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Destiny9000

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Hello, Well, my problem is, Im 25, Im single and I never had a girlfriend before, i've skipped oportunities with non-christian girls before since I try to be obedient the most I can and the bible is clear when it says in leviticus 21

13 “‘The woman he marries must be a virgin. 14 He must not marry a widow, a divorced woman, or a woman defiled by prostitution, but only a virgin from his own people, 15 so that he will not defile his offspring among his people. I am the LORD, who makes him holy.’”

well, sorry for the underlining, italic and all that stuff, I just want to be fully understood on why I never started a relationship with a non-christian girl.

I just dont know what happens, but everytime I meet someone interesting and things seem about to come, I either find out she's not that obedient or the girl suddenly losses all interest, this happens for many reasons, mainly since I'm planning on moving out to somewhere in the US/CA region sometime later this year, the other reasons, I just dont know.

I am totally aware that the decition to whoever becomes my wife will affect generations, so it should be taken wisely, afterall God has created ONE woman for me to be her companion and so on.

So, I eager to meet the woman that was meant to be for me, to get married and have a nice family eventually someday.

I hope you people out here can understand this wish from my heart.

God bless us all
 
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AnandaHya

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you have the idea but you forgot God's timing is God's timing. You just have to wait for both your and her to be ready and you will meet eventually. just keep doing God's will and don't get discouraged. Maintain your faith and purity to God's convictions He has placed in your heart. I'll keep you in my prayers.
 
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Scottybrandon

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#3
Lots of us christian guys are in the same boat. I feel for ya brother. The Lord is faithful and will provide... Si I unite with anandahya in praying that you will find the girl that is right for you!
 
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xEyesOnFirex

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you have the idea but you forgot God's timing is God's timing. You just have to wait for both your and her to be ready and you will meet eventually. just keep doing God's will and don't get discouraged. Maintain your faith and purity to God's convictions He has placed in your heart. I'll keep you in my prayers.
Exactly. Things don't always happen just because we want them to. Stay strong in yourself and in God and trust that He will bring someone special into your life when the time is right.
 

pickles

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You are in my prayers in Jesus that He will provide a good wife.
God bless.
pickles
 

shemaiah

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I will be praying for you bro. The Lord is faithful, and He will bring the right woman to you. Cast your care unto Him, for He cares for you.
 
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KezE

Guest
#7
God is faithful to those who are faithful. If you continue to delight yourself in the Lord, He will grant you the desires of your heart. That is a promise He has made so you can count on it!!
 
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sinnomorePTL

Guest
#8
Dear brother, keeping yourself pure in this current world is a very noble thing. Don't give up, as you have said, God has a wonderful woman waiting for you.

Perhaps you could join a young adult coed discussion group at your or another church.

I pray that our Lord will send you intended wife to you very soon, in Jesus name, Amen.

Have a great day in Jesus !!!

Love in our Lord and Savior
bro Gary
 
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Destiny9000

Guest
#9
Thank you everyone for your prayings and your good wishes :)

and to sinnomore:

Perhaps you could join a young adult coed discussion group at your or another church...

I have tried to, but partly Im shy, so it's really frustrating, girls want good obedient men and when we pass around they just skip us because we're unexperienced :/ isnt that like a paradox? -.-

Oh well, Im still in hopes to find the right gal, or more like her to find me :p
 
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fabfam12

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#10
I don't have a verse to back this up, but I have found that God often shows me the way when I take my eyes off the roadblock. I have found that in giving up and distracting myself with something else, some other worthy, godly pursuit, God then allows me to bump into whatever I was searching for.
So, maybe, take a detour. Absorb yourself in some unrelated, God-honoring pursuit. When you're not looking so hard for that perfect one, you might just find her while your doing something that you love to do.
 
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Destiny9000

Guest
#11
Well, I have always thought it is necesary to share testimonys so other people's faith increases and see the power of praying.

I've meet a nice girl and another one seems interested in me suddenly, nothing set in stone yet since it's too soon to say, but there seems to be an improvement from my previous situation :)

God bless us all and thank you everyone, plss keep me in your prayers so shall God's will happen n_n
 
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AnandaHya

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#12
I don't have a verse to back this up, but I have found that God often shows me the way when I take my eyes off the roadblock. I have found that in giving up and distracting myself with something else, some other worthy, godly pursuit, God then allows me to bump into whatever I was searching for.
So, maybe, take a detour. Absorb yourself in some unrelated, God-honoring pursuit. When you're not looking so hard for that perfect one, you might just find her while your doing something that you love to do.
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Don't listen to the laughing waves or the let the giants stop you. Let your light SHINE!

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and remember that Day after Day God is with you


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