sometimes we feel completely asphyxiated, like the very essence of life itself is being choked out of existence.. we all have problems, but sometimes even those who loves us can't "be there" at the right time, when we're gasping for a spiritual breath nobody helps, and sometimes those who seem concerned their interest is short lived, they wont see your problems through the end, they might be there at the beginning but you're left alone in the long run. we all have friends or family members who have busy lives and can't always helps us out, sometimes they have the "best" intentions in mind but the reality is they will probably never UNDERSTAND what you might be going through. sometimes those who would take a bullet for us, want to somehow reach inside our minds and hearts and relive us of some of our pain... thing is they can't! yet other pretend to help and wont give you the full attention you need.. yet there are the few who know that they can't understand your problem yet still want to "be there" alongside you till the end, and that's very admirable but even if they stay "there" with you through and through its just not enough... that's why we need to realize that GOD is our OXYGEN!!!! without him we DIE, we are dependent of him for EVERYTHING! only he can reach into our spiritual lungs and kick start our soul, he is the OXYGEN that flows through our blood stream supplying our spiritual and physical being with the essence of life! so next time your in despair realize that God is TRULY "there" when we need him the most, when you gasp for air don't stretch your hands to another MAN, but reach towards the sky.. I hope this helps someone like it has me, and gives you strength.. God immerses himself in every aspect of my being, truly examining my being from every angle, what separates him from the rest is that he can actually heal and save. <3 AMEN!!!