Thank you for the advice. To answer your question: no I wouldn't, it would break my heart and I'd definitely end the friendship. No, he doesn't know that I like him and I don't want to tell him because I see no point in telling him. He lives in a complete different country and I'm against long distance dating. So that's the reason why I think I can never have him. But he's trying really hard to get into military and maybe I'm just dreaming... but there are lots of US military bases in my country and soldiers are allowed to live overseas. So maybe he's secretly trying to do that. The chances are extremely low, but who knows, right?
Yes it does sound like a really difficult situation.Question....how do you know he doesn't actually like you??
When you like someone from another country it certainly make the whole thing very hard coz I have friends who have done it and all they can do is chat via webcam everyday and miss eachother terribly...One of the ladies eventually moved to the guys country and they got married there.
My personal view is make time to spend with god a spend ask god for specific things which only he can do to let you know if it is his will or not..god is always more than happy to confirm things to us because once your totally honest with yourself before god he will honour this and Jesus said "my sheep hear my voice"..so I am confident god will let you know either way..as sometimes you know how our hearts work....there's sometimes that feeling of ...what if...."god wants your heart and mind stable in him and not have those thoughts that make you constantly think..well maybe it is gods will...well maybe it isn't gods we'll ect
I do sense the turmoil within you and god loves you too much to let you stay in this state.
..and anytime you feel the need to send us a message needing advice or prayer ect pls don't hesitate as we care about you and I know how it feels to be your situation as I'm sure some of those who have responded to your prayer request have also too