Feeling upset. Trying to figure out how to make this right.

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ManiaStar

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Last night I made an innocent mistake and now I feel I made my guy upset with me. He doesn't like what I did so I removed it. I wasn't trying to hide anything but now I see his point and why I shouldn't have posted it. I wasn't thinking but they're gone. Just feeling upset thinking now I ruined our relationship even though it was something so small.

Its really bothering me. I apologied several times last night. I'd never intentionally do anything to hurt him. I love him too much.

Please pray when he wakes up this morning he won't hold this against me. But he n I need to talk about a few things. He hasn't been wanting to talk about 1 thing and I haven't pushed him but am trying to be patient. But in the back of my mind I'm wondering. Plz pray he'll forgive me for the mistake and just be willing to hang out. I want to tell him I deleted the pic on this app. I love him very much and only want him.
 
levi85

levi85

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Father we pray let you heal the relationship of ManiaStar and her gug. Let her guy forgive her and start talking to her. Let their relationship have good understanding, love and respect. Lord please remove the things disturbing their minds and give your peace and joy. Lord let them be together forever happy. We agree bless ManiaStar and her guy in this matter. In Jesus Holy name, Amen!
 
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heartofdavid

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Give it to Jesus.

Get out with some believers and let them minister to you.

That's a Godly distraction. It works
 
blue_ladybug

blue_ladybug

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Get off the stupid apps!!!


ManiaStar said:
Last night I made an innocent mistake and now I feel I made my guy upset with me. He doesn't like what I did so I removed it. I wasn't trying to hide anything but now I see his point and why I shouldn't have posted it. I wasn't thinking but they're gone. Just feeling upset thinking now I ruined our relationship even though it was something so small.

Its really bothering me. I apologied several times last night. I'd never intentionally do anything to hurt him. I love him too much.

Please pray when he wakes up this morning he won't hold this against me. But he n I need to talk about a few things. He hasn't been wanting to talk about 1 thing and I haven't pushed him but am trying to be patient. But in the back of my mind I'm wondering. Plz pray he'll forgive me for the mistake and just be willing to hang out. I want to tell him I deleted the pic on this app. I love him very much and only want him.
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ManiaStar

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blue_ladybug said:
Get off the stupid apps!!!
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It was instagram. I posted a side shot of myself trying to grab his attention as he has an acct too but I didn't realize he doesn't use the app anymore. I figured he would see it and then I could show him the rest. I didn't want to post the pic on fb bc I have way too many people on there but instagram I only had 22 followers so figured I was safe.
 
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ManiaStar

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Btw it wasn't a bad pic. I was outside at a park.
 
blue_ladybug

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Doesn't matter whether it was a "bad" pic or not. Some guys just don't like their girls putting pictures out on social media for any weirdos (and there are many) on the internet to see..
 
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Didymus

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I assume you are not married to this guy- perhaps this is how God is telling you that this is not going to be a healthy relationship. People who get upset about harmless acts of fun and don't accept your sincere apology shouldn't get married to nice Christian women- they deserve someone like they are.

My kids bought me a t-shirt that says, "Yes it's true- I'm not on Facebook."
 
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