I am still struggling w/ this whole thing w/ this guy that I used to date. I thought I was 100% healed until today. Then the anger/frustration and hurt came all back.
I wrote on the "Notes" on my phone a text I was planning on sending him, But, I knew it was really harsh, so, since I went to the park today w/ my dog and we went on a nice hike, I took that time to pray. Not only for him and me, but for various different people as well. It was a good prayer time w/ God But, while praying, I asked God if I should send him this text or not and asked him to please give me an answer within 2 hours. Well, God did better then that. He gave me an answer within 5-10 minutes and his answer was no, don't send it, so I didn't.
God is still keeping the door open to this guy and I know why, well, there's several reasons why but, I just need the patience to continue to wait as God has this under his control. I know he does.
Praying today while walking w/ my dog, was Great. I need more days like that.
But, please pray for myself, this guy and just that I'll be able to accept what is going on now and let God handle all this. I have a terrible habit of giving this to God and then taking it back. What I've learned from doing that though, is, things backfire and can backfire badly.
I am just struggling w/ him and being w/ this new girl. He's Not dating her. He just wants a sexual friendship w/ her w/o any commitment.
Also, w/ what I wrote down in my note today, I do eventually want to ask him about it because it's necessary and I deserve an answer.
I'm afraid when it comes time to downhill mountain biking to start. I told him I never want to see her again and he knows that fully yet, he wants her to try it so I don't know how that's going to work and honestly am a little afraid but, I will put my foot down if I have to and then he'll have to make a choice.
But, for right now, I really really could just some clarity and some peace of mind/body bc although I felt better earlier right after I prayed, am not doing ok now.
I wrote on the "Notes" on my phone a text I was planning on sending him, But, I knew it was really harsh, so, since I went to the park today w/ my dog and we went on a nice hike, I took that time to pray. Not only for him and me, but for various different people as well. It was a good prayer time w/ God But, while praying, I asked God if I should send him this text or not and asked him to please give me an answer within 2 hours. Well, God did better then that. He gave me an answer within 5-10 minutes and his answer was no, don't send it, so I didn't.
God is still keeping the door open to this guy and I know why, well, there's several reasons why but, I just need the patience to continue to wait as God has this under his control. I know he does.
Praying today while walking w/ my dog, was Great. I need more days like that.
But, please pray for myself, this guy and just that I'll be able to accept what is going on now and let God handle all this. I have a terrible habit of giving this to God and then taking it back. What I've learned from doing that though, is, things backfire and can backfire badly.
I am just struggling w/ him and being w/ this new girl. He's Not dating her. He just wants a sexual friendship w/ her w/o any commitment.
Also, w/ what I wrote down in my note today, I do eventually want to ask him about it because it's necessary and I deserve an answer.
I'm afraid when it comes time to downhill mountain biking to start. I told him I never want to see her again and he knows that fully yet, he wants her to try it so I don't know how that's going to work and honestly am a little afraid but, I will put my foot down if I have to and then he'll have to make a choice.
But, for right now, I really really could just some clarity and some peace of mind/body bc although I felt better earlier right after I prayed, am not doing ok now.