Want To Be A Wife, A Chat Room For Women only

cookie39 · Jan 18, 2011

I know you are tring to get things up and running again, and I am praying you do not get stressed out...... And on that note.... I would like to ask could there be a all women chat room..... and if men want one then that would be nice as well. The reason I am asking this is because one day some of us woman was giving godly advice to some of the sisters on how to be a wife, and how to put the world's way of thinking out and bring in the God ways.... I would ask that this room be restricked to 18 years and older... because that day I had to get a little bit too grown up for younger ears, and not want to teach other people young children things that they own parents might want to be the first to tell them. I don't mind men coming into this room as long as they are coming to listen and learn. that they may know what to exspect from a Godly Wife....... plzzzzzzzzz plzzzzzzzzzz plzzzzzzzzzz....... I know it helped cause the things I told them they say was never told to them before and it has helped them. I will not be teaching it will only be discussing what WE know.... even the younger woman can teach us older woman something if we are humble and willing to listen. It is Amazing how many woman have not been taught to be a wife... and what they thought was a good woman is... is only in their minds, and what they world say a good woman is... yet they are still single.... so Again when you have time; and if it is possible can you plzzzzzzzz, plzzzzzzzzzzzz, plzzzzzzzzzzzz consider it.

God bless; and sorry for the troubles you are having.... { with the website} lol,, don't want no one think it is personal.... Oh... Maybe you can make it where we can add rooms to use for that day... when we exit... so do the room.... seen it on other site's..... this will stop the asking for to add rooms.... umm.. as long as The Mods can still enter at will... or this would not be a good Idea. Thank you n God bless.........

Fierflie · Jan 18, 2011

Cookie sister, you are a hoot, I just looked in here and thought wow, no one posting, they waiting for the upgrades to be done, went and had dinner, was thinking about some of my family in Jesus Christ here, including , actually was thinking of you, and whoaaa, someone posted here, and it was you.

All women over 18 sounds GREAT to me, and NO men allowed sounds even better, as sometimes we talk more if they not in the room, if we wanted co-ed room, can move to other rooms.

I miss hearing you lead us in prayer, miss bible study, miss the fellowship, I am soooo lonely,

When the time is right, we all be together again

Until then,

God be with you

Hugs and love

cookie39 · Jan 18, 2011

Amen sister, yes women only no co-ed..... I agree so I take that part out, We can talk about promblems which men should not here. helping each other with the good, the bed and the ugly...lol... in the Lord obcourse... Yes sister I miss you too...love you much and know that the Lord will help thise who seek him, just keep us in his holy ears..... till we can meet-up in the chat room you be strong in the Lord and in the power of his might. LOVE YOU SO MUCH...

dawnbreaking · Jan 18, 2011

There is plenty of opertunity to discuss these things in pm, even with an all womens room there has to be a male leadership to answer to. I have also learned in the past that one on one in Pm works best. the Lord bless and keep, and always greatful we are able to learn together

be blessed you are loved,
Dawnbreaking

camragirl73 · Jan 18, 2011

dawn you dont count lol Iv been asking for a womans room forever about time someone was on the same page LOVE YOU DAWN

cookie39 · Jan 19, 2011

Well a week ago there was 5 of us in one room talking about this... and we all was trully blessed... I think where there are two or more it is good as well..... if a person want a personal chat, then that is ok.... it does not matter if a Man Moderater is over seerer; as long as He is godly and not a gossiper....being Mature enough in the Lord to be able to hear what woman have to talk about; YET; WHY Do it have to be? There are woman Mods here too.... And how can a man tell a woman how to be a woman? So I totally disagree with it should be in the pm.... when it is so many who can learn together and help one another; WOW THAT WOULD BE ALOT OF PMs TO BE ABLE TO HELP ALL THOSE WHO IS SEEKING GODLY GUIDANCE.. Like some Woman who has husbands and do not know how to stay off the Computers or phones, forsaking all others... to tend to there husbands needs... and some who don't know what to do according to the Lord, when they get a potential husband. Or Just being a godly woman. WOW, Sister Dawn.... I am not one to believe that Men are to lead woman... Just the Husband is to lead His OWN wife, and the Wife Submitting to her OWN husband. unless we got more than one husband, We ought to be concerned about the one MAN in our lives and submit to him.... and not be concerned about what another MAn has to say to us....... As Woman we are told to teach the younger woman in modesty, and godliness, and how to be godly wives... all older woman do not know this and it will be doing the body of Christ a justice in setting aside time to do just that..... If They know it!!! God bless you sister Dawn.

Amen Camagirl....

mercyme · Jan 19, 2011

am soooooooooooooooooooooo for this,THANKS

dawnbreaking · Jan 19, 2011

LOL love you tooo cam cam!!!!!!!!! sweet blessings to you today sister

Dawnbreaking

ThusSaithBry · Jan 19, 2011

I like this idea unless it permanently separates us. I enjoy the fellowship of both men and women on here and it would be sad if the women whom I have a great deal of respect for stayed in the women only room all the time. Maybe a mens fellowship time and a womens fellowship time in the random room or by invitation PM groups would be better to avoid this happening. I for one don't want to lose all the godly women to a room that shuts us guys out. We need you all, and not to sound harsh but perhaps you need us too. I do agree that there are some topics that are more suited for womens discussion and some for mens discussion. I just think maybe if they do decide to do something like this that it should be limited to avoid permanent separation.

Love and Peace to my sisters ,
Bryan

Gal 3:28 There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.

camragirl73 · Jan 19, 2011

yes but woman want to talk about private woman thing like rape or other things one might not want to talk around men or men popping in and out of a room cant wait for cc

happyface · Jan 19, 2011

A womens room is good. Sometimes it good to talk to women, sorry men! lol Amen

thimsrebma · Jan 19, 2011

There is already a womens only forum. It is not specifically for advice on wifedom(i dont think thats a word, but lets pretend that it is) but I post stuff there often about relationship(or in my case lack of relationship) LOL. I do think it would be best if we could have a age limited group as well.

cookie39 · Jan 20, 2011

I understand that it may seem if all woman will be in this room at all time; Carnally speaking, We woman are a bit nosy to stay in one place when everyone else is in another..lol.. but Godly speaking... I welcome this, for there is too much depression and wounded women, lonely woman who the enemy pushes them toward the thoughts of it is their fault, so many woman need to hear a godly voice, for spoken Words are so powerful to the hearer... and spoken Words of love and encouragement, guidance, strength and Words of God, Spoken bring life.. in many dead places and death to places that should not be alive. I myself has witnessed this here in this site, Sometimes I have three women at a time pm me, and it is hard to keep up with them...lol and try to still listen to what's going on in the room too...like I said.. noisy.....lol.. talking about me.... I would like to know if someone can minister to me, I would have there undivided attention.... and what better way for this, then we all be on one accord in a room which cater to the needs of a godly woman..... All glory and Praises Be unto God alone. Blessing His Holy name in the love we give and have for one another....

Tisha · Jan 20, 2011

I think it would be a good ideal

AlaynaJ · Jan 20, 2011

While it may be a good idea, we do not have a way (As far as I am aware of) to make a certain room in the chat private to women or men only. Also, we already have a womens only forum, and you can use that just as you would the women only chat room.

Sure, it's not exactly integrated the way the chat room is, but it serves the same purpose, so having a room for that would just be redundant. If you have something you want to chat with another woman privately about, we of course have PM windows and a private e-mail system in the forums here.

As I see it, we already have enough things in place that not enough of us are taking advantage of already, including multiple rooms in the chat window itself that are rarely if ever used. It would just be a waste of time to add another room for something that we already HAVE when the things we do have are not being used to their full potential is it is.

grandma21 · Jan 20, 2011

Hi Cookie! Praise God that CC is up and running...even the chat rooms are working

I just wanted to mention something...even though I have been married more than once, I know that God can and will use my failures for His good purposes. I would like to participate in this meeting for women, if nothing more than to share what I have learned and how God's word is so important to hold onto in our hearts in order to succeed in marriage. The heartaches I have experienced and the grace I have received from God which has brought me this far, is something that I am willing to share with another woman or other women who might be struggling in one way or another in their marriage.

So I will pray about this

God bless you sis in the Lord!
~ Lynn

iraasuup · Jan 20, 2011

We have a womens only forum.

We recognised the need that women might have issues they want to discuss only with other women- but the decision was made to create a forum over a room (as its easier for a number of reasons).

*moderating, editing, etc. You encouter all sorts of problems once you create specified gender rooms.

We could encouter many issues:

Men registering as women to enter the room (easier to deal with this in forum than a room- but not going to go into details).
Women going in there and just becoming clicky and chatting anout girly gossip- which is unhealthy and unedifying. - I know the motive behind this suggestion are pure, but there's nothing stopping girls going in there and just talking about boys, or makeup, or shopping, or gossiping as we girls sometimes tend to do (I KNOW everyone does it- but c'mon, we're girls- we like to talk- even me

). I can't see it as edifying if it's room where a bunch of girls go in to jibber on about meaningless nothing.
That will make it hard to monitor, if other women actually want to have edifying conversation, whilst such chit-chat is occuring. How do we monitor that? The people chit-chatting are still women- thus - should be allowed in the room.

What if there are no female mods available to moderate, and a topic gets out of hand? At least with forums- it's not so much a matter of urgency, if something is reported, the first available female mod will address it as soon as she is available. If some drama explodes in the girls only chat room, and a female mod isn't around...what then?

Those are just a few of a handful of problems I can see occuring with the implementation of such a room. Which is why, up until this point, we haven't made one- and this has been suggested several times in the past.

What can you say in a chat room that you can't say in a forum? The only difference is it doesn't have the capabilites for voice/video chat. Having said that though, you can contact each other and arrange to chat on skype or msn or someplace.. if you wish to actually have a voice conversation. We laos have user-created chat groups. You can easily create a girls only one- make it invitation only if you like... but it's viewable to all, however you could use it as a platform to gather together people you trust, and then use another site like skype to have your private voice conversation.

Also, I THINK (and I specifiy THINK), Robo may be considering adding VOICE chat to Private Messaging- thus eliminating your need for such a room. If this occurs, the girls can just PM each other and video chat... yeah? Easy.

A forum, in this instance (for women only - or even for men only) is a better alternative than a room ...this is purely my opinion based on experienc

cookie39 · Jan 20, 2011

AlaynaJ said:

I guess you didn't read my POST(S) up at the top... The Forum does not have the same effects on people as it would if they hear you talking to them.... it is redundant to think it would.... and the all womens forum is for ALL Ages... And some of the things we would or maybe need to talk about AGAIN young ears can not here.... And who want to wait days for someone to respond to a question they ask in a forum; if they are in need of an answer NOW!!!.... I think it is very unconsiterate to think that we can PM someone all the time.... who want to do ALL that typing when you have the option to speak???? So again I would think it will as it has in the past serve a God giving purpose for all women; who seek help. AND YOu do Not give an options that many women can be in one PM at the same time as we was in the chat room about a week ago..... If you would have read all my post you would already got the answer to this statement you made...... I will not disrespeact anyone parents, who do not want their young girls to learn some things from other people... which, as I said before is their job.... and for those who have not had a woman to help them... 18 and over... we as siter in the Lord.. CAN.... I will ask RoboOp and see if he can do it..... unless we can hold up a room and run the men out as they come in... we need a room.... just like you all can monitor the Teens room... you can do the same for a woman's room.... Thank you and God bless you.

cookie39 · Jan 20, 2011

iraasuup said:

We have a womens only forum.

We recognised the need that women might have issues they want to discuss only with other women- but the decision was made to create a forum over a room (as its easier for a number of reasons).

*moderating, editing, etc. You encouter all sorts of problems once you create specified gender rooms.

We could encouter many issues:

Men registering as women to enter the room (easier to deal with this in forum than a room- but not going to go into details).
Women going in there and just becoming clicky and chatting anout girly gossip- which is unhealthy and unedifying. - I know the motive behind this suggestion are pure, but there's nothing stopping girls going in there and just talking about boys, or makeup, or shopping, or gossiping as we girls sometimes tend to do (I KNOW everyone does it- but c'mon, we're girls- we like to talk- even me

). I can't see it as edifying if it's room where a bunch of girls go in to jibber on about meaningless nothing.
That will make it hard to monitor, if other women actually want to have edifying conversation, whilst such chit-chat is occuring. How do we monitor that? The people chit-chatting are still women- thus - should be allowed in the room.

What if there are no female mods available to moderate, and a topic gets out of hand? At least with forums- it's not so much a matter of urgency, if something is reported, the first available female mod will address it as soon as she is available. If some drama explodes in the girls only chat room, and a female mod isn't around...what then?

Those are just a few of a handful of problems I can see occuring with the implementation of such a room. Which is why, up until this point, we haven't made one- and this has been suggested several times in the past.

What can you say in a chat room that you can't say in a forum? The only difference is it doesn't have the capabilites for voice/video chat. Having said that though, you can contact each other and arrange to chat on skype or msn or someplace.. if you wish to actually have a voice conversation. We laos have user-created chat groups. You can easily create a girls only one- make it invitation only if you like... but it's viewable to all, however you could use it as a platform to gather together people you trust, and then use another site like skype to have your private voice conversation.

Also, I THINK (and I specifiy THINK), Robo may be considering adding VOICE chat to Private Messaging- thus eliminating your need for such a room. If this occurs, the girls can just PM each other and video chat... yeah? Easy.

A forum, in this instance (for women only - or even for men only) is a better alternative than a room ...this is purely my opinion based on experienc

These are all what ifs.... with nothing to prove either way or the other..... It does not matter..... just like a grown man or woman can register as a teen and go in there room..... it will not kill noone to have the room, if men want to listen that bad where GODLY Men would go and do such a thing... Then God help them... they need Jesus. It is not like we are saying we are going to be getting undressed in the room, or talking about ungodly things.... If we dont know they are a man, then it wont hurt us,,, we will keep on ministering... and maybe they might learn something.... as a woman I would think you would understand this; but if this is uncomfortable to you... then I will pray about and let the Lord decide... God bless you...

cookie39 · Jan 20, 2011

It can be a male Mod, WHO CARES???? No ONe, we will not be talking about something a mature person have not heard before.... woman will know upon entering the room that there would be a possible male Mod come in sometimes. I would hope to believe that RoboOp would not have some very immature Men or Woman moderating this web site.... even if they hear something do you think they would put it on blast to the other members??? If so who ever that is.. need not to be a Mod. thats just like a doctor, he is mature enough not to get grossed out over what he sees or hear from his patients... it is his job.... So if it is their job to moderate... they need to be mature enough to know they are going to hear some things they would not talk to with another male... neither go a repeat what they hear.... like the privacy act lol... well it's true.... So are the Mods here mature or immature??? I like to know that? from what I have seen so far... You all are very mature in the way you respond to many situations at the site.... God bless

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