Pray for my relationship

This is really bothering and I'm confused...


1. He talks all about sexual **** a lot of the times treat me and hide who he is.
2.you just talk to me how ever you want.
3. He's don't spend time on this relationship.
Doesn't spend time with me, It's very little.
4. He dosn't take the time to talk to me only very little amounts happens like never.
5. he hides everything and mutes how he acts.
6. He hides who he is and even from the beginning he lied about it.
7. Hasn't really made an effort to come here to see me, even tho he said he would ( passport or any arrangments, he had months )
8. Never tell's me what I'm doing wrong or disscuses what makes him not want to spend time with me or talk with me. Even if I asked him over and over.

This is an online relationship(1year and two months). We've never meet in real life.

BY the way before we were really close at like 4 or 5 months; talking all the time and spending time. Then he had to go take care of his brothers drinking problems. So he was there for a month and he said that we will be able to talk a lot more when he get's home.
So he got home and his brother is still living with him. But my boyfriend has not been close to me again since. I asked him what did I do wrong and he said nothing. He said because he has a lot to deal with cause of schizophrenia and his brother he needs to take lots of time to him self cause he's being attacked by the enemy and he has to deal with his brothers concetent adittude.

To me it seems as tho he has moved on to someone else...

Dear Sister, I pray our Lord casts away all negative, doubting spirits from you, fills you instead with peace, tranquility, joy and the knowledge that God is with you always, in Jesus name, Amen

God has a wonderful life waiting for you, and I doubt it is with a pen pal accross the country.

You need to get out, spend some time with your many Christian brothers and sisters. Your man may be right around the corner. God warns us about getting too close to those who are not lovers of God. I don't think a man of God would treat you that way.

Speak with Him often, read His word prayer-fully a bit everyday, and spend time with your Christian family.

May God pour out His richest blessings upon you.
Have a great day In Jesus !!!

Love in Jesus
bro Gary

Standing in prayer for you too, in Jesus Name, Amen.

well, if i understood right you said he was schizophrenic. so you have a schizophrenic trying to take care of an alcoholic. that just seems like a bad combination. maybe he's 'move on' or maybe the stress of dealing with his brother has increased his schizophrenic symptoms. when dealing with mental ill people its really hard to make an assumption on why they seem to change. you've been together over a year & never met in person. thats a big commitment for someone you've never met before. sounds like this was not a good situation from the beginning so my suggestion to you is to just move on, & focus on your walk for now.

im praying for you sis

Can I recommend a book?: It's called, "Boundaries in Dating" by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend. There is a lot of really good information in it.

Praying for you in Jesus Christ is Lord!

Hugs and God bless.
pickles