Wanting Relief, Fighting SIN.

Womanizing, scandalous behavior, Sleeping with other mens wives, I cannot return to these old sins.

I am sick and tired of waiting for GOD to send that special someone, the days, months and even years are passing with nothing but frustration and emptiness.
I sit and watch others blessed, while they are rubbing it my face. Laughing and mocking ay my pain.

One of my best females friends is telling me to "rest in God's perfect plan for me". She is single herself, with all types of heart ache, and somehow she find peace with her un-answered prayers. I however do not.

There are tons of guy who tell me "Dude, just go get laid". Lie and womanize, it's the"real" way to deal with it all.
But, I know that each time I have even tried to get close to doing this, I got burned so bad, with other things failing like my job, main source of income, that I am actually scared of doing that.

I don't want to go there.

But, then I am left with my prayers being left un-answered. A void, that I ask HIM to fill it, but GOD doesn't.
So I suffer, I suffer while I see others praying their brains out seeking after every ting sinful pleasure under the sin.

Why can I not, partake in sex before marriage and have things go decent without something terrible happening to me???

I wish could just go to the bars and womanize like the rest of them and get laid each week-end like so many others are doing. But I know some type of disaster would have to me, I would loose my place to stay or something very serious.

Sometimes, I wish I didn't know it was even a sin and disobedient to God, so I could just do it and have it not even phase me.

Does anyone, I mean anyone, feel this way at all????

I see these hot girls walk around my apartment complex all the time and it's driving me crazy!

Someone, anyone, need feedback on this. Please.

well i sorta know what you mean , but with me i need help really bad , my problem is that i can not stop looking at woman i gota look at them i know its bad and i am doing my best to stop but the enemy bugs me and its driving me nuts, and i know you can not lust over a woman thats a sin and i keep doing it its driving me nuts cause i dont want to lust i gave my life to Jesus , and i am almost married to some one but i dont beleave in sex before marrege i need help bad

I will pray for you daily. Our Lord God will keeps all his promises. You are not alone in your serch. My daughter is frustrated also in finding a good christian man. As with you I say and to her. For those who wait there are great blessings. Keep your faith. God Our father has not forgotten you.
God bless, pickles

As someone who was married for 13 years and not living for the Lord, single for 7, and now doing my best to submit to Christ’s authority over my life, I can tell you that I understand your struggle. They were not 7 perfect years, but they were years of growth and maturity. I made many mistakes and suffered many consequences.

God does not deal with His children, or perceive them in the same way He perceives the rest of the world. You are his son. You were birthed into His kingdom, reborn, putting to death the old nature, and embracing your new nature in Christ Jesus.

Temptations come and go, but your righteousness, which you received through Christ Jesus, and your reconciliation to the Father is eternal, not to be taken lightly, or dimmed by our seductive surroundings. As a son, you are disciplined as any father would discipline his children, not to destroy them, but to produce better character and stronger self discipline.

The children of God cannot compare themselves to the non-Christian population. They are blind and deaf by choice. They neither see God’s purpose for their lives, nor do they regard His voice. Never assume that non-Christians are content without Christ, they are simply constantly adjusting to their internal pain, and the consequences of their rebelliousness, and this becomes a lifestyle for them. The bible, in Psalms 7:11, tells us that God is angry with the wicked everyday. But, you are not ignorant. The power that resides in you, the righteousness that is upon you, and the rewards that await you, are so much greater than anything this world has to offer.

If you desire a wife, be specific. Ask the Lord. If you have asked, simply pay attention to where he may be leading you, and yes, if you sin with your body, you will subject yourself to a time of correction. Your season and my season are different, because God’s purpose in your life differs from mine.

Remember this,
Ecclesiastes 3:1

To everything, there is a season, and a time for every purpose under heaven….

Keep believing, and someday you’ll know that God is saying, “The time is right”.