family cussing, the ocd and school i need prayerrr. I dont want to cuss :((((

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jesussavesbro7

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Family cusses so bad and i dont want to be defiled how do i block it out its getting so baddddd :((( Please Lord Jesus protect meeeeeeeeee :(((((((( the ocd too ughh i am learning HE LOVES ME THROUGH THE THOUGHTS AND HE WILL GET ME THROUGH IT. just when i deal with it its scaryyyyyyyyy. and schools so harddddddd i need helpp :(((
 
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Hi Jesussaves.......Well let me share with you my heart when i was young late teens a few years into my earlly 20.s i had a fowel mouth i was living a life of sin what was in my heart came out of my mouth.....well when i was 21 years old God set me free and changed me from the inside out....My heart was changed and what i spoke changed also......and the bad words went away....at that time i was radicaly different and family some were cussing and i icky talk......what i did in love sometimes would mindly ask if they would refrain.....and they did.....also some times i would go to another room with the children and hang out with them....they saw the diff. In me praise the Lord.....i did mercy toward them at that time since i was the same before....the world we live in needs Jesus...as we are the light shining Christ in the earth......dear one ask God to give you His peace and that the Holy Spirit directs you......love in Christ Sherril.......
 
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jesussavesbro7 said:
Family cusses so bad and i dont want to be defiled how do i block it out its getting so baddddd :((( Please Lord Jesus protect meeeeeeeeee :(((((((( the ocd too ughh i am learning HE LOVES ME THROUGH THE THOUGHTS AND HE WILL GET ME THROUGH IT. just when i deal with it its scaryyyyyyyyy. and schools so harddddddd i need helpp :(((
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Don't worry about people cussing around you. It's their problem, not yours. Just don't imitate them.
 
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You can't block out the cussing so don't try to block it out. If you try to block out thoughts it will make the thoughts more prevalent. I used to work around people who cussed all the time. If you are around people who cuss a lot than it is not surprising that some of those cuss words enter your thoughts. Don't worry about the thoughts. Accept the thoughts. Allow them to be there. I think you should look up Mark Freeman OCD on YouTube. He has a lot of good stuff to say that helps with OCD. He has been through OCD. I hope things get better with school. Keep at it. I will pray for you.
 
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Lord we bring these prayer request to you let you please hear andanswer, yes Lord please bless. in Jesus Holy name, Amen!
 
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jesussavesbro7 said:
Family cusses so bad and i dont want to be defiled how do i block it out its getting so baddddd :((( Please Lord Jesus protect meeeeeeeeee :(((((((( the ocd too ughh i am learning HE LOVES ME THROUGH THE THOUGHTS AND HE WILL GET ME THROUGH IT. just when i deal with it its scaryyyyyyyyy. and schools so harddddddd i need helpp :(((
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You don't get defiled by other people's words. Old saying from my youth that needs a heavy-duty comeback:
"Sticks and stones can break my bones,
but names will never hurt me."

People cursing is like people talking with their mouth's full. Not pretty, but ultimately, doesn't affect us either. Let it roll off like water on a duck's back.

Their actions are never your problem. How you take their actions is your problem. Ask God for help on how you take it. Much different than asking God to stop it. God teaches us patience by constantly putting us in situations that stretch our patience. Let that be just one lesson from God rather than the whole of the story.

Hubby and I were out back yesterday in our garden. We live in a rowhome so our garden is only a few yards wide and long, and our neighbors are the same as us. So two neighbors were outside talking to each other, and only a couple yards from us. We heard the whole conversation. When we came inside, hubby said the woman was obviously not offended by bad language. I had to ask why. Then he told me the man was cussing a blue streak. Funny. Didn't noticed.

The only reason hubby noticed was because he was offended for me. lol Apparently, God taught me patience with cussing and I got the lesson somewhere along the line. :)
 
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