Horrible Sexual soul tie.

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Lenathabest

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Hello everyone. Im new to Christian chat forums and I would like to make a prayer request. To make a long story short, my soul tie was formed in adultery. I slept with another man, while being married, because I felt like I wasn't getting what I wanted at home. This man gave me an incurable disease that I can never get rid of. Herpes. Once I found out, i got really angry and publicly humiliated him by telling everyone that he had it while still wanting to be with him in the process. He also disrespected me by penetrating me with no protection knowing that it wasn't what I wanted to do. Even after all that I still wanted him and kept messing around with him knowing that he was no good for me. Whenever he wouldn't be texting me and would ignore my text messages I would get fake phone numbers and talk to him that way because any attention was satisfying for me. I would drive by his house for no reason at ALL. Ever since I slept with him ,I have serious demons tormenting me. I think about murdering him, disfiguring his face, and tortuing him. I also have thoughts of lesbian sex and feel like no one likes me. I often feel like I'm not pretty enough. I feel sad. I feel like I'm just worthless. I've been praying and I remove myself from social media and broke all contact with him.
 
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Wild

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So you're blaming him for not using protection, when you made the decision to cheat on your husband. Gee....guess you still wanted the D no matter what in the first place. You reap what you sow, there is no way around it.
 
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Lenathabest

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No. He penetrated me in a way that I did not consent to. What he did was not right. I know that i wasnt right but now i have a soul tie. Im asking for prayer, not opinions from people that only read half the post and form an opinion.
 
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Lenathabest said:
No. He penetrated me in a way that I did not consent to. What he did was not right. I know that i wasnt right but now i have a soul tie. Im asking for prayer, not opinions from people that only read half the post and form an opinion.
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are you saying he raped you?
 
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Trace85

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You will have no judgement coming from me. I will pray for you, and pray that you will find peace in this situation. Allow God to come into this situation, and he will guide you into what you need to do. Listen to him. I will pray for you!
 
Seekingfamily

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Please look up contrite heart, as I hear it coming from you.
Psalm 51:17​

The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit: a broken and a contrite heart, O God, thou wilt not despise.

Yes, my prayers are with you
 
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Wild

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Lenathabest said:
No. He penetrated me in a way that I did not consent to. What he did was not right. I know that i wasnt right but now i have a soul tie. Im asking for prayer, not opinions from people that only read half the post and form an opinion.
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You wanted to be penetrated, just with a condom on. Does not make it right. Shoud've resolved your issues with your husband instead of putting yourself in that position. I'm not forming a half baked opinion here, you were clearly being unfaithful.
 
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Meggido

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Wild said:
So you're blaming him for not using protection, when you made the decision to cheat on your husband. Gee....guess you still wanted the D no matter what in the first place. You reap what you sow, there is no way around it.
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truth should always be seasoned with grace....
 
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Wild

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Sometimes people need to learn the hard way, then getting a pat on the head and saying its ok.
 
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Meggido

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Wild said:
Sometimes people need to learn the hard way, then getting a pat on the head and saying its ok.
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there is a way to be as truthful as oyu were without the vulgarity and condemnation.....

She is reaping what she has sown....
 
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Trace85

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I do not think it is up to us to pass judgement. She has asked us to pray for her...and I think we should do just that. Pray for God's Mighty Hand on this
 
Seekingfamily

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I see no one saying it is okay, sin is never okay.
 
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NoNameMcgee

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Meggido said:
truth should always be seasoned with grace....
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hes not being the most loving
.. but hes also not lying....

the humble and meek should get grace (she seems to be this)

but the haughty and boastful DO need fear and a harsher message i think

so i dunno
 
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Wild

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I'm brutally honest. That is the way I am, and that is the way I will be for the rest of my life. Truth is truth , peoples feelings do not change it. Some people are gentle, some are not. I'm not. Good day.
 
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NoNameMcgee

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i will pray for you

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at least your spirit is contrite

and you know this was wrong

God can forgive you
 
blue_ladybug

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Sooo, you slept with another guy because hubby obviously couldn't satisfy you. You obviously willingly slept with another guy, without protection. Here's a dose of blunt honesty: you shouldn't have cheated, you SHOULD have used protection with the guy you cheated with, because now you have an incurable, deadly disease all because you were foolish and wanted your lust satisfied.. Don't depend on the guy to remember protection, because they rarely do. THEN, even though you're angry that he gave you a disease, you STILL wanted him, and in your own words, kept "messing around" with him.

You played with fire, and you got burned. :/ That's what happens when we give in to sin to satisfy our lusts. Pray to God and beg His forgiveness for cheating, and messing where you shouldn't have been messing to begin with. YOU need serious counseling, and so does hubby. And this other guy needs to make his sexual partners aware that he has a deadly incurable disease.

It's doubtful that demons are tormenting you. It's just your conscience kicking you in the ascot.. Hopefully you have learned some lessons from this fiasco, and won't repeat your mistakes again.

Lenathabest said:
Hello everyone. Im new to Christian chat forums and I would like to make a prayer request. To make a long story short, my soul tie was formed in adultery. I slept with another man, while being married, because I felt like I wasn't getting what I wanted at home. This man gave me an incurable disease that I can never get rid of. Herpes. Once I found out, i got really angry and publicly humiliated him by telling everyone that he had it while still wanting to be with him in the process. He also disrespected me by penetrating me with no protection knowing that it wasn't what I wanted to do. Even after all that I still wanted him and kept messing around with him knowing that he was no good for me. Whenever he wouldn't be texting me and would ignore my text messages I would get fake phone numbers and talk to him that way because any attention was satisfying for me. I would drive by his house for no reason at ALL. Ever since I slept with him ,I have serious demons tormenting me. I think about murdering him, disfiguring his face, and tortuing him. I also have thoughts of lesbian sex and feel like no one likes me. I often feel like I'm not pretty enough. I feel sad. I feel like I'm just worthless. I've been praying and I remove myself from social media and broke all contact with him.
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blue_ladybug

blue_ladybug

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People seem to forget that Jesus was harsh quite often with sinners.. AND He could also be blunt, just as Wild, myself and others here are..

NoNameMcgee said:
hes not being the most loving
.. but hes also not lying....

the humble and meek should get grace (she seems to be this)

but the haughty and boastful DO need fear and a harsher message i think

so i dunno
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blue_ladybug

blue_ladybug

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And by the way, there is no such thing as a soul tie. Sexual or otherwise..
 
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