Hey everyone. Iv just recently returned and rejoined after about a year away. Im in need of some desperate prayer im afraid, your prayers have helped before and so im asking for them again please
Ill try not to make this too long. My uncle got evicted about two months or so ago (got behind on rent because of drugs) and as a result left his eighteen year old son (my cousin) homeless. He cant live with my aunt because he's a very troubled boy, he had childhood from hell and thats putting it mildly.Anyway years ago he tried molesting my grandmother and my little sister,and has alot of built of up anger from his childhood. We thought he had gotton past it being eighteen now but no. Few months back, before he turned eighteen my sister (who i should mention is somewhat mentally handicapped and was born premature and has NO way to defend herself) came crying to my aunt (whom she lives with) that he came in there late one night pressuring her to have sex, showingher condoms and everything. she was hysterical and highly upset. needless to say he is banned from spending the night there ever again or whenever she is there. Cops were called of course but no charges were pressed since he didnt technically rape her.
So were his onyl place left to go since my cousins (my uncles daughter) is having to take in my uncle. Were stuck with my perverted cousin and my mom and i are beyond miserable. All he does is wanna get high all the time. Eat all our food. He stays up all night on my moms computer giving it viruses,then sleeps all day till sometimes 4 in the afternoon on our couch. When he does get out to make a little money mowing a yard or something for somenone every penny goes on pot and crack, he doesnt help us out wiht bills or food or anything. When we say something about him sleeping all day he gets an atttitude and cusses us. Plus..as you can imagine my mom..everytime she looks at him she thinks what he did to her daughter and it makes her sick and it does me too. He doesnt wanna work and wont help out around the house either. He flipped nuts one night, wanted to kill himself and shota hot through our window with his beebee gun and then took his bat going down the street hitting every sign he could and that was before he got mad and grabbed my mom putting bruises on her. I can handle it, just barely but i can. My mom though gets so stressed out she gets bad panic and anxiety attacks and chest pains and had to be in bed half the day
My mom and i stay so tense when hes here, that we can barely eat and I too find myself just going to my room and crying sometimes. He has literally NO where else to go. He does get a monthly check, well he used too. hes trying to get it started back up and hopefully get his own place. He says he wants too but..it just doesn't seen to be happening. Iv prayed for him i know hes had hard life and we tell him we love him and hug him but tis hard..kiv prayed for him nearly every night, but please....I need prayers that something will happen because..for one..were not allowed to have someone living with us longer than two weeks and its been months alreadyw ere risking ournecks here to give him a place to stay. I keep thinking mybe its for a reason and God wants him here so he can get love and mybe i can talk to him about God, I just dont know.
Were at our witts end and even my moms therapist and a few family members have told us to kick him out let him spend few nights outside to help him act better..i wouldntmind so much but my mom and aunt are too big hearted to do it. Prayers please! that eh can get his check again and get far away from us...I don't know how much more we can take.
Ill try not to make this too long. My uncle got evicted about two months or so ago (got behind on rent because of drugs) and as a result left his eighteen year old son (my cousin) homeless. He cant live with my aunt because he's a very troubled boy, he had childhood from hell and thats putting it mildly.Anyway years ago he tried molesting my grandmother and my little sister,and has alot of built of up anger from his childhood. We thought he had gotton past it being eighteen now but no. Few months back, before he turned eighteen my sister (who i should mention is somewhat mentally handicapped and was born premature and has NO way to defend herself) came crying to my aunt (whom she lives with) that he came in there late one night pressuring her to have sex, showingher condoms and everything. she was hysterical and highly upset. needless to say he is banned from spending the night there ever again or whenever she is there. Cops were called of course but no charges were pressed since he didnt technically rape her.
So were his onyl place left to go since my cousins (my uncles daughter) is having to take in my uncle. Were stuck with my perverted cousin and my mom and i are beyond miserable. All he does is wanna get high all the time. Eat all our food. He stays up all night on my moms computer giving it viruses,then sleeps all day till sometimes 4 in the afternoon on our couch. When he does get out to make a little money mowing a yard or something for somenone every penny goes on pot and crack, he doesnt help us out wiht bills or food or anything. When we say something about him sleeping all day he gets an atttitude and cusses us. Plus..as you can imagine my mom..everytime she looks at him she thinks what he did to her daughter and it makes her sick and it does me too. He doesnt wanna work and wont help out around the house either. He flipped nuts one night, wanted to kill himself and shota hot through our window with his beebee gun and then took his bat going down the street hitting every sign he could and that was before he got mad and grabbed my mom putting bruises on her. I can handle it, just barely but i can. My mom though gets so stressed out she gets bad panic and anxiety attacks and chest pains and had to be in bed half the day
My mom and i stay so tense when hes here, that we can barely eat and I too find myself just going to my room and crying sometimes. He has literally NO where else to go. He does get a monthly check, well he used too. hes trying to get it started back up and hopefully get his own place. He says he wants too but..it just doesn't seen to be happening. Iv prayed for him i know hes had hard life and we tell him we love him and hug him but tis hard..kiv prayed for him nearly every night, but please....I need prayers that something will happen because..for one..were not allowed to have someone living with us longer than two weeks and its been months alreadyw ere risking ournecks here to give him a place to stay. I keep thinking mybe its for a reason and God wants him here so he can get love and mybe i can talk to him about God, I just dont know.
Were at our witts end and even my moms therapist and a few family members have told us to kick him out let him spend few nights outside to help him act better..i wouldntmind so much but my mom and aunt are too big hearted to do it. Prayers please! that eh can get his check again and get far away from us...I don't know how much more we can take.
