I really need a way forward

Hi All, Im abit uptight tonight. I am so patient with things, But my partner who is also my carer wants to marry me. The problem is we are in debt for paying for bills etc. We really need help so that we can move forward. wE live in a housing assocation house and have been trying to move for years now. Everything is getting bit to much for me. We need god to provide us with a way out from ouir awful neighbouirhood. Its terrible. We love each other alot. I am trying my best to think about god, god knows I am faithful, but my partner is very anxious which doesnt help me. We dont want to spend another summer here with oiur loud neighbour trying to intimidate us by talking loud in the garden.Hope you understand God. Amen

Have you tried talking to your church Pastor or Church coucellor about your issues, I was amazed at how much they were able to help us. Churches often have there own housing units they rent out did you know that or atleast the ones I know of in Vancouver, BC that are a bit on the bigger side do. Reach out to your church and see if they can refer or recommend you to something they know of. The other thing you may wanna consider is applying for another housing association directly to that association, be relentless and pray like you've never prayed before. God see's you and knows your desires, but all things I have learned come in his time. When you look back later on in life you will understand why... timing? Married or not the bills still need to get paid or perhaps you may have to do what I had to 4 years ago and declare bankruptcy. It was hard, but gave me a chance at a fresh start I really needed it was my last resort. They let you keep your vehicle so you can get to work or look for work, your furniture usually all of it, your clothes, but every where is different so do your homework! Just the debt goes and your credit is scarred for 7 years which its probably already scarred if your behind or there is always credit councelling it can be an option, it didn't work for me, but it did for a friend of mine, but I would do this individually probably. Look carefully into all your options to see what will work best for you. There is no right or wrong ... only what will work for you and keep God in the midst of all your decisions. Good Luck with everything. This is only some suggestions... you can leave em or take em. Either way I will pray for you. Good Luck!

OOOOps.... I missed the fact you wanna marry yor Pastor bit, Forgive me please. Pray and look at all your options as I stated above. Or try posting an add in the church or a larger Church... our congregation is 2000 people so I don't know how big your congregation is... Just another suggestion. God Bless you both and Good Luck!

once again if I have misunderstood who you are marrying...please forgive me. lol

hello,
Please write me. Raja