help with a stupid friend!

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goth4god

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so. I recently introduced my best female and best guy friend to one another.
best female friend lives in California near me
Best guy friend lives in Texas, and I haven't even met him.

within a week of knowing each other (only talking on the phone and texting) they started going out. I am not against dating online, my bf lives in Virgina. I am against them going out so quickly. It took me and my bf a year and a half to become a couple, not 2 weeks.

well, the other day they just celebrated their 2 month anniversary. Awesome! =]
but what concerns me is that they are planning to get married in January, when the guy comes to move in with my friend and her parents. And by then they will only have met twice in person. o.0

my female friend is pretty clingy, and needs a guy to feel good about herself. She has always had a bf since I have known her, and basically had 3 in a month. (kinda complicated) She has only had 4 total, and doesn't even count one of them, cuz they never "officially"went out. but she used the poor kid, so I count him. She also is kind of bratty, and needs to grow up. she is an only child and is used to getting a lot of stuff without having to work for it, or if she works for it, it is barely anything.

My male friend is a pretty awesome down to earth guy who is used to being poor and working for what he gets. I don't know his history with girls, but I know he hates it when she talks about her exs (cuz she is still friends with them) and so they decied to just avoid the subject all together.

I would love it if you could pray for them, that they listen to God and follow His will.
Also that I could have strength and curage to tell them what I think.
I would also LOVE your opinion on the subject, since I am not sure if me thinking this whole thing seems stupid is right.

thanks!
 
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goth4god

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I just don't want to come off sounding like a jerk and making them mad and losing 2 of my best friends.
just they are going too fast, I think.
and I don't want to sound like I am 'holier' than them by telling them I feel it is wrong. bleh.

also, if you have any questions regarding the relationship, feel free to ask and I will try to explain it to you.
 

pickles

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Apr 20, 2009
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Praying for them in Jesus!
God bless.
pickles