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Demi777

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Hey all
My relationship went down the rocks rapidly...and indeed because of me
A lady opened important mail and it was obvious to see so i told her that we know she opened it and we are mad that she did that
Well then she sent my boyfriend a voice clip calling my mother horrible names like whore and stuff.
I got really upset but he wanted to reason with her.
Well she has made our life hell even before i was born when it was just my brother. Theyve caused hell all my life and before.
So i reminded him of things theyve (that woman and her mom) done. But he kept on that her side was important though everyone knows that shes a liar, and to be honest, theres no way for me ro excuse talking about my mom like that.

Well i got all fed up and got into a fight. Just a few days ago a lady called me reta.... and he didnt do anything to protect me so i told him that it sickens me that he has no pride or anYthing else...and saying he has no backboone at all etc.
I am calmed down but he is still nowhere close

Please pray
 

G00WZ

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Alright i will pray... People make mistakes though, don't beat yourself up about it
 
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Hey all
My relationship went down the rocks rapidly...and indeed because of me
A lady opened important mail and it was obvious to see so i told her that we know she opened it and we are mad that she did that
Well then she sent my boyfriend a voice clip calling my mother horrible names like whore and stuff.
I got really upset but he wanted to reason with her.
Well she has made our life hell even before i was born when it was just my brother. Theyve caused hell all my life and before.
So i reminded him of things theyve (that woman and her mom) done. But he kept on that her side was important though everyone knows that shes a liar, and to be honest, theres no way for me ro excuse talking about my mom like that.

Well i got all fed up and got into a fight. Just a few days ago a lady called me reta.... and he didnt do anything to protect me so i told him that it sickens me that he has no pride or anYthing else...and saying he has no backboone at all etc.
I am calmed down but he is still nowhere close

Please pray
May the Lord comfort you, in this hurt and pain you are feeling.
There is a reality to our lives. We can only change our responses to others and not their
responses to us.

Seeing how words can build up, reach out and minister to others is important.
Strong words sent to destroy and harm do no one any favours. They are normally lies, and
are weapons used because of hurt.

We can only start from where we are. You have to imagine no one else around is going to
change, but you can. You can be a light in a dark place, a beacon of truth and acceptance,
where before there is only pain and lashing out. This place can only be found through forgiveness
and loving people despite their sins, seeing their hurts and pain that imprison them, their bitterness
that tears them down.

When the place of peace rests within, you see things a lot more clearly.
People are often victims of their circumstance and opportunities and even skills or lack of them.
What is normally lacking is confidence and love, a safe place, a place where support exists, rather
they find themselves disappointed in a kind of self inflicted hell. Not surprisingly things go rather
pear shaped very quickly.

The Lords love is stunning, that He would shine a light into our hearts, and give us hope that
what appears impossible and lost can be turned around.

I hope this gives you hope, and comfort, for great is the love Christ has put in your heart,
and His forgiveness is always there to those with an honest open heart. God bless.
 

levi85

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Lord we pray, bless Demi777, in this matter. In Jesus Holy name, Amen!
 
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kittycat7

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#6
The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.
 

Zachary24

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I have prayed for you. God Bless you.
 
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OK. It's over. Now, what is the lesson you will be taking away from this episode that will effect a different and more positive outcome if you encounter a similar situation in the future?

Lessons in life should only be seen as bad things if we do not learn from them. In such a case, we are simply doomed to have to repeat them again...... and possibly, again, and again.
 

Demi777

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Oct 13, 2014
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#9
OK. It's over. Now, what is the lesson you will be taking away from this episode that will effect a different and more positive outcome if you encounter a similar situation in the future?

Lessons in life should only be seen as bad things if we do not learn from them. In such a case, we are simply doomed to have to repeat them again...... and possibly, again, and again.
Hey fact is it isnt over because we dont give up likw that.
We had a long talk about issues and solving them and now we aim to work everything better
It got both of us to think
 

Demi777

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Oct 13, 2014
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Thanks everyonw we worked it all out. Praise God