I need a little more then a prayer.

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sad_angel

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my temper some times will get the best of me,& i can stop & calm down,but there is some thing thats really ,whell i cant seem to calm down plz just c wat is making me so mad.i just found out that my best friend is going to b a mom, she is 15 & so is he. i want so bad just to go to his house & whell i dont want to say anything that might get me banned. but i think u will know wat i want to do..me & my friend r really close she is like my sister.plz give me 1 good reason not to go over to his house.

thank you.
 
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SamIam

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reason numero uno.... What would that accomplish... It wont change the fact that there still gonna have a baby. No matter what you say, or what you do, its not gonna un do whats already done
 
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carpetmanswife

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Well sounds to me like your friend is going to need a real friend more now than ever, she needs your support ,try not to do anything to upset her, and giving him a piece of your mind just may , you must remember that it takes two honey. she mutsa been willing. just tryin to help you see thru the anger towards reality . I hope that helps a little. :)
 
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sad_angel

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he told her no 1 will know,it will b fine stuff like that..
& she wont mind me giving him a pice of my mind..
anger will help coz it will make me feel good. & my friends mom dosent know.
 
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sad_angel

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plz give me a good reason to not go to his house,my ride is going to b here in 5 min.
 
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thefightinglamb

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I would say, though I am too late...

I don't know...anger will not accomplish anything...you have to make him feel love and loved....

What use will it be to anyone if He just gets angry?...It will not cause him to become a good father/husband...

The only way is to help him see love...whatever the cost...and not cause him to become hardened and callous...


I do not know what else to say...but may God be with your friend, and her boyfriend, and also with the forming child...

God bless
tony
 
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I agree with everyone here, getting angry does nothing. Also, she was willing no matter what he may have told her she could have said no and left. It's not totally his fault, nor is it totally her fault. They're both equally at fault in the situation. Also, Psalm 103:8 says The Lord is merciful and gracious, slow to anger, and plenteous in mercy. We're to be like Christ, that verse speaks for itself, we should be slow to anger, and show mercy and all towards one another. Also Ephesians 4:26-27 says BE YE ANGRY, AND SIN NOT: let not the sun go down upon your wrath: Neither give place to the devil. So you see, anger while it is an emotion, is also a sin. Not only that, but also, when we get angry, we're allowing satan to win, that old devil slivers and slimes his way in. We're to bare the fruit of the Spirit, and anger is not one of those fruit. Lastly, I'll say this, if the blame or whatever should be put on anyone other than the girl and boy, what about the parents? why was there not an adult around? I understand you can't keep an eye on them constantly, however at that age, parents know better than to allow children/teens to be alone. they know what's on their minds. Instead of pointing the finger or blaming anyone at all, the best thing to do is pray, and be a true friend. Most ''friends'' will turn their back on both the girl and guy as well, they'll need you.
 
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Oh I forgot to mention, I know this will sound totally odd comming from a woman, however, I'm sick of everyone putting all of the blame on the guy. I mean come on seriously! Unless a girl says no, and a guy's forceful, she's just as responsable, and they both, could have stopped at any given time. Anyways, the point is this, IT IS NOT ALWAYS THE GUY"S FAULT, NOR IS IT ALWAYS THE GUY WHO STARTS THINGS, WOMEN ARE JUST AS GUILTY!Sorry for the caps, I'm not yelling, I'm simply making my point clear and known. There is a difference.
 
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carpetmanswife

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Oh I forgot to mention, I know this will sound totally odd comming from a woman, however, I'm sick of everyone putting all of the blame on the guy. I mean come on seriously! Unless a girl says no, and a guy's forceful, she's just as responsable, and they both, could have stopped at any given time. Anyways, the point is this, IT IS NOT ALWAYS THE GUY"S FAULT, NOR IS IT ALWAYS THE GUY WHO STARTS THINGS, WOMEN ARE JUST AS GUILTY!Sorry for the caps, I'm not yelling, I'm simply making my point clear and known. There is a difference.
I AGREE!!!!! lol :D
 
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katminwwjd

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I want to say something a little different. This little baby, regardless of how he or she is coming into the world, is created by God. None of this is the baby's fault, and you just may really enjoy this delighful little soul if you allow yourself to. I never had any children, and I adopted many of my friends kids, well, I mean, they call me auntie, and I love and enjoy them. You are all so very young, and this little baby is gonna need so much love and stability. You can help to add to that. And be there for your friend. The anger will only eat you up, cause ulcers, and destroy your friendship. I am 46 years old, and I know how anger has destroyed so much in my life. Love and forgive, and love this baby. Lavish love and gifts on this baby, and see the baby for what he or she is , a miracle, a creation of our Lord, a blessing. Kat
 
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sad_angel

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I'm not saying that its always the guys fault, its just this one kid he only goes out w/ girls for 1 reason..and i hate him for that.
my friend thought he was diffrent,so she dident listen to me, she said he would change for her.
my friend got grounded fro 2 months and she will get fat. the guy whell nothing goes wrong for him coz his mom is drunk all the time his dad isent around coz hes w/ his 'buddys'. nothin gose wrong for him so when i do c him some thing will go wrong for him. i havent cn him yet. when i said my ride is here ya he wasent there.
 
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maye

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anger never makes anything better. i too have a terrible temper and it as never helped me in any situation. i have learned the hard way to STOP take a deep breath and then PRAY for God's guidance! stop and listen to God before reacting!