come back. Im trusting God to do what he can to hinder the other guys progress. Ive asked her to do marriage couselling but to no avail. Im giving her time and space but im worried that she is pulling away. Im also worried that our kids are starting to resent her a little. I keep telling them that we love them. I just need prayer for our situation that God will help us reconcile but its up to her. I know God is using the situation to pull me back in and Im loving it. Im trying to have faith that she will come around as well. She is listening to the wrong influences. Her new boss is a life coach and I heard that she had told other women that they may need to divorce to be happy with themselves and it breaks my heart that so many marriages have been broken up because of her influence. Right now our friends that we have together she doesnt even talk too. Its so frustrating that nothing is getting through. Im praying and they are too that someone or something is gonna get through to her. I just want my family back together and its tearing me apart that she is doing this. She told me that i had hurt her over the years and i admit that i probably was the best husband i could have been to her. But she didnt tell me that she wasnt happy so i figured everything was ok. Please pray for us and that God will guide us through it to reconcile so our family is stronger and better. Thank you