Co-worker infactuation....

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faithandlove

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I spoke about this person some weeks ago, because I was sick of him trying to "hit on me". We are co-workers, but I also considered him a friend. We are both Christians and he is married. When I last spoke of him, I spoke of trying to "let him down" nicely, but firmly. I wanted to make it clear to him that I don't enjoy his attention. So, some weeks ago I changed my number and prayed about how to approach him. This guy was really taken with me and I didn't want it to turn ugly and have non-Christians involved. After praying again yesterday, I approached him this morning. I made it very clear how I felt and I told him outright no more. He seemed to take it well then, but buy the time I left work, he seemed "whatever".

I know I did the right thing.

I am asking for prayer for this person, his marriage and for me. Thank you.
 
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Prayed for you. It may be hard to do that kind of thing but doing what you feel is right despite of a possible non favorable reaction from the other, is sometimes hard. I'm proud of you for doing that.
 

crmvet

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James 4:7. You did the right thing.
 
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faithandlove

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Well, like I have said in the orginal post, I'm sorry if his wife "isn't what he bargined for", but I will not be taking her place!

Thank you all for the prayers and replying to this post.....and crmvet, I think I did, too.
 

pickles

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Praying for him and his family in Jesus's name.

God bless
pickles