Thankyou all soo much i went down today my grandad is just like normal its a miracle i got him from hospital and as soon as he was home he was back to normal shouting at me for talking too quiet and sending me on a shopping mission for oranges but not just any oranges oh i wont even go there lol. I left my gran and grandad arguing so both must be well gosh as if there is still passion at 86 hehe i love them dearly. thankyou everyone xxxx