Praying for my husbands temper

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happyface

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My husband has just gone mad with me saying I mentioned about having cancer nurses in. He got mad and started to be angry. He said our neighbour was listening to us outside. It's only him that shouts. I'm just so overwhelmed by it all. He kicked my leg and threatened to pull the wall unit down. You know it's hard. He said he wants nobody to know about him. He makes me go in my shell.
 

G00WZ

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ill be praying for him
 

crmvet

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Philippians 4:6-7
 

levi85

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Lord let this anger, of Rod towards happyface become zero let there be love, understanding. Bless both of them and specally this character of Rod, please change, in Jesus Holy name, Amen!
 

happyface

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I understand Rod so much, I even know when he tired etc. I know about his personality and how he gets worked up. He goes on about things that annoy him. Our neighbour can be a windup for him, but I thank God for making me stronger than that dispite my mental health issues, I know I've had to be strong in the face of adversity. It's hard but I'm seeing Rod in a different light and I know that He needs my Support. I've had to many things to deal with from others and their behaviour, people in this world will try their best to upset us. I do believe that the devil tries so hard to upset my life because he knows I'm a soft person that looks to God. Praise, God for making me find a way.
 

happyface

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My husband is very insecure and tries to talk about past person I knew. He scared he will visit the bungalow I might take in my parents village. I need uplift not being made to feel I'm a walk over. I pray I stay strong throughout my life.
 

happyface

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I'm scared my husband has been having a tia this is a mini stroke before a big one. But I'm not sure, he's been out with the dog, to be honest I worry about everything. He knows he poorly with the incurable cancer, all I can ask God to just help me cope with everything. I'm tired. But God willing I get a move nearer my family, let's hope Rod doesn't have another stroke.
 

happyface

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happyface

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My husband is getting very angry easily it's so hard trying to talk about anything. His brain is all over. I really don't know how I cope with his tempers.
 

happyface

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I pray that God stays with us to direct the way to go.
 

happyface

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My husband has been really poorly today, it's not about me it's about him, he had diahreea and sickness and peeing. It's exhausting him. I'm just watching and waiting what to do. He just been to bed all night, he's so depressed. It's awful watching someone suffer you love.
 

blue_ladybug

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Yes it is horrible. He's close now, Happy. He's very close. Hugs to both of you..


My husband has been really poorly today, it's not about me it's about him, he had diahreea and sickness and peeing. It's exhausting him. I'm just watching and waiting what to do. He just been to bed all night, he's so depressed. It's awful watching someone suffer you love.
 

happyface

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Yes it is horrible. He's close now, Happy. He's very close. Hugs to both of you..
Hi Rod is actually up today I'm sorry if I was struggling yesterday with my emotions on here. I'm praying for us to hopefully be able to move near my parents. At times I get overwhelmed. Rod and I know we are doing our best and only God knows when things get worse. Thank you answering to my messages. X
 

happyface

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prayers for my husband tonight, hes getting rather worked up being in bedroom all night, im worried about another Stroke,
 

happyface

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Hugs Happy.. Luke 1:37
Do you know Rod has done all the trees in the garden cut them, done the grass, it's a big area. I can't believe it. And for the first time a neighbour emma came to us and asked us if we are OK. As usual Rod his jokingly self, said OK emma we are OK. But it was lovely to be asked by a younger neighbour. She's the first person to see if We are OK. How nice. Rod just said the garden and trees are getting to much. I really gave to realise he's slowed down. I'm scared because I just don't know how I'm going to cope in the future without him.
 

blue_ladybug

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Happy, it's good that Rod is doing stuff to keep his mind occupied.. It was nice of Emma to check on you. :) God will give you the strength to get through this, even after Rod is gone..


Do you know Rod has done all the trees in the garden cut them, done the grass, it's a big area. I can't believe it. And for the first time a neighbour emma came to us and asked us if we are OK. As usual Rod his jokingly self, said OK emma we are OK. But it was lovely to be asked by a younger neighbour. She's the first person to see if We are OK. How nice. Rod just said the garden and trees are getting to much. I really gave to realise he's slowed down. I'm scared because I just don't know how I'm going to cope in the future without him.
 

happyface

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Happy, it's good that Rod is doing stuff to keep his mind occupied.. It was nice of Emma to check on you. :) God will give you the strength to get through this, even after Rod is gone..
Hi, I appreciate your words and I guess someone to talk with. Yes I do realise everything as it is. Rod tries so hard and he's fighting his illness. At times I know he weak, not eating anything hardly. Me on the other hand am eating like nothings happening in my life, I don't understand why I'm being so cool about everything. It seems I don't know how to understand fully what Rods going through. No wonder he gets ratty. But I do like talking about what's happening. I guess Rod doesn't like talking about it to anyone, and he likes to be private very much so. I pray for genuine people to ask how we are. Because it saddens me to think Rod deals with this on his own.
 

happyface

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My husband is very angry again that I mentioned about phoning macmillan nurses to ask about his appetite, he got really upset and angry. He said there's nothing they can do. It's his aggressive nature that I don't like.