Family member having an affair about to destroy kids lives

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Aquarius

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I will refrain, for the sake of my family member, the details but in short they are goin through a midlife crisis and the spouse is not yet aware to what extent. unfortunately i am the only one that can bring it to their attention and to makes it especially dificult, the ofender is my sibling. my concern is most of all for the kids. I can go into further detail but please only respond if you are highly experienced or it is your profession as i have no time for the opinions of those who think themselves wise. My family needs much prayer i am at a loss as to what to do, please pray for God to give me the direction and conformation i need. Thank you
 

pickles

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Praying in Jesus Christ is Lord for all His salvation, healing and care.
Praying for this family as well.

God bless
pickles
 

damombomb

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Praying for wisdon and descernment and guidence for you to do right thing,
In Jesus name amen
 
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NMsmile

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Jesus you hear the concern and desire in the prayer of Aquarius. Jesus we ask that you reach down into that situation and make yourself evident to all those involved. Protect the innocent. Heavenly Father you are a God of restoration. We ask you to convict and restore so that everyone involved will know there is joy and fulfillment in you. We ask that you impart wisdom, love, compassion and supernatural peace to Aquarius as this time of prayer and ministering to family members is about to occur. God put people in the lives of this family that can minister and be your example of love. Most of all we ask that your mercy will be shown in this situation. Jesus we love you. We are so unworthy of the patience you show us daily, but we are grateful for your kindness. Lord God remove the temptations and place a desire to submit to your will in the lives of all those involved. Holy God thank you for hearing our prayer and for showing us unconditional love. Amen.
 
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shekaniah

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Praying in agreement, in Jesus Name Amen
 
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Aquarius

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To all those that took the time to care for a stranger in need and heavily burdened, may Christ himself bless you this day. To say the least it is a mess and the kids are always the first to suffer and the last to heal. To anyone who wants to know, doing the right thing usually sucks the most. Im am quite close to my niece and nephews and been a very close part of tbeir lives for nearly three years now. Im not looking forward to an indefinite seperation from them as i am just as used to having them around. Also to those that want to kno, ratting out a sibling that partially raised me is no picnic either.
 

damombomb

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To all those that took the time to care for a stranger in need and heavily burdened, may Christ himself bless you this day. To say the least it is a mess and the kids are always the first to suffer and the last to heal. To anyone who wants to know, doing the right thing usually sucks the most. Im am quite close to my niece and nephews and been a very close part of tbeir lives for nearly three years now. Im not looking forward to an indefinite seperation from them as i am just as used to having them around. Also to those that want to kno, ratting out a sibling that partially raised me is no picnic either.





Did you go to the sibling first and talk to them before?the word says if we have ought to go to that person and talk with them, winning an offended brother or sister,I know secrets about people
that are pretty devestating, but I prayed about it, and the Lord put it on my heart not to say anything
it would destroy peoples lives, I guess it would be the sistuation?
 
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Aquarius

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Yes actualy my one sister has been trying to talk sense into our older sister for a couple of months or more. She explained how it was going to destroy her whole family and how if she was going to leave him then she needed to just leave first and then go be with other people. Yes biblicaly speaking that is frowned upon as well i know, but it is far better to go about it that way than to lie and cheat regularly. There are many details that would make this more clear i could explain but the important thing for now is that from behind the scenes i do my part as her brother to fight for her on a spiritual level even if in the physical im trying to sabotoge her efforts. Please know though i am beyond disapointed in her at this point however i have no place to judge her i dont know that i were in her shoes i would not do the same. This is not about judgement or being self rightious just simply trying to stop a terrible train wreck
 

damombomb

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Yes actualy my one sister has been trying to talk sense into our older sister for a couple of months or more. She explained how it was going to destroy her whole family and how if she was going to leave him then she needed to just leave first and then go be with other people. Yes biblicaly speaking that is frowned upon as well i know, but it is far better to go about it that way than to lie and cheat regularly. There are many details that would make this more clear i could explain but the important thing for now is that from behind the scenes i do my part as her brother to fight for her on a spiritual level even if in the physical im trying to sabotoge her efforts. Please know though i am beyond disapointed in her at this point however i have no place to judge her i dont know that i were in her shoes i would not do the same. This is not about judgement or being self rightious just simply trying to stop a terrible train wreck

I pray that God turn all of this around somehow for his glory,and that you have peace anf joy!
In Jesus name amenAnd that she gives her heart to God.
 
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justamanda

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I pray for your family and that the holy spirit may restore their wounded hearts and spirits. i also pray for your discernment in this matter.
 

blue_ladybug

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​This is a 3 yr old thread and the OP is no longer a member.
 
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Stephanie_30

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I pray in Jesus' name God gives you confirmation.