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    Started a YouTube channel for Christian punk/rock

    If there are any Christian rock fans out there, check out some of my music and let me know what you think.
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    Anyone here have a happy marriage after adultery?

    Thank you, that was beautifully said. That gives me a lot to think about. My first reaction was definitely anger and fear, and even beating myself up for letting it happen. thank you that’s another great way of looking at it. We are flawed sinners but the marriage was still a gift from God and...
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    Anyone here have a happy marriage after adultery?

    Thank you, that was beautifully said. I hadn’t thought about it in that way yet but it makes a lot of sense.
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    Anyone here have a happy marriage after adultery?

    Ok but you acknowledge that you also sin, right? Is your sin forgivable but not other peoples? It’s not my place to judge or punish, to be Christian is to be Christ-like and He forgave even the worst of the sinners. If He can die for the worlds sin, surely I can forgive one sin. Jesus said any...
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    Anyone here have a happy marriage after adultery?

    Do you mean therapy? She has a counselor at the church, I was debating whether we should both see that therapist or someone new.
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    Anyone here have a happy marriage after adultery?

    Ok let me rephrase, she was abused by her father and raped at 15. Nothing that bad ever happened to me so I can’t relate to what that kind of trauma does to a persons mental health.
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    Anyone here have a happy marriage after adultery?

    I agree it will take years to build trust but unfortunately we are getting to the age where having a child becomes less likely. We have been trying for about 6 years and we were getting to the point of looking into adoption. I suppose now we will certainly wait before adopting. Though I do worry...
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    Anyone here have a happy marriage after adultery?

    I just found out my wife slept with my friend and needless to say I’m devastated. She says it’s because she is broken from some really awful things that happened in her past and she knows it was stupid and is sorry. I am angry but she is the love of my life and I don’t want to lose her. I also...