How do you let go of REGRET?!
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Whoa, buddy.
I was not attacking you. I was offering an idea, is all, and saying that the devil may be at work in this man in the form of a mental illness.
When I said "this guy", I meant the guy who was involved with your wife, NOT YOU!
I did not mean for there to be any confusion. But I can see how it could have been interpreted that way.
Forgive me?
I was not attacking you. I was offering an idea, is all, and saying that the devil may be at work in this man in the form of a mental illness.
When I said "this guy", I meant the guy who was involved with your wife, NOT YOU!
I did not mean for there to be any confusion. But I can see how it could have been interpreted that way.
Forgive me?
It's just that I am so pissed at the level of deception at different times in my life.
So many people give up on GOD due to this. They think, if HE is in control, then HE allowed all this.
It's like every 2 minutes in the us alone some woman is raped according to the US Department of justice records.
I JUST cannot buy into that.....
I was in chat just a second ago and someone made a indirect sarcastic comment right as I joined making fun of my situation. I though to myself, How freaking sorry and mean that is.
I confronted this person and they didn't say a word. The I thought to myself, I just hope she goes through what I have gone through, and when she reaches out for help, someone JABS her as well.
But, I know I am supposed to turn the other cheek and forgive, but you know what, it feels better to strike back, especially when they are being heartless and mean and trying to mock you pain.
That's when I draw the line in the sand, and donkey kick them back.
I know it's wrong, but there is only so much I can take sometimes.
Final Summary = Most people are mean and selfish due to the fact that they have given themselves over to a reprobate mind.
Romans 1:28 And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;
So many people give up on GOD due to this. They think, if HE is in control, then HE allowed all this.
It's like every 2 minutes in the us alone some woman is raped according to the US Department of justice records.
I JUST cannot buy into that.....
I was in chat just a second ago and someone made a indirect sarcastic comment right as I joined making fun of my situation. I though to myself, How freaking sorry and mean that is.
I confronted this person and they didn't say a word. The I thought to myself, I just hope she goes through what I have gone through, and when she reaches out for help, someone JABS her as well.
But, I know I am supposed to turn the other cheek and forgive, but you know what, it feels better to strike back, especially when they are being heartless and mean and trying to mock you pain.
That's when I draw the line in the sand, and donkey kick them back.
I know it's wrong, but there is only so much I can take sometimes.
Final Summary = Most people are mean and selfish due to the fact that they have given themselves over to a reprobate mind.
Romans 1:28 And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;
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Seth you are going through growing pains right now. Believe me there is light in your future. Sometimes we do go against Gods wishes for our own selfish reason and sometimes we have to learn from those decisions. I fouund it helps to focus on others problems (as I;m doing right now) and God will take of ours. Some times we put more trust in people than God and this cause us to run into problem. My heart goes out to you and pray you look for the light in your life becaus it is there, I know because God put it there. People will let you down 90% of the time but God never will. Look at it as a blessing, you know longer have a person of that type around you any more: and a great kid was blessed with a wonderful daddy. Don't be blinded by what the devil has stolen from you. You lose some things to him don't let him steal your JOY CONFIDENCE, PEACE and most of all the LOVE GOD HAS FOR YOU.
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Seth you are going through growing pains right now. Believe me there is light in your future. Sometimes we do go against Gods wishes for our own selfish reason and sometimes we have to learn from those decisions. I fouund it helps to focus on others problems (as I;m doing right now) and God will take of ours. Some times we put more trust in people than God and this cause us to run into problem. My heart goes out to you and pray you look for the light in your life becaus it is there, I know because God put it there. People will let you down 90% of the time but God never will. Look at it as a blessing, you know longer have a person of that type around you any more: and a great kid was blessed with a wonderful daddy. Don't be blinded by what the devil has stolen from you. You lose some things to him don't let him steal your JOY CONFIDENCE, PEACE and most of all the LOVE GOD HAS FOR YOU.
Scripture to repeat as often as need:
Ps. 107:26-29 "They mount up to the heaven, they go down again to the depths: their soul is melted because of trouble. They reel to and fro, and stagger like a drunken man, and are at their wit's end. Then they cry unto the Lord in their trouble, and He bringeth them out of their distresses. He maketh the storm a calm so that the waves thereof ARE STILL.
Ps. 143:11 "Quicke me, O Lord, for Thy name's sake: for Thy righteousness' sake bring my soul out of trouble.
By the grace of God I'm still standing. LOve Brightness
Scripture to repeat as often as need:
Ps. 107:26-29 "They mount up to the heaven, they go down again to the depths: their soul is melted because of trouble. They reel to and fro, and stagger like a drunken man, and are at their wit's end. Then they cry unto the Lord in their trouble, and He bringeth them out of their distresses. He maketh the storm a calm so that the waves thereof ARE STILL.
Ps. 143:11 "Quicke me, O Lord, for Thy name's sake: for Thy righteousness' sake bring my soul out of trouble.
By the grace of God I'm still standing. LOve Brightness
No one can truelly know the pain you are going through, except Jesus. But all have had pain. To be betrayed by one you love, and being betrayed through that person using your trust is difficult to forgive. But to forgive is what you need to do. Not just your ex wife, but forgive your self also. It is through forgiving that you open the door to Jesus and his help. I know this and Im sure others have said so also. By forgiving you free yourself from the evil that trys to destroy, tries to turn your heart over to bitterness. Why do people hurt each other? Often because they fail to forgive. It is the hope that Jesus gives us. It took time for me, but the grace given by Jesus is a gift that embraces and heals. I will keep you and all in my daily prayers.
God bless, pickles
God bless, pickles