Need prayer to restore my marriage

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Jovia

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Hi everyone. ive been married almost 10 years and all of a sudden my husband tells me he doesnt want to be with me anymore that he doesnt love me that much and im only a friend to him. But he will continue to support me and the kids. He cant love me anymore because he is not whole. IVe been asking him if he has a relationship he often said no..then just the other day i asked him again did he touch women and he said yes many times until i gave him the bible he stopped. He told me that he didnt want to be in the marriage not because he didnt love me but he made the biggest mistake of his life having sex with other women. just one night stands. He assured me he has stopped as the whole family experienced a wrath from God, it was really a wrath that almost killed us. I told him that i forgive him. and if he decides to come back with open arms no questions asked. HE asked me if the idea of him visiting on weekends is okay and that he lives somewherelse. i said no but since he decided since im the wife im just submissive to him. I honestly felt no pain when he said that he did those things because for the longest time i was blaming myself. But he told me that im a good wife and mom but its the love that he has just is only up to a certain point and he cant give much anymore..could this be because of guilt. Will God still restore our marriage. I think God made me strong spirtiually first so thta i can handle the situation well. any suggestions...what should i do..some say leave him..some say continue to pray...what can you guys say...thanks and God BLess..by thew way we have 2 kids and our eldest is an honor student.
 
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NMsmile

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Jesus you know the cry of JOVIA'S heart. We know that nothing is impossible for you. We know that you are a God that heals, restores and saves what the devil attempts to destroy. We ask you for a clear path, pure intentions, resolve and wisdom for Jovia. We ask that you build her up spiritually. That you send the right people that will give her good, godly counsel in this difficult time. We ask you to protect her children from being hurt by this situation. But most of all we ask that you are glorified by what ever happens. We are grateful you are a God who loves your children, a God that turns our sorrow into joy and our tears into smiles and our mourning into dancing. Thank you for hearing our prayer. Lord we want you to be glorified. Amen.
 

pickles

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Apr 20, 2009
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Praying for both of you and your family in Jesus Christ is Lord.
Praying also, that Jesus will fill your husbands heart with His perfect love for you.

God bless.
pickles
 
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Stephen

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I am praying for you and your family. If you can truly forgive him and he is repentant your marriage will have a chance. You will need to be strong and continue to walk in the spirit. God bless you sister.