Prayer I need an home and a job when 18

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Hi Im a 17 I need a prayer since my mom doesnt want me to live with her since she say Im lazy and doesnt help out with the house which is kinda true.
I want to moveout when Im 18 got to a different country to live while trying to finding as a job which I will go to Unversity. Im still in highschool btw.
 

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Father God we pray for soniablue, please bless with a job and home, yes Lord remove the fears, solve the problem and bless soniablue. In Jesus Holy name, Amen!
 

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Hi Im a 17 I need a prayer since my mom doesnt want me to live with her since she say Im lazy and doesnt help out with the house which is kinda true.
I want to moveout when Im 18 got to a different country to live while trying to finding as a job which I will go to Unversity. Im still in highschool btw.
****(praying)---- what is God's plan for your life...?----- ask Him--- you may be surprised...
 

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Have you discussed paying rent to your mom? If you move out you will have to pay rent anyway. And wash your clothes and feed yourself and do all the things you probably take for granted now.

Try to set something up with your mom where you will be responsible for yourself while living at home. Pay rent. Feed yourself. Wash your clothes. Manage your life the way any adult needs to who is living on their own. You will have to do this anyway if you move out. Why not make it easier on your mom and start doing it right now?
 
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Have you discussed paying rent to your mom? If you move out you will have to pay rent anyway. And wash your clothes and feed yourself and do all the things you probably take for granted now.

Try to set something up with your mom where you will be responsible for yourself while living at home. Pay rent. Feed yourself. Wash your clothes. Manage your life the way any adult needs to who is living on their own. You will have to do this anyway if you move out. Why not make it easier on your mom and start doing it right now?
Nah I rather moveout when Im 18 and pay my own rent since my mom doesnt want me to live her house anymore. She doesnt let me cook or wash clothes sice she think i will break things.
 
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Nah I rather moveout when Im 18 and pay my own rent since my mom doesnt want me to live her house anymore. She doesnt let me cook or wash clothes sice she think i will break things.
I apologize in advance for saying this, but if you are not cleaning up after yourself and admit that you are lazy my gut is telling me by you not doing anything and in return showing your mom disrespect. How can you expect to get a job and a apartment and keep it if you arent giving respect? If you are going to school, why don't you wait and get into the dorm rooms, i know the colleges around here require it for at least your first year. The problem is you feel like you are an adult and want your space, but believe me no matter what your mom may say she doesnt want you to move out under these conditions...work on y'alls relationship because if you don't you may not ever have one and the relationship between parents and their kids are one of the most important relationships you will ever have no matter how old you get
 
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I apologize in advance for saying this, but if you are not cleaning up after yourself and admit that you are lazy my gut is telling me by you not doing anything and in return showing your mom disrespect. How can you expect to get a job and a apartment and keep it if you arent giving respect? If you are going to school, why don't you wait and get into the dorm rooms, i know the colleges around here require it for at least your first year. The problem is you feel like you are an adult and want your space, but believe me no matter what your mom may say she doesnt want you to move out under these conditions...work on y'alls relationship because if you don't you may not ever have one and the relationship between parents and their kids are one of the most important relationships you will ever have no matter how old you get

FYI. In your informantion... Do you obviously know what the problem is since youre just jumping into conclunsion.

I do clean up for myself. If I was going to get a job and my own apartment I would obviously be responsible. TBH it would actually be a great thing for me to move out since I wouldnt no longer hear about my mom always complaing or nagging about cleaning. Not everyone has a good realtionship with their parent.Plus my mom always tell me if I aint going to help out at home I might as well get marry or moveout. Im planning to moveout next year when I graduate highschool. I wouldnt reccomend living in college dorm since their expensive.
 
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Lord I pray for Sonia and this whole situation, whatever the right answer is, I
prayer you will cause things to fall into place and turn this around. That Sonia
will be able to look back on this in years to come and see your wisdom and
love in this situation.

Amen
 
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Hi Im a 17 I need a prayer since my mom doesnt want me to live with her since she say Im lazy and doesnt help out with the house which is kinda true.
I want to moveout when Im 18 got to a different country to live while trying to finding as a job which I will go to Unversity. Im still in highschool btw.
Along with praying, I also recommend you get a job now to pay for what you want in a year. I'm not sure you can afford a home, college, and a trip to another country without the money to pay for it.
 

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I will say a prayer for God's will to be done in your life. In the meantime, help out your mom as much as you can. Being lazy is not a good character trait. I would reconsider moving to another country too. If you do go to college it would be best to pick a major that is very employable and keep your student loans to a minimum. If you have not done so yet ask a school counselor to help you apply for a financial aid grant that you don't have to pay back, Community colleges are a less expensive alternative to a 4 year college.
 
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FYI. In your informantion... Do you obviously know what the problem is since youre just jumping into conclunsion.

I do clean up for myself. If I was going to get a job and my own apartment I would obviously be responsible. TBH it would actually be a great thing for me to move out since I wouldnt no longer hear about my mom always complaing or nagging about cleaning. Not everyone has a good realtionship with their parent.Plus my mom always tell me if I aint going to help out at home I might as well get marry or moveout. Im planning to moveout next year when I graduate highschool. I wouldnt reccomend living in college dorm since their expensive.
Look I am sorry for jumping to the conclusion of things, but you are jumping to the conclusion that I have a good relationship with my parents and mine has been rocky....let me just say its not easy and it takes work, but I am saying it takes two to tango
 
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Look I am sorry for jumping to the conclusion of things, but you are jumping to the conclusion that I have a good relationship with my parents and mine has been rocky....let me just say its not easy and it takes work, but I am saying it takes two to tango

I never ask or said any about your realtionship with your parent which doesnt make me jump into your conclunsion. All I am saying that not everyone get along with their parent.
 
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Hi Im a 17 I need a prayer since my mom doesnt want me to live with her since she say Im lazy and doesnt help out with the house which is kinda true.
I want to moveout when Im 18 got to a different country to live while trying to finding as a job which I will go to Unversity. Im still in highschool btw.
Well, if you don't help around the house, what's going to happen when you get your own place?
 
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Well, if you don't help around the house, what's going to happen when you get your own place?
Well here my vision and dream when I'm going to get my own place there going to be much happiness for me because I will never get to see my mom again. I don't get to hear anyone tell me what to do. I'm going to have so much freedom for me. After all I'm going to be an adult get to do what ever I want in my life.
 
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Well here my vision and dream when I'm going to get my own place there going to be much happiness for me because I will never get to see my mom again. I don't get to hear anyone tell me what to do. I'm going to have so much freedom for me. After all I'm going to be an adult get to do what ever I want in my life.
That is sooo sad and I will pray for you
 

jenniferand2

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Not so sad when I finally moveout and have my own place to live which there going to be a huge party
I do not know what country you plan to move to have you looked into how much it will cost for your expenses when you do move? Have you thought about how hard it will be to be in a strange place with no family to help you or anything? I moved out of my house when I was fifteen got a job and paid rent it is not easy... I have a daughter who works two jobs right now because things are so expensive to pay..NO matter what country you live in it will be hard on you to have your own place. However if that is what you want then go for it.. I would try to keep things on a good note with your mom as much as possible though. I know that might not be easy either. I know that as a mother it is very stressful to take care of children. I do not think your mother really wants you gone either. I think she may be venting and you just get the brunt of it. because your the easy person to vent to. I am sure you have tried to do things on your own to help out at home.. i kind of get the picture no matter what you try it is not enough or not right I understand that. I also understand that your mother is under a lot of stress I am sure trying to make sure you have everything you need and that you make the right choices in life. I am also sure she worries about you all the time. I think you should move out on your own and take care of yourself it is only after you live alone bust your butt pay your own bills have your own children that you will truly appreciate what your mother has actually gone through and has done for you..
 
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Well here my vision and dream when I'm going to get my own place there going to be much happiness for me because I will never get to see my mom again. I don't get to hear anyone tell me what to do. I'm going to have so much freedom for me. After all I'm going to be an adult get to do what ever I want in my life.
In which case, no. I won't be praying you get your dreams and get to do whatever you want to do in life. This is a prayer request to a three-wish-genie God, not the real God.

Lord, please bring Sonia to you and see who you truly are. In doing that, teach her what love is and how to live a fulfilled life in you. Please give her your will in her life. Amen.
 

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Well here my vision and dream when I'm going to get my own place there going to be much happiness for me because I will never get to see my mom again. I don't get to hear anyone tell me what to do. I'm going to have so much freedom for me. After all I'm going to be an adult get to do what ever I want in my life.
I wouldn't recommend completely shutting your mom off from your life because you will never know when you might need her in the future. Besides that I pray you get everything sorted out and that you can be happy.
 
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I do not know what country you plan to move to have you looked into how much it will cost for your expenses when you do move? Have you thought about how hard it will be to be in a strange place with no family to help you or anything? I moved out of my house when I was fifteen got a job and paid rent it is not easy... I have a daughter who works two jobs right now because things are so expensive to pay..NO matter what country you live in it will be hard on you to have your own place. However if that is what you want then go for it.. I would try to keep things on a good note with your mom as much as possible though. I know that might not be easy either. I know that as a mother it is very stressful to take care of children. I do not think your mother really wants you gone either. I think she may be venting and you just get the brunt of it. because your the easy person to vent to. I am sure you have tried to do things on your own to help out at home.. i kind of get the picture no matter what you try it is not enough or not right I understand that. I also understand that your mother is under a lot of stress I am sure trying to make sure you have everything you need and that you make the right choices in life. I am also sure she worries about you all the time. I think you should move out on your own and take care of yourself it is only after you live alone bust your butt pay your own bills have your own children that you will truly appreciate what your mother has actually gone through and has done for you..
My mom doesn't have a job and her 2 marriage she has wasn't working out. Want to go University finish class but she cant. She actually does want me to leave out the house same with my little sister since were not doing much at house. Complain that she always have to cook and clean at home. Say whenever I have problems in life don't start crying for me. Plus a prophet said to me with verse when she praying for me at church Even if my father and mother abandon me, the LORD will hold me close even though I didn't ask for prayer. I don't really care about my family since they were never there for me when I needed them especially my dad.