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cheli

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I have been divorced for 6years. I was trying to rebuild and thrive. I was OK being single but with time now I'm 34 I feel so awkward horribly lonely no husband no kids. I recently got in a terrible car accident soon after I got fired. I feel numb just shattered nothing God I have nothing.no husband kids job nothing nothing.
 

changfeng

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My dear sister, our heart can only got satisfied in our lord. I belive our father will prepare for you someday.what only you need to do is to prepare yourself for the person god will prepared for you .Wish god be with you !
 
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SweetmorningDew78

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Sis :) I am 39 I have no husband,no kids and no savings :) I started working when I was 21. I have 8 siblings + my parents 10 people on my shoulder...I am the primary breadwinner. I provide for my family everything...Tuition fees,clothes,food and bills. And the only treat I can give to myself is a cup of Mcflurry Oreo twice a month :)

I feel lonely sometimes but I don't allow self-pity to consume me. There's so much to be thankful for :)

I've got nothing but I've got love and this world is thirsty for love. Use this opportunity the Lord gives you to spread that love... it doesn't matter where you are and what is your situation right now. Worrying,pitying yourself won't help. As long as you are still breathing there is still hope sis... :) Draw yourself closer to God although some days will still be tough, know that God is with you and HE is your strength.Give it all to God. The process of healing may take time...but believe that God is working and He knows what is best for you.

God bless you sis :)

Father God,I lift up to you my sister Cheli please send love into her heart and fill her heart speak to her heart that she will receive your hope in her heart. Thank you Lord in Jesus name Amen!
 
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I have been divorced for 6years. I was trying to rebuild and thrive. I was OK being single but with time now I'm 34 I feel so awkward horribly lonely no husband no kids. I recently got in a terrible car accident soon after I got fired. I feel numb just shattered nothing God I have nothing.no husband kids job nothing nothing.
I've always been single and have never felt awkward.
 
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Stewart

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I have been divorced for 6years. I was trying to rebuild and thrive. I was OK being single but with time now I'm 34 I feel so awkward horribly lonely no husband no kids. I recently got in a terrible car accident soon after I got fired. I feel numb just shattered nothing God I have nothing.no husband kids job nothing nothing.

Hi I understand
There are many with the same feelings as you.God understands what you're going through and I know women who are over 50 and never even had a boyfriend before some are still virgins..no man ..no kids...yet they have found peace in God and have been able to find contentment in the Lord in spite of this and have entrusted their lives to god.Your only 34 so you are still in the age bracket to still have kids and I know there is often the added pressure of the bio logical clock clicking and many churches there are more women than men.
As you can see from some of the other comments that others share the same experience as you which you can draw comfort and there is empathy here.Yes I can be lonely and even awkward at times and at times It can be hard ie sumner times when you can see couples everywhere.
We fully understand and i will remember you in my prayers!!
 

azlightsout

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I have been divorced for 6years. I was trying to rebuild and thrive. I was OK being single but with time now I'm 34 I feel so awkward horribly lonely no husband no kids. I recently got in a terrible car accident soon after I got fired. I feel numb just shattered nothing God I have nothing.no husband kids job nothing nothing.
Marry JESUS and he will take care of the rest . ONLY 1 WAY TO HEAVEN .
 

levi85

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Jul 2, 2013
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Lord please bless Cheli, let loneliness leave her, bless with a job, husband and kids. Lord let your grace be upon Cheli and help her in everything, Bless to live a peaceful and worthy life for you. In Jesus true name, Amen!
 

littlestarsmum

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Oct 19, 2016
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I’m so sorry to hear that, girl. My heart ached as I read your post, and I wish I could give you a hug. I know how difficult and frustrating it must be for you. I just said a prayer for you, asking the Lord to surround you with His comfort and fulfill His plans in your life. Remember that no detail of our lives can ever escape God’s notice and He is able to work out everything good for you. I know it’s not easy, but I urge you to stay strong in Him. May your confidence in God’s grace and goodness increase as you look to Him in faith. Hugs!
 

Zachary24

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Jul 26, 2017
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I have prayed for you. God Bless you