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Trace85

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Hey all! Before I ask everyone to pray I want to share a little bit about what I need prayer for. About two years ago my sister's husband was in a automobile accident in which an elderly couple was killed instantly. He was on drugs when it happened. It took about a year, but he was charged with vehicular homicide and was sentenced to 50 years in prison. They have a 4 year old son. They also were living with his parents. By the way my sister was addicted to drugs as well (still is). After the sentencing she got online and began talking to men. She met this one guy who lives in Mexico. He offered her to come live with him. Without hesitation she said yes, and he paid for her to get on a bus from Alabama and moved to Mexico. She left her son with his grandparents and moved to Mexico after three weeks of talking online. I found out after she moved what was going on, and I was furious with her to say the least. I was furious that she left her son, and that she moved to another country to be with a man she didn't even know. I called her, and told her what I thought, and she didn't like it. I did some research and it turns out this guy is from the United States, but he is in Mexico because he is running from the law. I told her, and she didn't care. She "loved" him. This guy also got her addicted to even more drugs. Fast forward to ten months later I get a call from my younger brother last Saturday. He tells me that she left him, and came across the border. He bought her a hotel room so she would be safe. He asked me if I would be willing to drive my car, and us go pick her up. He cannot drive because he has a disability. I hesitated because this wasn't the first time she has pulled a stunt like this. I have bailed her out several times of situations, and I didn't know if I wanted to do it again.

Something though that was bothering me is that if something happened to her, and I didn't do anything about it I would feel like it was my fault, and I didn't want anything to happen to her. I told him yes. Where we were going is a very dangerous part of Southern Texas (3 miles from the Mexico). A lot of drugs and violence occur in this area. I drove with my brother 17 hours (without sleep) to go pick her up. We picked her up and I drove another 17 hours (again with no sleep) back. I told her I would never do anything like this ever again. If she pulled another stunt like this she would have to figure out a way back home herself. When I saw her though I was instantly worried. She looked terrible. She is 34 and she looks like she is in her 60's. She has hepatitis, and cirrosis of the liver, and she probably only weighs like 90 pounds. She looked 100 times different 10 months ago. She actually looked her age back then, and now she doesn't. I could tell that she is really sick.

I ask that you pray for her, and her situation. Pray that she comes to know the Lord, and stop searching attention from all these men. Their are other stories I could get into, but it would make this post too long, and their is no reason to get into all of that. I just want her well, and I want her to know the Lord.
 

levi85

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Jul 2, 2013
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Father God we pray for this sister, let you please set her free from drugs, come into her life and bless her and family. Lord let you save her , have your grace upon her and bless her life and family. Let her not get into troubles and she stop seeking attention from men, but seek you, your love your will, your peace, your joy in her life. Lord we agree with this prayer and ask you please bless this prayer request. In Jesus Holy name, Amen!
 
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SweetmorningDew78

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Father God we pray for this sister, let you please set her free from drugs, come into her life and bless her and family. Lord let you save her , have your grace upon her and bless her life and family. Let her not get into troubles and she stop seeking attention from men, but seek you, your love your will, your peace, your joy in her life. Lord we agree with this prayer and ask you please bless this prayer request. In Jesus Holy name, Amen!
Amen!

God bless you,your sister and the rest of your family
 

Adstar

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Jul 24, 2016
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Hey all! Before I ask everyone to pray I want to share a little bit about what I need prayer for. About two years ago my sister's husband was in a automobile accident in which an elderly couple was killed instantly. He was on drugs when it happened. It took about a year, but he was charged with vehicular homicide and was sentenced to 50 years in prison. They have a 4 year old son. They also were living with his parents. By the way my sister was addicted to drugs as well (still is). After the sentencing she got online and began talking to men. She met this one guy who lives in Mexico. He offered her to come live with him. Without hesitation she said yes, and he paid for her to get on a bus from Alabama and moved to Mexico. She left her son with his grandparents and moved to Mexico after three weeks of talking online. I found out after she moved what was going on, and I was furious with her to say the least. I was furious that she left her son, and that she moved to another country to be with a man she didn't even know. I called her, and told her what I thought, and she didn't like it. I did some research and it turns out this guy is from the United States, but he is in Mexico because he is running from the law. I told her, and she didn't care. She "loved" him. This guy also got her addicted to even more drugs. Fast forward to ten months later I get a call from my younger brother last Saturday. He tells me that she left him, and came across the border. He bought her a hotel room so she would be safe. He asked me if I would be willing to drive my car, and us go pick her up. He cannot drive because he has a disability. I hesitated because this wasn't the first time she has pulled a stunt like this. I have bailed her out several times of situations, and I didn't know if I wanted to do it again.

Something though that was bothering me is that if something happened to her, and I didn't do anything about it I would feel like it was my fault, and I didn't want anything to happen to her. I told him yes. Where we were going is a very dangerous part of Southern Texas (3 miles from the Mexico). A lot of drugs and violence occur in this area. I drove with my brother 17 hours (without sleep) to go pick her up. We picked her up and I drove another 17 hours (again with no sleep) back. I told her I would never do anything like this ever again. If she pulled another stunt like this she would have to figure out a way back home herself. When I saw her though I was instantly worried. She looked terrible. She is 34 and she looks like she is in her 60's. She has hepatitis, and cirrosis of the liver, and she probably only weighs like 90 pounds. She looked 100 times different 10 months ago. She actually looked her age back then, and now she doesn't. I could tell that she is really sick.

I ask that you pray for her, and her situation. Pray that she comes to know the Lord, and stop searching attention from all these men. Their are other stories I could get into, but it would make this post too long, and their is no reason to get into all of that. I just want her well, and I want her to know the Lord.
It is a heart breaking situation when you have a family member who is a walking disaster area... Premature aging probably comes with meth use or something similar.. :(

May God give your wisdom in this situation..
 

slave

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Mar 20, 2015
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God never intends for us to spin our wheels, waste our days, trying to make others happy who can never be happy. I am not suggesting to give up here, on the contrary, I am seeking God's will in getting it done according to His will. This will take God leading your way in helping her, and we must pray as Christians that He becomes her answer; rather than simply receiving an answer God would afford her temporarily. God Bless you for asking for prayer, I hope many of us will help in this area..I will as well.

In reality, it doesn’t depend on us for victory. It’s not up to us; outside of what God makes clear for us to do...this intercessory prayer is clearly a right thing to do in victory!, and ending in anything He makes clear yet to do as well. But, ultimately victory and life comes from Our Father thru Jesus. Your last words in your post were the energy to my ears, when you said you, "want her to know the Lord." It is here that is my hope and goal.

Your good intentions are admirable, but productivity of your help will depend solely on spiritual righteousness which, then, will be effectual in both the practical matters, and the spiritual matters. You can temporarily "man-handle" morally a behavior and stake a claim in it for Christ, and it can even have some temporary results, but unless you change the cycle of her heart and thinking her choices will remain unchanged. Thus, we need to broaden the scope of our expectancies in these prayers for the wholeness of her person first, praying without doubt, and the blessings therein will follow.

Thus, as it is in your life, and in mine - in our relationship with God, so must it be in her life for victory to be received - Therefore, this is not a burden meant for you to carry, it is necessary for Him to carry this burden and appropriate a response to it thru you as He wills. So, let us pray not for answers, but rather pray that the answer in Jesus Christ will overcome all things in her life, and grant her health and prosperity as He has given us promise to. These concerns; not withstanding. This is what I pray for!

God’s greatest desire is to set us free. And God does use us to affect others thru our faithfulness in ministry and living as Christ lived which, in turn, propels that change. As an example, for some brave soul to be willing to say, “Stop, no more!” But, this thru righteousness.

If she is to choose what is better, and learn to set boundaries that will protect and limit the unhealthiness of her person; this God must apply to her thru righteousness, ( a right relationship to God). So I will pray for the dependency in Jesus, and ways to appropriate this thru your righteousness, as well.

Practically speaking, I do see the need to not feed her habit, enable her actions, or ignore dangerous signs, but all of this has to be done in the context of Supernatural spiritual effuse, and not our emotional human fleshly efforts in corrections. All wrapped in love. May God give you His insights and establish your steps in this. May He keep the love in your heart for all the people surrounding this so as to bring glory to the Father, and to bring all men to be reconciled to God. And I will pray for God's protection over her in the spiritual battle of influences in her mind as well.

I am praying for you both, stay encouraged!!...May God bless you and her, and may God touch the Mexican whom is an American in this situation as well.
:) Jesus is our answer and answers!
 
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