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Clement16

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Hello Brother/Sister

Iam Clement, iam caught up with porngraphy addiction, i have a broken relationship , not coz of my porn addiction, she is a non christian,. Right now i stand without a single friend in my life , i dont have any meaning in my life , my life is filled with boredom, agony and fear , in office i lost my promotion and finanicial problems 9years of working and no saving. I feel like a no meaning to my life . I dont have anyone to share or cry to , searching for someone , i landed on this site.

Iam a back slider, i was into god and then went away from him, now i feel his door are shut for me , i need someone to advice me how to bring back my life to normal in accordance with gods way. i wont start from the basic.

While i started writing my problem here i was ashamed , now when iam at this point , i am not ashamed to share my problems coz i beilieve all who are here , are my brother and sister in christ and iam sure you all will help change my life.

i need advice and pray.


Regards
Clement
 

Lucy68

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Welcome to CC, Clement :).

Well if you're looking for a group of sinners, you've found it :).

The good news is that you can ALWAYS start over. It's when we're at rock bottom that's there no other place to go but up.

When we truly look at ourselves, there can be some pretty awful stuff inside. God has granted you a very big blessing....though it doesn't seem like it right now because it hurts so much. But once we see ourselves as we truly are, then we're ready for the transformation process. I wish I could say that this is one-time thing and remains for the rest of our lives; but I think we have to go through it on a regular basis.

"His door" is never shut; you may have turned your back to Him, but you can now turn around. Who else has the "words of life?". No one but God.

Get back into His Word and pray while you read. Find a Christian addiction group. Support groups are a MUST for an addiction. When you can't stand on your own, they will hold you up. Find a church to attend. Praise music and the teaching of God's Word is VERY uplifting.


Praying for you brother.....guidance, strength, hope, and love. Don't give up! You are greatly loved :)
 
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shekaniah

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My sister Lucy gave you loving wisdom.

You will be in my prayers too...

Call out to God for strength and wisdom.

Find brothers at Church to stand with,

God bless, Shekaniah
 
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libertygirl

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We are your brothers and sisters in Christ. :) God is waiting for you with open arms, He wants you to return to Him. Go to Him, ask for forgiveness and ask Him to change you so that you are never the same. When you give up the world and walk in God's ways, you will start to experience life, joy and freedom. These are parts of the fruit of the Spirit. Your life is not meaningless, God created you with a purpose. I know He wants to show you all that He has for you. Draw closer to Him and don't look back. He has good things in store for you! Praying for you.
 
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Clement16

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Thank you everyone for ur reply . First of all i feel really good that you to the time out to read my problem and stand by me.

I have started my fight with addiction and plz pray for me to be consistent. I believe that god will stand by me .

Thanks alot bro/sis in christ for ur response. I know pray is the only answer.
 
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ydc1210

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I feel it is a great thing for you to post this and get this out in the open. I don't know if you know this, but you are not isolated in your struggles; there are more of us with these issues out there than you may think, i believe many of us can relate to you. I feel one of the greatest advantages to getting this stuff out in the open is the ability to discard any false appearances of perfection. I personally started a journal on another site where I could keep others updated on my progress, perhaps you could update time to time on your progress as well here or on another site or two. You may fall a few times but don't stay defeated; Christ can give us the strength to keep getting up. Hoping a miracle comes your way. Stay strong!
 
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If it is through the computer then you should get rid of it.
But I know that would end your communion on the site.
Is there any way you can get a program that blocks porno material?
And have someone else type in the password so you can't turn it off in a moment of weakness?
 

pickles

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Apr 20, 2009
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Clement, I have seen the good works you have done in the past for others that battle this addiction .
I know this is not a time to dispair, but to remember the power of God that has poured out on you before, this power is still with you, God Our Father has just been watching and waiting for you, that you will know that He has never given up on you.
Scripture says that gold is perfected in fire.
You are in my prayers that Jesus bring His perfect in you compleatly.
Also praise God, for to learn that while one may sorrow, praise is giving all in Jesus to God with the knowladge that He knows all we need and will provide it.
It is good to see you here :), I look forward to seeing Gods power at work in your life!

God bless :)
pickles
 
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psychomom

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"My sheep hear My voice, and I know them, and they follow Me;
and I give eternal life to them, and they will never perish; and no one will snatch them out of My hand."
John 10:27-28

Clement, see what your Lord says to you? I believe "no one" means...well, NO ONE. :)
God has given you grace, beloved! Grace to return to Him. ♥
Rejoice and be glad!

I will surely pray for you, beloved of your Father.
You can't accomplish a thing on your own, but thank God!
With Him, all things are possible.
:)

grace and peace in the love of Jesus,
ellie
 
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Jemuel

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i am with you! you are like a mirror to me. You know what when I wholeheartedly repented to God. God change my life. I am so happy so blessed now that from being a back slider now I am completely brought back to life.


We may achieve success in life. A good life, a car, a career, or whatever.....but in the end this will not matter. what will matter is our soul.


Praise God that if He was able to change my life...how is that to you. welcome to CC. Your journey has just begun......man- hugs!!!!

Glory to the risen king
 
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ChurchLover

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Thank you everyone for ur reply . First of all i feel really good that you to the time out to read my problem and stand by me.

I have started my fight with addiction and plz pray for me to be consistent. I believe that god will stand by me .

Thanks alot bro/sis in christ for ur response. I know pray is the only answer.


Amen we will Continue to help you go through this together in Christ, Lord God help him fight this Addiction and Lord let him quiet in your timing Lord, i command all evil spirits and thoughts to stay gone from him in JESUS NAME and Lord protect him and keep him safe from any wickedness things and i Command the Devil to FLEE in JESUS NAME I pray Amen,

Keep us up to date Bro

With Lots of Love
ChurchLover
 

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i am with you! you are like a mirror to me. You know what when I wholeheartedly repented to God. God change my life. I am so happy so blessed now that from being a back slider now I am completely brought back to life.


We may achieve success in life. A good life, a car, a career, or whatever.....but in the end this will not matter. what will matter is our soul.


Praise God that if He was able to change my life...how is that to you. welcome to CC. Your journey has just begun......man- hugs!!!!

Glory to the risen king
I love this! May it give Clement hope, to see how God changed you. :)