Feeling very depressed and confused

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AuntieAnt

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A genuine friend would have already shared the feelings of their heart. It is easy for a true friend to say, "I love you."

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A genuine friend would have already shared the feelings of their heart. It is easy for a true friend to say, "I love you."

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I do never judge. Some love emotionally, some by will. Some love quietly, some by words. That's equal.

Who is now a good match to whome, is another question. I am not going into this.

The reason for my message is:

AuntieAnt

Have you been in the holy city?
 
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Ugly

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Yesterday was supposed to be a good day. Turned out horrible and then I had plenty of time to think and got overly depressed.

I feel like God has been leading me on a journey with a certain someone and keeps bringing me back to him giving me peace sometimes about me n him. Yet, I feel like I’m getting mixed signals sometimes from him and nothing was ever verbally stated about what type of relationship we’re in. I had asked him several months ago and he stated he doesn’t like labels and it’s strange to say we’re dating since we’ve been friends for so long. Our relationship has improved and he has told a few people that we are together but the person has had to ask more then once so in my mind, he’s trying to figure out if he wants people to think we are together or not. But, I was hoping after all this time that has passed since I last asked him, that he’d verbally tell me.

Am I looking too much into it?? Idk what to really think. I’m still feeling so confused many times and just wish he’d be open with me and tell me what he’s thinking and feeling. It’s not fair to me. I feel we are together bc of kissing/hugging/cuddling, etc, but sometimes when I see him, we can go a few times w/o kissing. Not that I don’t want to, but when he hug goodnight, he’s a lot taller then me. I can’t exactly reach up to kiss him but idk what to do.
I went through something similar. All that came out of it was me being used and nothing ever coming out of it.
If a person isn't willing to be plain and obvious about where you stand there's a reason. If someone won't put a "label" on your relationship it's so they don't have to commit except when it's convenient for them. They push you away and pull you close at the same time. That way you're there when they want you, but when they don't they remind you there's nothing official. Very manipulative.
 
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AuntieAnt

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I do never judge. Some love emotionally, some by will. Some love quietly, some by words. That's equal.

Who is now a good match to whome, is another question. I am not going into this.

The reason for my message is:

AuntieAnt

Have you been in the holy city?
We are to judge ourselves. Am I being guided by my flesh (emotions, own understanding, intellect, philosophy, impulses, etc) or by the Spirit of the Living God (eternal Truth)?

I agree with you that people show love in various ways. But our dear sister ManiaStar is depressed because she fears to even address this man about love. Ask her why she is afraid.

As for your question about the Holy City, start another thread regarding it. I don't want to hijack our sister's post. :)
 
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We are to judge ourselves. Am I being guided by my flesh (emotions, own understanding, intellect, philosophy, impulses, etc) or by the Spirit of the Living God (eternal Truth)?

I agree with you that people show love in various ways. But our dear sister ManiaStar is depressed because she fears to even address this man about love. Ask her why she is afraid.

As for your question about the Holy City, start another thread regarding it. I don't want to hijack our sister's post. :)
You say some very interesting points. Thank you.

Concerning the Holy City and your suggestion:

I will. I'm glad for that offer. Thank you. But it makes only sense, if you had a nde and if have you been in the Holy City. Have you been?