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happyface

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I am currently watching my husband having a bad day, he's very agitated and exhausted. I believe he does have brain damage from his last stroke, and he gets really worked up. But I'm patient. He's asleep now, and I'm leaving him. Recently we viewed a bungalow in my parents village, it's a rented one. But unfortunately my husband saw in five minutes how bad the area was. Also there was undesirable people hanging around. It's upset us that my parents can't see what we saw. So I'm back again on my own with my faith. Life can be tough. When we need a hug it's never there, or even someone to listen. I feel I have to cope alot on my own especially with knowing my husband has terminal cancer. His pain his evidence in his tummy, and it's always been swollen. I try hard to be a good person, but even my own family can't see why I've declined that bungalow. It's hard. I just pray that God can see my hurt at life. Amen
 

levi85

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Father God bless happyface and Rod, and also hear and answer this prayer. we together ask, in Jesus Holy name, Amen!
 

notmyown

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dear happy, God sees and knows every hurt, every tear, all of it.
and He understands us in ways we don't understand ourselves.

may the Lord comfort you this day. {{{gentle hugs!}}}
 
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You can be certain that God sees your hurting heart. In fact, the Bible clearly states that Jesus intercedes for us; Romans 8:34 "Jesus is at the right hand of God and is also interceding for us." Just imagine that scene. Jesus praying for me! Praying for you! I wonder what He is saying to His Father about us? I am sure His words are so full of love and compassion and understanding. He pleads our case. He presents our needs and interests before the mercy seat. This brings indescribable security, knowing that the God who spoke the universe into existence is again speaking on our behalf. What an amazing thing to think about!

Jesus knew all about the fallen sinful world He was leaving when He went back to Heaven. He experienced first hand the devastation and destruction it caused people's lives. How many times do we read in the Bible how His heart was filled with grief and sorrow?. He Himself was man of many sorrows, suffering and pain. He knows exactly how you are feeling and promises to be with you in your deepst darkest trials.

I contemplated these very same thoughts when I went through what seemed to be unbearable pain. But I made it through because people were praying for me. I had intercessors who were peristant in their faith and did not waver. Their prayers sustained me and brought me through the darkest vally I ever experienced. Prayer does that. Jesus' prayer does that.

I would like to encourage you to ask people to commit to pray for you and trust God with you. Do not ever be afraid to reach out for help to those who are mature in the Lord and will cover you with their love. You don't have to cope on your own when there are Christians who would be willing to pray. Call your church. Ask them to help you. You need to feel surrounded with support.

You can put more posts out on these fChristian forums and without having to disclose all the details, ask people to pray for your personal situation. Here ia a Christian prayer hotline you can call:
http://bit.ly/2ro17vN

I have also included a link to trusted ministry. You will find that many people have walked in your shoes and understand your situation. I hope and pray you will find the encouragement you crave to keep moving forward in your faith. You can't do it alone, so please allow others into your life who want to help. Counseling Services and Referrals | Focus on the Family
 
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Taro

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May the Lord relieve you in your distress and bless you with favor. May He bring comfort and healing to you and your husband. May the Lord shield you and lift you up, for the Lord will sustain you. In Jesus name I pray, Amen.
 
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I am currently watching my husband having a bad day, he's very agitated and exhausted. I believe he does have brain damage from his last stroke, and he gets really worked up. But I'm patient. He's asleep now, and I'm leaving him. Recently we viewed a bungalow in my parents village, it's a rented one. But unfortunately my husband saw in five minutes how bad the area was. Also there was undesirable people hanging around. It's upset us that my parents can't see what we saw. So I'm back again on my own with my faith. Life can be tough. When we need a hug it's never there, or even someone to listen. I feel I have to cope alot on my own especially with knowing my husband has terminal cancer. His pain his evidence in his tummy, and it's always been swollen. I try hard to be a good person, but even my own family can't see why I've declined that bungalow. It's hard. I just pray that God can see my hurt at life. Amen
Hopefully your parents will get over it.
 

happyface

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My husband is poorly today. It hurts me alot.
 

happyface

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Thank you for taking the time to read. Yes I do get upset, because I see a decline, but he's trying and still driving. I know it will get worse. But for now your prayers are really appreciated. X
 

happyface

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Rod is like a different person today, he fallen out with me because I said the dog pulls at the car boot sale. I tried to say I would look after the dog while he walked around. He gets so angry. He sat in car and wouldn't come out. It's like he puts me down in any way. It's awful.
 

happyface

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I can't budge him from his mood. He's staying in bed.
 

happyface

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Today we managed to get out a man was shouting so loud at his little boy. Everyone was looking. Even Rod. I pray he sees how his own temper gets the better of him. God works in mysterious ways.
 

notmyown

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happy, i see you struggle. you know Rod is ill, and it affects him, yet his words and actions hurt you.

i'm sorry. if i may offer a little advice, keep trying to remember this is his illness talking. he sounds angry about it (understandable!) and is lashing out at the one person he knows will still love him in spite of it--- you.
it's terribly hard on you both.

may God give you strength to cling to Jesus. ♥
 

happyface

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Today we managed to get out a man was shouting so loud at his little boy. Everyone was looking. Even Rod. I pray he sees how his own temper gets the better of him. God works in mysterious ways.
 

happyface

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Yes I know he's ill and it's been really hot weather, I thank God for making me see. Yes he's smashed things up etc, but I still give everything to God.
 

J0Hnnatcc3

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I am currently watching my husband having a bad day, he's very agitated and exhausted. I believe he does have brain damage from his last stroke, and he gets really worked up. But I'm patient. He's asleep now, and I'm leaving him. Recently we viewed a bungalow in my parents village, it's a rented one. But unfortunately my husband saw in five minutes how bad the area was. Also there was undesirable people hanging around. It's upset us that my parents can't see what we saw. So I'm back again on my own with my faith. Life can be tough. When we need a hug it's never there, or even someone to listen. I feel I have to cope alot on my own especially with knowing my husband has terminal cancer. His pain his evidence in his tummy, and it's always been swollen. I try hard to be a good person, but even my own family can't see why I've declined that bungalow. It's hard. I just pray that God can see my hurt at life. Amen
God most certainly sees and is listening. I Know​ it's seems like just words, but remember, it's also reality!

Praying for you...