Courage and Guidance I need so badly!

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lila_advin07

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I just came from a very painful separation, infact, just separated for 4 months. My husband of 7 long years has finally decided to live with his other woman under one roof. I discovered about this just a couple of days back.

I've tried really all so reconciliation could still be possible but my efforts failed.

I can't put into words what I'm going through now. I am so hurt, so scared!

Please pray for me for courage to keep me going.
 

pickles

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I am so sorry that you are going through such a great sorrow right now. I wish I could give you the answers you need.
All I can offer is my hope and prayers for you. I will keep you in my daily prayers.
Hugs and God bless, pickles
 

pickles

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Hi lila, Just wanted to check and see how you are doing.
Still in my daily prayers, God bless, pickles
 
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ShariJo

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Praying for you during this difficult time. Here are the words to a song that I have found to be very encouraging to me.
I pray that God would help you in this situation. Keep encouraged!

TRUST HIS HEART

All things work for our good
though sometimes we can't see how they could
struggles that break our hearts in two
sometimes blinds us to the truth

Our Father knows what's best for us
His ways are not our own
So when your pathway grows dim, and you just can't see Him
Remember you're never alone

God is too wise to be mistaken
God is too good to be unkind
So when you don't understand
When you don't see His plan
When you can't trace His hand
Trust His heart

He sees the master plan
And He holds our future in His hands
So don't live as those who have no hope
All our hope is found in Him

We see the present clearly
But He sees the first and the last
And like a tapestry He's weaving you and me to someday be just like Him

God is too wise to be mistaken
God is too good to be unkind
So when you don't understand
When you don't see His plan
When you can't trace His hand
Trust His heart

He alone is faithful and true
He alone knows what is best for you
So when you don't understand
When you don't see His plan
When you can't trace His hand trust His heart
 
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sunshine_debbie

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I just came from a very painful separation, infact, just separated for 4 months. My husband of 7 long years has finally decided to live with his other woman under one roof. I discovered about this just a couple of days back.

I've tried really all so reconciliation could still be possible but my efforts failed.

I can't put into words what I'm going through now. I am so hurt, so scared!

Please pray for me for courage to keep me going.

I wish that I could help you. I have been going through something severe and my husband is sent by God to help me with them, so I know how devestating this must be. I will pray for you, right now that God will give you courage and grant him wisdom and conviction to live according to God's word.

Debbie
 

lila_advin07

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Dec 2, 2009
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TRUST HIS HEART

All things work for our good
though sometimes we can't see how they could
struggles that break our hearts in two
sometimes blinds us to the truth

Our Father knows what's best for us
His ways are not our own
So when your pathway grows dim, and you just can't see Him
Remember you're never alone


Sharijo,

Thank you so much for posting this poem. It encouraged me a great deal. God knows that I am struggling still for this truth to sink in my heart. There were nights and days when I question His great purpose for letting painful experience like this happen. I am afraid of the future. I don't know what to do next. I even dropped out of law school this week after I discovered that my husband and his other woman now live together. I was really hoping for reconciliation that is why I still stayed here in our city. I wanted to leave my place now and go to manila or apply for a work abroad. Honestly, I just don't know what to do. My future seem so dark and I don't know where to start.

I am afraid, really. Please continue to pray for me, for direction and guidance. I wanted to do the right thing.
 

lila_advin07

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Dec 2, 2009
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TRUST HIS HEART

All things work for our good
though sometimes we can't see how they could
struggles that break our hearts in two
sometimes blinds us to the truth

Our Father knows what's best for us
His ways are not our own
So when your pathway grows dim, and you just can't see Him
Remember you're never alone


Sharijo,

Thank you so much for posting this poem. It encouraged me a great deal. God knows that I am struggling still for this truth to sink in my heart. There were nights and days when I question His great purpose for letting painful experience like this happen. I am afraid of the future. I don't know what to do next. I even dropped out of law school this week after I discovered that my husband and his other woman now live together. I was really hoping for reconciliation that is why I still stayed here in our city. I wanted to leave my place now and go to manila or apply for a work abroad. Honestly, I just don't know what to do. My future seem so dark and I don't know where to start.

I am afraid, really. Please continue to pray for me for direction and guidance. I wanted to do the right thing.
 

lila_advin07

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Dec 2, 2009
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Thank you Debbie, Pickles and Sharijo for all your prayers. God bless you more!