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imTastik

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I feel so worthless and that the world would be better off without me. I just can't seem to find any real friends at all, Ive lost my sister, she never talks to me anymore, anything she says is either a reply to something I've said through gritted teeth or something to bash me. I don't even know if my dad loves me or cares about me. According to my teacher I will never make it as a professional dancer. I also never hear from God...I know this is my fault....I struggle to read the Bible...partly cos I don't understand it...and sometimes I don't feel like praying...but I don't know whether this is down to my trust and faith in God because I don't hear from him...I just don't understand at all.

I really don't know what's going on, but everything in my life seems to be going downhill right now, no matter how hard I try nothing seems to go right. I haven't felt like I've had real friends for about 7 or 8 years now. What do I do? I just feel like the most worthless person on this earth right now :S I am so confused!
 
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ASK

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It's pointless to try to do anything without God. Man cannot accomplish anything except through Him.

I'm sure you've heard the Bible verse stating if you draw close to God He will draw close to you. I'll pray for you. What you can do is commit yourself to prayer. Right now. Don't reply yet, if someone else has posted don't read it yet. We cannot help you the way He can.

Pray now.:)
 
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Oh I dunno I think we've done alright without him in the last 2000 years, in between the church halting progress for a millenia and all the natrual disasters he sends our way to show his love. :)
 
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next_step

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Oh I dunno I think we've done alright without him in the last 2000 years, in between the church halting progress for a millenia and all the natrual disasters he sends our way to show his love. :)
God is responsible for everything unpleasant but when it comes to the pleasant things we are ultimately responsible? You have to be consistent when you want to demonstrate internal problems with theism. Where does your notion of love come from?
 
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Jullianna

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Oh I dunno I think we've done alright without him in the last 2000 years, in between the church halting progress for a millenia and all the natrual disasters he sends our way to show his love. :)
We have war after war after war, babies are killed by the millions, homelessness and hunger abound, children are sold as slaves/toys...yeah...I guess some people are doing great without God...

God sends love, but He also sends judgment because man chooses sin and the devastation it brings over love. He's also great at healing bitterness. :)

I pray for wisdom, maturity and understanding...
 
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Jullianna

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I feel so worthless and that the world would be better off without me. I just can't seem to find any real friends at all, Ive lost my sister, she never talks to me anymore, anything she says is either a reply to something I've said through gritted teeth or something to bash me. I don't even know if my dad loves me or cares about me. According to my teacher I will never make it as a professional dancer. I also never hear from God...I know this is my fault....I struggle to read the Bible...partly cos I don't understand it...and sometimes I don't feel like praying...but I don't know whether this is down to my trust and faith in God because I don't hear from him...I just don't understand at all.

I really don't know what's going on, but everything in my life seems to be going downhill right now, no matter how hard I try nothing seems to go right. I haven't felt like I've had real friends for about 7 or 8 years now. What do I do? I just feel like the most worthless person on this earth right now :S I am so confused!
If you are having trouble reading the scriptures and drawing closer to the Lord, it may be due to the version of the scriptures you are reading. There are versions that are far easier to understand, especially when we are young. If we want to develop a closer relationship with Him, we need to spent time with Him.

We dancers have passion and I see it in your words. You know that technique is great, but it's nothing without passion. :) Set it free.

I pray for a closer/restored relationship with your sister and your father, that all of you would come to know God more deeply and be bound together in Him. God specializes in healing broken hearts and He is close to those who feel empty and lost. He's been there and He understands.

Be blessed <3
 
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buttacup

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we all have our troubles
and god put you on this earth for a reason
it may seem hard righ now but things will get better for you.
im praying for you that you and your sister will have a better realtionship
 

phil36

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Praying for you, Praig for your sister for peace between you in Jesus name.
 
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princessbella

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your Gods precious princess you know that he sees you are a woman of worth and beauty, even though you dont feel that or feel that others see that in you, he made you unique with pashions and gifts hes put inside you...Famillies arnt easy and i have a similar type of relationship with my mom, my only advice is start now seeing yorself through Gods eyes and dont let that reltionship determine who you are /who you tink you are

princess
 

pickles

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I feel so worthless and that the world would be better off without me. I just can't seem to find any real friends at all, Ive lost my sister, she never talks to me anymore, anything she says is either a reply to something I've said through gritted teeth or something to bash me. I don't even know if my dad loves me or cares about me. According to my teacher I will never make it as a professional dancer. I also never hear from God...I know this is my fault....I struggle to read the Bible...partly cos I don't understand it...and sometimes I don't feel like praying...but I don't know whether this is down to my trust and faith in God because I don't hear from him...I just don't understand at all.

I really don't know what's going on, but everything in my life seems to be going downhill right now, no matter how hard I try nothing seems to go right. I haven't felt like I've had real friends for about 7 or 8 years now. What do I do? I just feel like the most worthless person on this earth right now :S I am so confused!
imtastic, I know you are feeling very low and defeated right now, but Ive seen your faith and streangth in Jesus. He does live within you.
This is trully a time to where God Our Father will bring you closer.
It was when I was most broken, that I came to know God as a loving Father as well.
It took a little time, and holding on in faith through tears, but when He drew me close, I came to know a love that dazzled me.
I know the pain seems great, but hold onto Jesus in faith.
Consider this, the love and presance that in Jesus, God Our Father will reviel to you, will multiply against the saddness you feel right now.
Im praying for you in Jesus Christ is Lord!

Hugs and God bless.
pickles
 
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wwjd_kilden

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*hugs*

Don't give up on the world. It is a lousy place sometimes, but we all have a purpose here.

She never slows down
She doesn't know why but she knows that when she's all alone
Feels like it's all coming down

She won't turn around
The shadows are long and she fears if she cries that first tear
The tears will not stop raining down

So stand in the rain
Stand your ground
Stand up when it's all crashing down
You stand through the pain
You won't drown
And one day what's lost can be found
You stand in the rain
 
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sinnomorePTL

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Re: Get close to God, stay close to God, b w Gods Faml.

Dear sister, we all lose our way from time. Get close to Jesus again, talk to him often, read His word a bit everday. Go out and Find your brothers and sisters in Chisrt. We were not meant to get through life on our own.

I pray God will grant you faith overflowing, fill you with peace, tranquilitiey, and joy, in Jesus name, Amen

Love in Jesus
brother Gary
 
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imTastik

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Thank you everyone :) I know that friendship wise I'm feeling so bad because I know I have no friends around here really, it's really time for the three of us to move towns now, there's nothing here for us anymore, it's pointless being here but we can't go until God provides my mum with another Church in a different town. I know He has spoken to my mum about one place in particular, it first came up two years ago, we regularly hear the name of this city too, I was actually in town the other week and it was either that the person I walked past saying the name of this city or if it wasnt said it was definitely God who allowed me to hear the name of this place. Out of excitement I've looked into the facilities of this town, it would open up many more opportunities for the three of us. I'm currently waiting for two auditions for one college and one uni, one of which I have next week. I really hope and pray that I'll be accepted onto the course at the uni as it is professional training, so even if we did move to this city I would have the privilege of dancing like I have now. But when I go back to visit my mum in the holidays I'll want somewhere to go, this place has various dance schools and it's close to towns which have various dance schools which would allow me to further my chances in some sort of professional dance career. Please pray that God will make this process much quicker than it is, in theory we've only been waiting for five months as that's when my mum was sacked, but in reality it's been three or four years that we've been waiting.
 

pickles

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Praying for all your needs in Jesus.
Hugs and God bless.
pickles
 
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We have war after war after war, babies are killed by the millions, homelessness and hunger abound, children are sold as slaves/toys...yeah...I guess some people are doing great without God...

God sends love, but He also sends judgment because man chooses sin and the devastation it brings over love. He's also great at healing bitterness. :)

I pray for wisdom, maturity and understanding...
And that happened just as much maybe even more a thousand years ago when everyone believed in god... or they got killed. So if everyone believes in God we fight amongst ourselves perform horrific deeds justified by religion, and if we don't we do horrific deeds justified by human nature. So how are things any better with or without God ?
 
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imTastik

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I will look at replies later as I need to go to sleep soon. And I'll add more detail to this post later on...but I went for an audition in London on Wednesday and I knew it was completely wrong for me once I got there...anyway I've applied for another uni in london...and its basically a professional course that's currently government funded...I felt this place was right ages ago but on Thursday before I came back to my hometown my mum asked me to check the weather so I searched 'uk weather' on google...the place of the uni I want to go to came up...yet I was nowhere near the uni or the city...tonight ive done the same...on my iPod touch again...I searches 'uk weather' up came my hometown...and I'm in my hometown...is that God speaking to me?
 
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xJoe

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ill be your friend. Just message me if you want to talk.
 

pickles

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I dont know, but Im sure you know in your own heart in Jesus. :)
Im praying for you that all will work to the good in Jesus.

Hugs and God bless.
pickles
 
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imTastik

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I got an invitation to audition on Wednesday in around 5 weeks, it's around 7 hours, I pray God will be with me, I get so nervous, but I need this, I really feel comfortable about this, I hope this is my next step
 

Vladimir_Ukr

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I feel so worthless and that the world would be better off without me. I just can't seem to find any real friends at all, Ive lost my sister, she never talks to me anymore, anything she says is either a reply to something I've said through gritted teeth or something to bash me. I don't even know if my dad loves me or cares about me. According to my teacher I will never make it as a professional dancer. I also never hear from God...I know this is my fault....I struggle to read the Bible...partly cos I don't understand it...and sometimes I don't feel like praying...but I don't know whether this is down to my trust and faith in God because I don't hear from him...I just don't understand at all.

I really don't know what's going on, but everything in my life seems to be going downhill right now, no matter how hard I try nothing seems to go right. I haven't felt like I've had real friends for about 7 or 8 years now. What do I do? I just feel like the most worthless person on this earth right now :S I am so confused!
Sometimes every of us having a really bad feeling as written:
Resist him, standing firm in the faith,
because you know that your brothers
throughout the world are undergoing the
same kind of sufferings.
(1st Peter 5:9)

I got an invitation to audition on Wednesday in around 5 weeks, it's around 7 hours, I pray God will be with me, I get so nervous, but I need this, I really feel comfortable about this, I hope this is my next step
I hope your audition will be successfull. I will pray for you. Good luck.