Going through rough times.

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DeQuonS

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Jan 21, 2018
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My name is DeQuon Sargent and I shabby always made the best decision but always had great intentions. In 2016 I had a very beautiful girlfriend and she had dreams of making a YouTube channel and modeling unfortunately her hours at work got cut we had this nice apartment and she also need a car. Me being the go getter I am I picked up another job and started hustling also. I knew it was wrong but before I would let her give up on her dreams I would do anything to show her how much I support her and believed in her. Things just started to get better but me and her cousin weee out one night and some old friends in high school set us up for no reason. I was shot 6 times in my back and her cousin was shot once in the neck and died. I’m paralyzed from the waist down and working hard on recovering and getting back on my feet. I would appreciate all prayers for healing. Even when I was doing wrong I prayed to God he protected me because I knew it was wrong and I wa only trying to get through rough times. Fast forward to now I use to pray everyday he keep me and my girlfriend bond strong because she did stick around longer than any young woman would. But recently she left me with no real reason and got back with her ex who just got out of jail not even a week after we broke up. I know he is not the one for her, but I wouldn’t break them up or wish bad on her I still pray she finds her way in life and eventually comes back to me. I’m asking for prayers because I’m still deeply in love with her and I just want my girlfriend back but I know if I don’t heal I won’t get her back. So I’m asking for prayer in healing, wisdom, and strength to get through this hard time. Please pray that she comes back if it’s in his will! We were so perfect together and I know she’s just lost right now and trying to forget the feelings we have for each other.
 

levi85

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Lord bless DequonS and this prayer. In Jesus lovingname, Amen!
 

Silverwings

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Dear Lord, please help this young man to heal from the wounds inflicted upon him, help him to recover from the loss of his girlfriend, who is not worthy of his love, help him to establish a new life, in you, amen.
 

Jess

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You are in my prayers. Believe that God use the circumstances in our lives to bring us where we need to be. There are a lot if questions why we endure hardship. Why me? Why this? Often our circumstances lead us to a point in our lives where God can get our attention or mold our hearts and minds or make us volnerable enough to be shaped and molded into someone God can use. It is very hard but we end up on an amazing journey through faith
 

DeQuonS

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Jan 21, 2018
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Thank you all for taking time out to reply to me. Is it possible that she is just lost? I don’t want to make it seem like she’s a bad person for giving up me. For a while I let this injury bring me down, I wasn’t as confident in myself anymore wasn’t putting in as much as I should have been to get better. When we broke up I reached out so much just trying to let her know how i felt about her and it may have pushed her away further. Because she still had self issues she has been trying to figure out in her life also. I put myself at risk to support a dream she had and she knows that still to this day I don’t wish any bad luck on her I actually still pray along with her mother that we both get stronger so one day we can be together again. She is my heart it’s a reason I worked 2 Jobs for us and even put my life at risk to make up for our short comings I prayed even before this injury for us because I realized how good we were together always pushing each other to grow. And she didn’t like that I was the one chasing the money she wanted to help but I watch her give every dollar she had at the time to her family and they never made attempts to pay her back. I just wanted to be there for her like no one else had been before. I want to heal and walk again so bad because I’m only 22 and I spent my whole time after graduation working and trying provide for others who left me when this happened. I never got to stop and enjoy myself doing what I want or experiencing the things I always wanted to. It’s so hard because the more I look for answers or closure the worse things get. I’m fighting this battle all alone with very little support it’s been a year and 5 months since my injury I’m just in need of a blessing and/ or a sign from God that everything will be alright it’s too much stress for me to handle I’m to young and to inexperienced to hear God myself I’m trying but I don’t know how hear him. I just want to know where do I go from him, I workout eat healthy and try my best to make progress. But as soon as I make a little gain I take a greater lost. Reason I’m stressing about my ex is because for a year she stuck by my side I know she loves me a lot but right when I reached a part in recovery where I need her the most she’s gone, and I know I can do this alone or someone will come along but I really feel she’s the one for me when I was laying on the ground dying I ask God for strength to get through this. No lie I really did! And as I felt my life leaving my body he gave me a reason to breathe all I could see was her face and how hurt she would be if I left her without giving it the fight of my life. I never passed out while waiting on someone to find my body or on the way to the hospital which I had to be flown to. I remember everything from that night, I died for 1 minuet as soon as I made it to the hospital they told my mom I probably won’t make it through surgery but when I finally woke up there were so many doctors and my family standing around me I didn’t look at any of them because all I saw was her standing right next to me so scared. All I could do was reach my hand out to her because I knew she saved my life that night and she wasn’t even there. I don’t want anyone else but her because I’ll never love anyone as much as I love her. But nobody understands that no matter what I tell them they say she doesn’t deserve me. I feel we deserve each other and how can I blame someone so young who doesn’t know where her life is going now that the only person who supported her can’t even support his self right now. But now she talks to me like I don’t even matter anymore and got with her ex only a week after we broke up. Maybe it’s to hide how she feels about me, which I believe because he just got out of jails for 2 years and she knows he can’t support her like I did but I can’t get her to see me anymore and it hurts.
 

slave

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Mar 20, 2015
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Have you considered that since God has allowed you to go thru these trials He may have a purpose for them to serve? Perhaps He would have you no longer seek Him for His blessings; for it is then you would have time to seek Him for Himself. (?). The root of faith is the knowledge of a person, and one of the biggest stumbling blocks is the idea that God is sure to lead us to success. But life is not about succeeding, it is about Success. Success, as a by-product therefore succeeds. Success is only found in the person and relationship therein of Jesus Christ, who affords us the relationship with Our Father via the Holy Spirit.

Thus, when properly aligned to God:

(James 1:2-6): ...New American Standard Bible (NASB)


2 Consider it all joy, my brethren, when you encounter various trials, 3 knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance. 4 And let endurance have its perfect result, so that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.

5 But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all generously and without reproach, and it will be given to him. 6 But he must ask in faith without any doubting, for the one who doubts is like the surf of the sea, driven and tossed by the wind.

"Father, we want Success for DeQuon in all things, including his health and relationships on earth. So heal him, and establish his steps. And You have told us that this is the testimony: God has given us eternal life, and this life is in His Son. He who has the Son has life; he who does not have the Son of God does not have life." (1 John 511-12). If God is for us then who can be against us? It is from this premise we ask for Your power to serve DeQuon in His prayer requests.

Father, I ask you to open up Your hand of love to Him even more, as to what Your will for Him is, to prosper Him and to give him hope and a future. But Father, I also know by Your hand in my life, that this is only possible in Jesus Christ and our death and resurrection based on Your history thru Christ Jesus. Lord, I ask You to answer each and every prayer request concerning his health, and lead Him in all endeavors in the area of relationships on earth, for this is Your will. And Lord, I ask you to bring DeQuon to a point capable of receiving the fullness of Yourself as this too is Your will. I pray all these things in the name of Jesus - Amen."


 
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