pray for me and my partner

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adriana89

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Hello,
i was here a while ago, thanks to God and prayers i was able to recover myself.
Since then my life has completely changed...but i feel so scared that i'm losing all already.
I'm 5 months pregnant, me and my partner moved together but we're having lots of arguing and issues.
At first i thought was cos of my hormones but now...seems we're just not getting along.
I desperately want a family, i don't want to be a single parent.
I feel so lost.
Why is he being so hard on me? i feel like he is different, angry, impatient with a huge lack of empathy.
I cried so many times begging him to fix things.
i need a sign to understand if he isn't the right person or if it's just something
we need to go through to get stronger and grow up together.
I'm so scared i'll end up being depressed while carrying a child, i don't want this.
 
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Ugly

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Well you're unmarried, having sex, living together. There's one sign that this is a wrong relationship.
Now he's acting different, worse, once you're pregnant. Another sign this is a wrong relationship.
What more of a sign do you need?
You were in an ungodly relationship, and now the man you're with is upset that you're pregnant and taking his frustrations out on you.
It's a really obvious answer, just not the one you want to hear. But there is no magic fix for him, If he's unwilling to talk, and to listen, and make efforts to work things out then there is a communication breakdown. When communication breaks down so does the rest of the relationship. If he is unable or unwilling then don't count on him changing back to who he was before. In fact it's more likely that you're seeing him for who he was all along, but just hid it from you. On average people don't change that quickly, they just stop pretending to be someone they're not. He's done pretending.
 
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Cerwin

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I'll pray for you Adriana ! And congratulations on that new little baby coming. Heartbroken as you might feel, it will be God's will alone if your man should stay and be a part of this miracle . In His great wisdom He already knows Whats best for you and baby. You've shown you want him to stay, you've cried over him, pleaded with him...the sign by God will be what does now. Pour your dear heart into that baby . Your whole life is about to change anyway. Pray every night before bed. Stay busy making "baby" plans to fight depression . I wish you joy and every happiness dear girl.
 

Taro

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Dear Lord I pray that you console Adriana in all this turmoil. I pray that you bring revelation into her boyfriend 's life and soften his heart, bring him to wisdom for the sake of their child. Give Adriana strength to press forward in whatever the outcome of her relationship may be. Increase her faith and fill her heart with love. Bless the both of them with a healthy baby. In Jesus name I pray, Amen.
 
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iveseenworse

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i pray for your relationship, health for all.
 
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the Bible tells us that we reap what we sow', but thank our Holy Saviour,
He doesn't altogether stop giving us new choices, after some of our really bad' sowing and reaping!...
we always have to remember to thank Him for this unbelievable gift of Love...

when we show Him that we do have a desire to serve Him and His ways, instead of our own -
then He starts showing/proving to us that we do/can have the ability to understand, and correct
our unfruitful ways: He starts a fire/desire inside of our hearts and He begins to teach/help us
live a life that please Him and us, and so we begin to feel what Grace feels like...

this will begin to happen, at some point in our lives', if we are truly a son or daughter called-chosen-elected...
11PETER 1:10-11.
Wherefore the rather, brethren, give diligence to make your calling and election sure:
for if you do these things, you shall never fall:
For so an entrance shall be ministered unto you abundantly into the Everlasting Kingdom
of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ.

hub and i pray that you desire to live your life for Jesus Christ: you and your baby will greatly benefit by this,
and so will many others along with you...
 

levi85

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Lord please bless adriana89, and partner, in Jesus loving name, Amen!
 

blue_ladybug

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The ONLY good thing in your relationship, is that baby..
 

thisgirl

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Wow ugly's response was a little harsh but on point. Sometimes the hard truth is needed. As for me let me say to you that we all mess up. The things ugly said are true but there is hope to turn it around. Focus ONLY on your relationship with Jesus. You need to read love must be tough by james dobson.

Find another place to prepare this child for the world and be strong and courageous joshua 1 8&9 read this passage and lock it in your heart. The book of the law is the Bible read even one passage every day and meditate on it all day. Ask Jesus to lead you to his word for that day. This is how you wash your spirit​ like you wash your face only Jesus does the cleansing. The closer you get to the Lord the better every situation will be. Believe me!!!!! Not just because a random internet stranger said it but because I've walked your road. When you walk away see if he follows. He might. If he doesn't then give him the level of access to the baby that he requests. Never regardless of his level of support, never keep the child from him or speak a single word against him. You picked him, now you are connected for life by the child.

The only exception to this is if he poses a threat.

I prayerfully answered this post. God bless you courageous girl.
 
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Cerwin

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With prayer that Holy Spirit to guide me in post I say to you that to even think there to be mistake or failure within yourself at this time is to discredit God himself, as He is creator of all and He makes no mistakes. Daughter, your will may have weakened and your choices won't always be correct while here in the flesh, but even on this earth surrounded by sin or temptations know this... as Scripture will tell you, you need only measure your own faith and should your faith be as big as even a mustard seed, you can move mountains and you will overcome any obstacles with your faith and your prayer. Pray hard that the very beauty of yourself and the one to be within you cannot be distorted by influences and confusions of sin. Worship Him ! God the Father, not only by memorized verse or song but by showing the beauty He has created in the very creation of you !