Marriage Restoration

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JCchild

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Me and my husband have seperated and there has been very little communication .We were both not living the christian life but both are christians I am working on my realtionship with God and have seen miraculous change in my life .I havent seen any movement in the restoration of my marriage in over a month and I have no contact with my husband I miss him so much and wish every Sunday hed be in church or that he d call or text .I want so bad for this marriage to be healed and for us to be back together to do Gods will but it seems hopeless .Ive become so discouraged and am not sure where to go from here my desire is to make this work but it seems so hopeless with no communication .Please anyone help if you can please pray for this family my children are hurting thru this as well and im such a mess thats its hard parenting as well .Please pray for my husbands heart to be softened and for us to fall in love and work on healing this relationship .He is still seeing our pastor and I will see the pastor today to find out what he is hearing from him or if he feels there is any hope here still .Please pray God will soften my heart and make me want to fight for this and not give up part of me wants to just forget it all because it trully hurts to face so many painful things .Satan is trying very hard to discourage me and brings out painful things that have happened and this just causes me to want to give up .Please pray for us .Thankyou so much
 
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shekaniah

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Lord bring back to rememberance...Why these two people feel in love to begin with...give them a hope in you. Jesus fill this family with peace and understanding in all their circumstances. In Jesus name amen
 
damombomb

damombomb

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Yes father,thank you for putting them back together!Let their marriage be better than they could ever imagine,all for your glory , in Jesus name amen
 
pickles

pickles

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You all are in my daily prayers in Jesus for you, your husband and your children and restoration of your marriage.

Hugs and God bless.
pickles
 
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Lovejoy

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The first thing you need to do is start taking care of yourself
For the sake of your children and yourself.
If you don't care of yourself how will you be able to take care of your children.
Remember your children need you because they are also hurting.

Be Blessed
 
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Maya86

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Praying that God heals all hearts involved and that He reigns supreme in your household. :)
 
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NMsmile

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Lord God you hear JCchild's prayer and you know her heart...Lord you know the issues ... you know the loneliness and God you know through you there is restoration. Jesus we ask you to remind both JCchild and her husband of the joy of their salvation. Lord God I ask you to reprioritize their actions and where they place their attention. God we ask you to fill JCchild with joy, peace, love, understanding, long suffering and most of all fill her with you. Lord God you are a God of kindness and whatever is going on in this family's life it is because you are showing mercy for your glory. I ask that you make that clear to JCchild and to her children. Jesus protect the children. Make yourself real and alive to them. Jesus touch JCchild's spouse. Lord you are the one that can meet him where he is right now. Lord I thank you for this opportunity to pray for my sister and her family but Jesus please send your Comforter to JCchild because no one but you can reassure her when the tears are sliding down her cheeks that you have everything under control. Jesus remind my sister of your promise in Jeremiah 29:11 which says, "I know the plans I have for you declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you HOPE and a FUTURE!" Jesus let my sister be still and know that you are GOD! Amen.
 
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JCchild

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Thankyou everyone for your reply's after I wrote this my husband did text me for the first time in 3 weeks and told me that he still loved us and missed us .The he brought me a cheque for 250$ as we have just recently moved due to a not so good landlord .I am so thankful for this contact it was giving me hope and then again he has stopped the contact I am discouraged once again and missing him like crasy .I know God is in control and I have placed this in His hands and asked that he keep me from loosing faith .Please pray that God shows me if I should open up and tell my pastor all thats gone on in this marriage as he is councelling us both .I trully know God is working in my life every day and I am so grateful for the changes ! I Love Jesus so much and so thankful to have that relationship back with him please pray that God allows my faith to continue and to stay strong And that my heart will always know God is in control of everything ! Thankyou for your support and prayers ! Ill keep you in touch as to how it is going !
 
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shekaniah

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Thank you for the update, Keep walking in God's light and stay in His word...look up His promises.
I will pray that God blesses and keeps your family in His Loving care. That God will speak to your husbands heart and mind.
I n Jesus name Amen

May God testify to your husbands spirit that he is a child of God. Amen
 
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JCchild

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Thankyou I am so discouraged this week I thought about just walking away from it all please pray for my faith to be made stronger and for me to have what it takes to continue to fight if this is Gods will I feel so sad ,angry ,hurt Ive seen positvie texts but his words arent matching up with his actions so Im left confused please pray for him to come to me and talk with me and want to start resolving this issue in all of this I question wether he has moved on with someone else Satan has really been bothering me with this .I just feel so discouraged please help .I dont know where God wants me to go with this and not hearing from my husband is killing me IM ready to shut down my heart to get over this because the pain of thinking of him all day is killing me please help !
 
pickles

pickles

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JCchild said:
Thankyou I am so discouraged this week I thought about just walking away from it all please pray for my faith to be made stronger and for me to have what it takes to continue to fight if this is Gods will I feel so sad ,angry ,hurt Ive seen positvie texts but his words arent matching up with his actions so Im left confused please pray for him to come to me and talk with me and want to start resolving this issue in all of this I question wether he has moved on with someone else Satan has really been bothering me with this .I just feel so discouraged please help .I dont know where God wants me to go with this and not hearing from my husband is killing me IM ready to shut down my heart to get over this because the pain of thinking of him all day is killing me please help !
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Hugs! You , your husband and family continue to be in my prayers in Jesus.
I wish I could give you an answer, but I know that trusting all to Jesus and walking forward in faith is always the way to His healing.

Hugs again and God bless.
pickles
 
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rixmohay

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Praying for you and your family.
 
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HeIsNowHere

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JCchild said:
Me and my husband have seperated and there has been very little communication .We were both not living the christian life but both are christians I am working on my realtionship with God and have seen miraculous change in my life .I havent seen any movement in the restoration of my marriage in over a month and I have no contact with my husband I miss him so much and wish every Sunday hed be in church or that he d call or text .I want so bad for this marriage to be healed and for us to be back together to do Gods will but it seems hopeless .Ive become so discouraged and am not sure where to go from here my desire is to make this work but it seems so hopeless with no communication .Please anyone help if you can please pray for this family my children are hurting thru this as well and im such a mess thats its hard parenting as well .Please pray for my husbands heart to be softened and for us to fall in love and work on healing this relationship .He is still seeing our pastor and I will see the pastor today to find out what he is hearing from him or if he feels there is any hope here still .Please pray God will soften my heart and make me want to fight for this and not give up part of me wants to just forget it all because it trully hurts to face so many painful things .Satan is trying very hard to discourage me and brings out painful things that have happened and this just causes me to want to give up .Please pray for us .Thankyou so much
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Just remember and he needs to know this too. Jesus told us if we want to be first and the greatest, we have to be a servant and be a slave of one another. Husbands are to love wives as Jesus loved the church. Jesus came to serve the churh no be served and give himself entirely. Wives are to love and follow their husbands. There is so much of "what I want" in our culture that kills marriage. If we all follow this rules would that not make marriage so much better. For me the Lord has rebuked me for being too harsh with my wife. As I am drawing closer to Jesus I desire to serve my wife more and worry more about what she needs. This is my prayer for your husband. Your children are your Gold and Silver and they must be protected. Go to your husband and tell him this right away. Do not wait.
 
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