I need prayer because im feel very hurt and lonely. I joined a church three years ago and i was counseling with pastor regarding a break up. Needless to say he began coming to my job calling me everyday even showed up at my house and told me never to tell anyone about the visit. He tried to kiss me and I forgave him but things got deeper...He said he was falling in love with me I didn't take him seriously because I knew the love he had for his wife. To make a long story short it became physical and i left the church. A year later he says he wants to be my friend and my "dad". and I really believed that he cared. He took care of me but now I want to telll his wife because he will not tell her that he still talks to me...he says she wouldn't understand. I'm tired and I really don't know how to go about exposing this..I believe he is still playing mind games with me beacuse he tells me everyday he loves me. Please pray for me.

I think you should not let him come anywhere near you. He may be a pastor, but he is committing adultery and you must not follow in that path. There is no way he can be your 'dad' when he has already failed to set a good example for you. Tell his wife if he continues. I will pray for you both. God bless

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Everything you are to me, is everything I'll ever need!

I agree wth Sheamaiah.

Will pray

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Ik geloof in een schitterende God!

(I belive in an amazing / beatuiful / brilliant God)

I agree with Shemaiah, I will also be praying for you, the pastor and his family. Remember the pastor is a man who is to live as an example.
Is this a small church...and can you go talk to elders.

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Psalm 126:5,6
Those who sow in tears will reap with songs of joy.
He who goes out weeping, carrying seed to sow, will return with songs of joy, carrying sheaves with him.

Praying for you in Jesus Christ s Lord.
He was wrong to take advantage of you.
Talk to the elders before you speak to His wife, she should not have to suffer for His sins.

Hugs and God bless
pickles

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It is in our weakness that God's power is made perfect!

the guy is a wolf. avoid him.

the Bible warns against such men.

2 Timothy 3
3 But know this, that in the last days perilous times will come: 2 For men will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, 3 unloving, unforgiving, slanderers, without self-control, brutal, despisers of good, 4 traitors, headstrong, haughty, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, 5 having a form of godliness but denying its power. And from such people turn away! 6 For of this sort are those who creep into households and make captives of gullible women loaded down with sins, led away by various lusts, 7 always learning and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth.

if he is suppose to be your spiritual "father" then he just committed incest and child abuse, both of the physical and psychological nature.

avoid him, find another church

make it a policy never to be alone with a male pastor or elder that is married. have their wife or another member of the church there.

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Isaiah 9:6
For unto us a Child is born, Unto us a Son is given; And the government will be upon His shoulder. And His name will be called Wonderful, Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.

2 Corinthians 2:15-17
New King James Version (NKJV)
15 For we are to God the fragrance of Christ among those who are being saved and among those who are perishing. 16 To the one we are the aroma of death leading to death, and to the other the aroma of life leading to life. And who is sufficient for these things? 17 For we are not, as so many,[a] peddling the word of God; but as of sincerity, but as from God, we speak in the sight of God in Christ..

Col 3
15 Andlet the peace of God rule in your hearts, to which also you were called in one body; and be thankful. 16 Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly in all wisdom, teaching and admonishing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing with grace in your hearts to the Lord. 17 And whatever you do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through Him.

Record his phone calls and expose him so he won't prey an another vulnerable victim.

Repent of your part in the situation.

Lord i pray that Dave is able to do you will
and have the courage and willingness to follow you no matter
what is to come may he know that you are always with him
as you are with all of us. In the name of The Father and of The Son and of The Holy Spirit
Amen.

Not sure what the Prayer is for but I'll take it...

There is a VERY good internet Chrsitian radio station that has a one-on-one chat room (just you and an excellent Christian counsellor) that you can get good godly advice from. God to bbnradio.org and you will see the link there. Listen to the radio first for a couple days/weeks to understand their biblical standing but I have been listening to them for several years and I know they are on solid ground doctrinally. The person you contact in that chat room will be able to tell you what you should do in your circumstance and you don't need to give any personal informtion (identify yourself0.

Why don't you just write an annonomous email or letter addressed to his wife. Tell about what happened without revealing too much about who you are. Then just say that you've forgiven him and stuff but you wanted to do this out of concern for him and her. And just say you should pray about this and talk to your husband so that he gets his act together since he's married. Writing the letter and sending it, will give you closure. Cuz once your married you really got to settle down. A lot of men don't unfortunately. They should have maybe just stayed single if they weren't ready to settle down. Dear lord please help her to forgive foreget and gain closure.