Dear Jordache;
I cannot, nor will I tell you what to do. I can only tell of the direction I know my God will
point me in, to deal with such a situation.
I feel my God has empowered me to take responsibility for my own decisions & actions. As such, if I had no wish to speak to or present myself to my Father regarding such a matter, then I wouldn't.
As Avidan so rightly points out; We reap what we sow.