Roninbama,
It is God's will that your marriage would be restored, and for you and your wife to come to a full knowledge of the truth! You can find peace and joy in the fact that God's will is aligned with yours, even if the truth of that has not manifested yet--Glory!
Second, you are absolutely right--you are under demonic oppression. The Bible tells us not to give the devil a foothold, and because of your situation there are so MANY footholds for the devil to hang on to. Let's put an end to that right now!
Father God, we know that the devil prowls like a roaring lion, seeking who he will devour. Right now, Father, the devil has his eyes on Roninbama. By the power and blood of Jesus, we render the devil DEFEATED now! We BIND him of his power, and STRIP him of his authority, and BREAK the chains of darkness over Roninbama and his wife. We command this NOW in Jesus name and by his blood!
Roninbama--the Bible says that when a devil is cast out, it comes back with seven more. You are truly in a spiritual battle, so make sure to take your authority in the power and blood of Jesus' name AT LEAST daily! This is spiritual warfare, and we know that the war ends in victory, but that doesn't mean that we don't have to fight for it! Don't give up!!!!!!!!!!! Be sure to put on the armor of God everyday, and never be caught without your sword (the word of God). Spend time in worship and prayer. Fast frequently. Listen to ministers and prophets of truth. Fill your life with the Holy Spirit, because darkness flees from the light.
Stand on God's promises of restoration. Find verses that offer hope and promises of what you are believing for. Write them down, remind God of them daily, and use them to defend yourself and your faith when the devil comes prowling. He will try to talk you out of your victory every chance he gets. Don't let him!
Father God, by the power and authority given to me in Christ Jesus, I come before you on behalf of Roninbama. We know it is your will to give your children fullness of life, so that they can be a testimony to your power and goodness, and so that they can preach the gospel unhindered, and in the fullness of the anointing of your holy spirit. Father God, a broken marriage is not a testimony to your goodness and power, so for that reason, we beseech you to bring a full restoration and healing to this marriage! Father God, I lift up Roninbama to you, that you would cover him with the anointing of your holy spirit, fill him with your light, your peace, your love and your forgiveness. If there would be anything in him that you find unpleasing Lord, that you would judge him fully, so that he can come to repentance before the cross of Christ and be fully restored--that there would be nothing to hinder his prayers of the power of your spirit in his life. Father God, if it be his wife that sins, we ask that you heap burning coals upon her head for her transgressions, that she would be fully convicted of her sin so that she would turn from the evil and fix her eyes on Jesus.
Father God, I pray for an anointing of healing, love, compassion, forgiveness, kindness, goodness, patience, joy, peace, faithfulness, and gentleness to fall upon them and fill their hearts. Help them to forget why they separated in the first place, and just look forward, forever fixed on the cross of Christ and the abundant life you have promised. Raise this family up to be a living testimony and a sacrifice of praise for who you are, what you've done, and all that you continue to do! Glory to God! Bind them together with unbreakable bonds of love, so that any attack of the devil only makes them a stronger together. Father God, we know that the prayers of one person are strong, but the prayers of two are multiplied in power. Father God, Roninbama needs the power of his wife's faithfulness to strengthen their ministry and testimony for the kingdom of God. You are not being glorified in this season of sadness and sorrow, so in the name of Jesus and by the power of his blood I proclaim a new season of Joy, gladness, and reunion to your Glory! Glory to God! Amen!
Roninbama--I am standing with you in faith that your marriage will be restored. Your fight is not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, powers and rulers of darkness. Fight for your wife, but not as much in the natural as in the the spiritual. Jesus said, "In this world you will have trouble, but take heart! I have overcome the world!!!!"