My dear Father God please help,jesussavesbro,by calming him with thoughts of innocence,and child like things,and of relaxation to have him come to understand that these "thoughts" do not rule him,he has you God and can choose to be "peculiar" in that he seeks you instead of dwelling on "thoughts",I too have a touch of perfectionist ways about me but all in all I have come to realize that there are just some things that cannot be changed nor done in a perfect manner,"True" perfection is your grace God for through Jesus,when we are weak your grace is made perfect,help him to let go of doing things perfectly and instead walk alongside you God for there is none perfect no not one,except you God as it written"as for God's way his way is "Perfect",so have him seek "perfection" in your grace and word,not in mere actions,in Jesus's holy name I humbly pray,AMEN.