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Crazy4GODword

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Okay so now I'm in even more trouble with my girlfriend family, again me and my girlfriend's mother have been fighting for over a year. Now her family is accusing me of having unprotected sex with her daughter which honest to God we didn't, and it's such a mess that I'm not allowed to speak to her, text her for a couple days...well it has been actually 4 days since we have not texted at all and i went to visit her at school (we both are 17 but i got out of high school in February for being above my credits), and i started seeing her at lunch and today She had to walk home alone, i didn't want that so i walked with her (found out she was walking when i talked to her yesterday lunch), and father and siblings one 13 other 19 we're in the car and they and they saw us and stopped and there father yelled at me for being a punk, unchristian, disrespectful person. Look me and my girlfriend are in love and i do anything to hear and see her...i think i pushed the limits. But her entire family hates me they want to kill me and kick my butt...but here the thing there is no reason why. i know they are being protective of their daughter but they take it so far they hate me without a cause. accusing me of fornication inside her which never happened......Idk what to do and i need your prayers, me and my girl have been through so much, we don't wanna give up, this situation is so hard to beat i don't know if i will see her again. She is turning 18 next week and they are afraid I'll runway with her.....but we aren't even planning that.......plus i still be 17 till August I'm be 18. please pray deeply for us....I'm afraid of a lot...please pray
 
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Powemm

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Believe and trust that God wil lead and guide you, even when our plan isn't perfect .. His is ..
Remember the problem may be bigger than us, but never bigger than God. . Keep tearin Hos daughter with the love and respect God gives to you..
There's an old saying
"at first they hate you
Then they run from you (sounds like this is where you are)
Then they tolerate you
Then you win "
God is with you , how can you loose?
 
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Duckies

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Stay faithful and strong brother :) for you guys have kept the relationship clean and healthy for what i understand from your comment. Pray to God that no only he help you guys, but put upfront first the others, in this case the parents, so that their heart be touched.

Always pray with God's will, not yours, for His interest is Ours. God already knows your heart and what you need, just keep telling him what you are after and that you wish him to work his will in your current situation!

God Bless You brother!! and do not let this hurt your heart with ill feelings towards others; instead love as you wish to be loved.
 
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dang man dat sucks having to deal with stupid adults
 

pickles

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Continueing to pray for you both in Jesus's name and that her family will see the truth and the peace of Jesus will fill you all.

God bless
pickles
 
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My daughter is 15, and I feel sorry for whoever her first love is going to be. I know how I was as a teenager. A boy is going to have to seriously prove himself before he gains my trust. Her parents probably see how serious you two are with eachother and it scares them. I'm sure you have caused many arguments between her and her family. I didn't say they were your fault. There is love, and there is teenage infatuation. Love is good and infatuation is dangerous and impetuous. It causes people to withdraw from other loved ones and do stupid things. I'd recommend spending time with her with her family. If it is love you are going to want to build a solid relationship with all involved not to be the one they blame for everything.