Letter to husband/feeling sick

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Jordache

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One: I felt for a while that I needed to write my husband a letter. There's a lot to the story, but suffice it to say hes been abusive and manipulative, and has been in the hospital for 4 months. I needed to write this letter because he wont head me out any other way, and in order to move on i need to know all the cards are on the table. Its a letter Of compassion. I honestly feel like if he just can't bear to be with me then it's ok if thats what he thinks will make him better. I Just need him to make a final choice to try or not to try. Ive been dealing with this drama for over a year now and i dont deserve to be belittled and threatened with divorce every time hes presented with what he considers a challenge.
(I sent a letter to my dad yesterday. He is not safe and I told him I wont talk to him until he starts to admit what he did to my brother, sister, and Me.)

Two: I have a medical condition which requires me to be on a special diet which ive rebelled against for years. I started it this year and its making me sick. I cant eat much so i wake up hungry at night, and im weak and tired all the time. I run off adrenaline. Its all I have.
 
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wwjd_kilden

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You have a diet that does not give you the food/ energy you need???? - Talk to another doctor asap!

for the other I will be praying, as I have never been in a relationship, I do not have any advice to give but to listen to what God tells you
 

pickles

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Praying for all you ask here in Jesus.
Huge hugs

God bless
pickles
 

shemaiah

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I'll be praying for you, God bless
 
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Shine4Jesus

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I pray that the Lord will Guide you through this trial you are facing right now, and that you are filled with perfect peace. Try to remain positive and seek the LORD so that he may lead you to the right choice whatever that may be.

Just remember God is always there even when we cannot feel his presence, his love knows no boundary seek his face and he will be your guide.
 
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Jordache

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My diet is complicated. I cannot have protein. Since everything has protein, I can't eat much. Its much easier to list what I can have than what I can't have. Trust me---this is it. The only real foods I can eat are fruits and veggies. Thats it. Nothing else. Today I feel worse than ever. I went to a brunch and I ask beforehand what there would be there. Well, she was wrong. There was nothing I could eat... Only oranges, but oranges on an empty stomach is never good. So I didn't eat. Then when I got home I was strangely not hungry. I worked a bit and forced myself to eat... A few veggie crackers, a small avocado, and a mango. I just kept feeling worse throughout the day. Drank some water which made me feel worse. Now I'm making dinner hoping I can force myself to eat without making myself sicker. Wish me luck...
 
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I'll pray for you. Word to the wise, I don't agree with any kind of "special diet." We are omnivores for a good reason. We need a variety of the 4 food groups to keep our bodies in optimal condition. Any diet that your body is disagreeing with is important to read. Listen to your body. If you feel too hot, too cold, hungry, sick, hurt, it will tell you. So if you're eating even what you think might be good, but your body gets sick, it's it obviously telling you "NO". Listen to your body. Your body isn't getting sick because you're eating the right things. Drink lots of water and take very deep breaths, holding, for as long as you can then release, and get lots of sleep. Those things work wonders. As far as the letter goes, write it, then put it away. Don't give it to him yet. Later you might decide not to give it and you might decide that it's better to burn it. Dear lord guide her every move. Help her husband. Amen.
 
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wwjd_kilden

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You cannot eat protein? Never heard of that... Your body is built with protein, it needs that stuff to regenerate