My heart is aching with pain and I need help

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Mgbta

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Since I have married I have always struggle with problems. My husband and I have the same attitude problems. We don't respect each other and argue in front of the kids. I wish I can have someone to talk about but unfortunately I don't trust anyone to help me. I have prayed sometimes but I don't attend church frequently. Please help me... please pray for me
 
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Call upon the Lord and he will help you through it. He is aware of what you are going through and desires for you to lean on him. Try to pray as often as you can as well as your husband. I pray your marriage issues and anger tenancies are resolved for the better.
 
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Mgbta

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Thanks PryncceNY. I will try to pray, my anger and pride are big obstacles, but I will try. Thanks
 

tourist

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I have prayed for God to allow peace and understanding to flourish in you marriage. It is hard to have good communication in a marriage with lack of respect for each other. It would be well if you were each other's best friend. That would be a good place to start. Attending church frequently would probably not bring peace and tranquility in your marriage but having daily devotion, bible reading and contemplation, and prayer together would be very beneficial.
 
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Since I have married I have always struggle with problems. My husband and I have the same attitude problems. We don't respect each other and argue in front of the kids. I wish I can have someone to talk about but unfortunately I don't trust anyone to help me. I have prayed sometimes but I don't attend church frequently. Please help me... please pray for me
Remember what Paul taught us: Pray constantly (1 Thessalonians 5:17). The Lord will lead you. I do think it would be a good idea not to argue in front of your kids. Going to church would be an excellent idea.
 

levi85

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Lord we pray for Mgbta, let you heal her, physically, spiritually and emotional, yes Lord remove the pain and suffering from the heart and life of Mgbta. Lord we pray remove the difference between Mgbta and her husband and bless them to stop argument and live peacefully with love and resoect. Lord bless their married life , also bless Mgbta to have a Christian fellowship and grow spiritually. Lord please bless this prayer request and Mgbta, in Jesus Holy name, Amen!
 

littlestarsmum

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I’m so sorry to hear that, girl. I wish I could give you a hug. Love and respect is the key to have a good and happy marriage. Have you ever considered talking with a counselor? Do you think that's something that might be helpful for you personally? Do you think your husband might consider going with you? I just said a prayer for you and your husband, asking our Heavenly Father to comfort you daily with evidences of His great love and compassion. Hope you guys work through this soon. Sending hugs & prayers your way!