J
Im really having a hard time with my mom. Being her only girl, I get it 10x worse than my brothers an they just don't get it. She goes on crazed rampages and says so many hurtful things
. The day my father died, a few weeks ago, she was driving me back to the airport and decided to ream me about how horrible of a daughter I was, how I need to forgive her, and the 10,000 other things I need to do to meet her needs. She wants me to be her best friend and she is just not safe. To make matters worse, she puts my brothers against me. She is severly co-dependent and boundary resistant. She interprets a texting response that is too few words or takes more than 5 seconds as a sign that I hate her and she'll never see her grandkids.
I am trying to set boundaries with her but she responds like a child and tell me horrible things. I just can't handle her thinking I'm the source of all her problems.
. The day my father died, a few weeks ago, she was driving me back to the airport and decided to ream me about how horrible of a daughter I was, how I need to forgive her, and the 10,000 other things I need to do to meet her needs. She wants me to be her best friend and she is just not safe. To make matters worse, she puts my brothers against me. She is severly co-dependent and boundary resistant. She interprets a texting response that is too few words or takes more than 5 seconds as a sign that I hate her and she'll never see her grandkids.
I am trying to set boundaries with her but she responds like a child and tell me horrible things. I just can't handle her thinking I'm the source of all her problems.