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angelrn

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Hi, I'm Heather. I'm a single mom of 2 girls. Recently something bad happened with the father of my youngest and we need prayers badly. About a year and a half ago, right after my baby was born, her dad hurt his back and had 2 surgeries. Shortly there after he started heading down a bad path. I noticed he was suffereing mentally and was not treating me fairly so I put an end to the relationship because he refused to see his wrong doing. To make a long story short, he was trying to guilt me into giving him everything he wanted and refused to take my needs into consideration. After I broke it off with him I did some investigating and discovered that he had an addiction problem and was becoming intoxicated while caring for my young daughter. He also obtained a medical marijuana card. I have not allowed him to see her due to his problems. I asked him to seek help for his issues with addiction and his mental health issues but he claims he doesn't have a problem. He has since filed a paternity suite (he isn't on her birth certificate) and custody suite. He also wants to have her last name changed from mine to his. He knew how important it was to me to have her last name be the same as mine as we are the last 2 people left in my family with this last name amung other rasons. I am so afraid that the courts will overlook my concerns about his issues and he will be granted shared custody. I just want him to go away and leave us alone. He is the biggest low life I know. I have found out that he refuses to work and is living on welfare, of which he gained illegally because he didn't disclose to them money that he had. He has also spread rumors about me to a community of people we both know and managed to get them to feel sorry for him and made me out to be the bad guy and I am now shunned by this group. They have gone to great lengths to protect him by making every attempt to erase any evidence of his addiction and making him appear as a great dad that is missing his daughter when that isn't who he is at all.

Please pray that God surounds my family and keeps this sinfull man away from us. My beautiful daughter doesn't deserve to have such a horrible person as her father. She deserves to be raised in a stable home with God as her savior away from the drama and hurt that this man would bring to her life.
 
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seed_time_harvest

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angelrn said:
Hi, I'm Heather. I'm a single mom of 2 girls. Recently something bad happened with the father of my youngest and we need prayers badly. About a year and a half ago, right after my baby was born, her dad hurt his back and had 2 surgeries. Shortly there after he started heading down a bad path. I noticed he was suffereing mentally and was not treating me fairly so I put an end to the relationship because he refused to see his wrong doing. To make a long story short, he was trying to guilt me into giving him everything he wanted and refused to take my needs into consideration. After I broke it off with him I did some investigating and discovered that he had an addiction problem and was becoming intoxicated while caring for my young daughter. He also obtained a medical marijuana card. I have not allowed him to see her due to his problems. I asked him to seek help for his issues with addiction and his mental health issues but he claims he doesn't have a problem. He has since filed a paternity suite (he isn't on her birth certificate) and custody suite. He also wants to have her last name changed from mine to his. He knew how important it was to me to have her last name be the same as mine as we are the last 2 people left in my family with this last name amung other rasons. I am so afraid that the courts will overlook my concerns about his issues and he will be granted shared custody. I just want him to go away and leave us alone. He is the biggest low life I know. I have found out that he refuses to work and is living on welfare, of which he gained illegally because he didn't disclose to them money that he had. He has also spread rumors about me to a community of people we both know and managed to get them to feel sorry for him and made me out to be the bad guy and I am now shunned by this group. They have gone to great lengths to protect him by making every attempt to erase any evidence of his addiction and making him appear as a great dad that is missing his daughter when that isn't who he is at all.

Please pray that God surounds my family and keeps this sinfull man away from us. My beautiful daughter doesn't deserve to have such a horrible person as her father. She deserves to be raised in a stable home with God as her savior away from the drama and hurt that this man would bring to her life.
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Heather GOD bless you. its a hard thing to deal with someone who is in your life because of a child that you both love and you have to be civil as possible for the sake of the child.i think we can pray for you,but i think in these type cases.to be honest.i think the best remedy is,for you continuously to pray for him,so that any anger you may feel towards him,starts to melt away and you can deal with him in mercy,the way jesus showed us.the flesh does not want to suffer.it has to be crucified.GOD is for you.the devil is trying to kill anyone that wants to serve god or at least nullify them by bringing somekind of hindrance to them.

Father in the name that is above ALL names.the name of JESUS,i pray that any weapon formed against Heather will not prosper,and we know that all things work together for good to them that are in CHRIST JESUS,and called....according to his purpose.the greater one dwells in us.
greater is he that is in us than he that is in the world.in JESUS name.amen.

Ephesians 6 :1-20
GOD bless you
 
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I see arguments on both sides! Don't get me wrong, he does not need to be around the daughter while he is in the condition he is.

That being said, Father I pray that both angel and her ex come to You and accept Your Gift, Your Son into their lives. I ask that You would show them both, Your love for them and how much they need you. Protect not only this child, but them also. Bring them to You Father. I ask in Jesus name, Amen
 
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angelrn

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seed_time_harvest said:
Heather GOD bless you. its a hard thing to deal with someone who is in your life because of a child that you both love and you have to be civil as possible for the sake of the child.i think we can pray for you,but i think in these type cases.to be honest.i think the best remedy is,for you continuously to pray for him,so that any anger you may feel towards him,starts to melt away and you can deal with him in mercy,the way jesus showed us.the flesh does not want to suffer.it has to be crucified.GOD is for you.the devil is trying to kill anyone that wants to serve god or at least nullify them by bringing somekind of hindrance to them.

Father in the name that is above ALL names.the name of JESUS,i pray that any weapon formed against Heather will not prosper,and we know that all things work together for good to them that are in CHRIST JESUS,and called....according to his purpose.the greater one dwells in us.
greater is he that is in us than he that is in the world.in JESUS name.amen.

Ephesians 6 :1-20
GOD bless you
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I wish I had the same noble way of thinking that you do but right now I can't think that way. I am a scared mom who wants nothing more than to protect her child. I feel like I am being attacked by Satan himself and my ex is his vehicle. I wish it was as simple as him getting over his troubles but as long as he is denial that will never happen. He has 2 other kids that he has done nothing but bully their whole lives. The only time he pays any attention to them is for his own self satisfaction. He has no real involvement in their lives. They are finally old enough to stand up to him and have little to nothing to do with him. He truly believes he is good dad and refuses to listen when anyone tells him otherwise. Until he can come to terms with his poor parenting skills, addiction problems, and mental problems (he is a total narsacist that uses guilt trips to get his way) I will continue to pray that he stays far far away. It would also be nice if he could come clean of his other sins such as lying about me, filing for welfare illegally, refusing to work and living off others pitty. He is consumed by sin and I want to keep people like him far far away from me and my daughter. The only father my little girl needs is the Lord Our Father. With him anything is possible.
 
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Praying for all that is the protection care, healing and help in Jesus Christ is Lord.

God bless
pickles
 
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Praying for Gods will to be done, protection and the best for you and your daughter.
 
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Heather,its horrible what you are having to deal with.that devil makes me mad.the devil is attracted to a wounded soul.the only way to be victorius is through CHRIST JESUS and understanding what he did for us at the cross.JESUS made the atonement for us,and his blood ministers to GOD completely.GOD loved us with JESUS.when you pray for him(that man),i know it hurts......but its,the only way.we don't wrestle against flesh and blood,we are dealing with the enemy.overcome evil with good.we have got to do it the way JESUS did it..Heather i hope there is someone you can talk to face to face,so they can encourage you.keep praying.

sometimes you plant the word.then its tiiiimmmmeeee,then harvest.
 
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shekaniah

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I have prayed for God to bring the truth to light, and to protect you and the girls...God bless
 
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