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    Default How can i stop having feeling bad feelings towards my daughters partner?

    Her partner had a disagreement with me and now I am banned from the house and am struggling to see my four grandchildren, I want to sort this out but he has blanked me and will not talk, my daughter worships him and is under his control. I know I could sort things out if it were not for his interference, I can not stop feeling so bitter and angry I know the bible says to forgive and love your enemies but I am unable to do that.

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    You're unwilling not unable.

    I don't know what the disagreement was but unfortunately if she's chosen to follow his lead, you'll have to as well to some degree. The consequences are what you're now paying.

    It's not fair perhaps but she's an independent from you. Respect of facts goes a long way.
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    Ask God to show you how to forgive. You open doors to Satanic torment, for all of you, if you refuse to to do so. We had a sermon on this very topic today. Many wept in church. It is not an easy thing to do; yet very necessary. Pray blessings over your daughter and her partner...otherwise you think demonic thoughts...and that is agreeance with the enemy...NOT what you want. Pray that her partner have a change of heart, that he understands your intentions and hears your broken heart cries. Pray that he learns of Jesus and learns the walk of love. Pray for your daughter to be gracious and in the Word as well as for the children to know their Lord and Savior. IN Jesus name, I pray. Amen -student
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    Lord bless mermais, and this prayer, yes Lord in Jesus Holy name, Amen!
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    Default Re: How can i stop having feeling bad feelings towards my daughters partner?

    Thankyou for all your answers, I am trying, my daughter was a Christian but is not too strong at the moment.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mermais View Post
    Thankyou for all your answers, I am trying, my daughter was a Christian but is not too strong at the moment.
    You must stand in the gap for them both...and pray for their hearts to be turned back to Jesus. My daughter witnessed to me in 3rd grade. Today she allows her children many liberties she once knew better about. I try to tell her. I, too, stand in the gap to help her and them. She has time of prayer in the morning, and God is faithful. We must stand for them though... Be blessed! -student

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    Default Re: How can i stop having feeling bad feelings towards my daughters partner?

    Quote Originally Posted by mermais View Post
    Her partner had a disagreement with me and now I am banned from the house and am struggling to see my four grandchildren, I want to sort this out but he has blanked me and will not talk, my daughter worships him and is under his control. I know I could sort things out if it were not for his interference, I can not stop feeling so bitter and angry I know the bible says to forgive and love your enemies but I am unable to do that.
    Forgiveness is not just a thought we speak to ourselves.
    True forgiveness is spiritual.
    One must pray fervently for the Lord to cleanse you of bitterness
    in your heart.
    Prayer is the only way forward for both yourself and your antagonist.
    Pray for him. Pray for the Lord to soften his heart and to change him
    for the better.

    Let go of your anger and seek comfort and peace in the Lord.
    Your testimony is on show to these family members.
    Read Romans chapter 12 and do it.
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    Default Re: How can i stop having feeling bad feelings towards my daughters partner?

    First of all, you don't have to agree with him.

    But you have to know, that every personal and emotional attachment will hinder the Love and Truth of God for you to work out.


    Matthew 6:14King James Version (KJV)
    14 For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you:

    As long you hold a grudge, you are hindering yourself to remain/abide in the Christ Body and Christ Family.

    God said to Dr. Petti Wagner

    Free Christian Teaching TV - The Story Of Dr Petti Wagner, USA

    "The Lord impressed on me that I should forgive all those who had been responsible for my kidnapping and murder. I could not understand this. 'Why?' I said. 'If I could pray, I would be praying for myself!' God said, 'If you do not pray and forgive them right now, then it will interfere with the work you and I have to do together'. I said, 'Lord, I do not know how to pray'. He responded, 'I will teach you'. He told me to say, 'God forgive them, they knew not what they were doing'."

    Nothing wrong in itself, if your daughter admires her boyfriend. That's good. Actually that's very good. The way it should be.

    God loves him as he loves your daughter. His Agape Love is beyond all that.

    And remember: the ideal relationship is the one that works towards Christ and his covenant in and through marriage.


    Ephesians 5:22-33King James Version (KJV)
    22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.

    23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.

    24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.
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    let him go = and let Jesus take control in your heart...allow Him to take complete control
    of this situation, and all will be well...submit yourself and emotions to Him, and He will
    'fix' this situation,,.= FAITH...

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    Nothing is impossible with God..
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    Default Re: How can i stop having feeling bad feelings towards my daughters partner?

    GLORY TO GOD


    Forgiveness Prayer:

    Lord Jesus, Divine Forgiver; make me an instrument of forgiveness
    This is the first day of the rest of my life.
    I forgive those who have hurt me deeply,
    I am leaving behind those things of the past and all my past failures and sins.
    I'm pressing on today, with a new beginning in You.
    Have your way, clear my conscience and mend my broken heart.
    Put joy where sorrow once rested.- In Jesus Name AMEN


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