CC appears to have a lot of single people that are members however, I personally believe their is a fundamental difference between someone who is single that has never been married and someone who's been divorced. I would like to suggest a more detailed selection to determine one's marital status: Single (Never Married) - Involved (Currently in Relationship) - Engaged - Married - Separated - Divorced - Widowed. If people truly want to honest about themselves, as a Christian should, then I really don't see the harm in sharing such info up front. Of course it is entirely up to them if or with whom they choose to discuss the details of their personal life.