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BillG

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Absolem, to be honest, and I always blatantly am, LOL, in your OP you sounded rather prideful and braggartly when you described how good you are at sex, and about the size of your wanker.. I'll let you in on a secret: women honestly don't care about how big or small a man's wanker is. :) We only care whether they treat us with respect and not as a romp in the hay every now and again. The size of your wanker has NO bearing on your self-worth. Start thinking about how GOD values your worth, and you might just see that sex and big or small wankers are irrelevant.. :)
You forgot being wined, dined, massaged, I love you, cuddled, holding hands and the list could go on.
I have often been called the biggest wanker around, and it has nothing to do with rock and roll.
 

blue_ladybug

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Seriously dude, chillax.. He wrote it while high on something.. And no, it isn't against the rules. It's not encouraged but it's not breaking the rules.. If he wants it deleted, all he's gotta do is contact a mod.. :)


Just ignore him, he's DISGUSTING talking about stuff like that and thinking of women in that way... just ew. Like yes sex is useful to make babies, and is for married people. But like... women are people, not machines of sex like this person is making out.

Who even WANTS to know the size of his part? Why is this even being allowed to be posted on this forum? Surely talking about sex and the size of your sexual part and how good you are at sex and etc is against the rules?
 
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Just ignore him, he's DISGUSTING talking about stuff like that and thinking of women in that way... just ew. Like yes sex is useful to make babies, and is for married people. But like... women are people, not machines of sex like this person is making out.

Who even WANTS to know the size of his part? Why is this even being allowed to be posted on this forum? Surely talking about sex and the size of your sexual part and how good you are at sex and etc is against the rules?
LOL Thinking like this is probably why God waited until I was in my early 40's before He had me actively engage in therapy sessions with Sex Offenders.

OwzK, this is probably the largest single problem half of the world fights. We help no one by pretending it isn't there.
 
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Cerwin

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LOL Thinking like this is probably why God waited until I was in my early 40's before He had me actively engage in therapy sessions with Sex Offenders.

OwzK, this is probably the largest single problem half of the world fights. We help no one by pretending it isn't there.
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I have read in Bible how we are supposed to confess our sins to one another. He was apologetic and was embarrassed by his original way of wording so how forgiving are we ? Jesus forgave a man who killed Christians every day for a living. There is no sin that is too ugly that He won't forgive if we ask repentance. There is no deep black well He can't reach in and pull us out of.
 

blue_ladybug

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Cerwin, to make it easier, use the "reply with quote" button when you respond to someone.. :)


LOL Thinking like this is probably why God waited until I was in my early 40's before He had me actively engage in therapy sessions with Sex Offenders.

OwzK, this is probably the largest single problem half of the world fights. We help no one by pretending it isn't there.
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I have read in Bible how we are supposed to confess our sins to one another. He was apologetic and was embarrassed by his original way of wording so how forgiving are we ? Jesus forgave a man who killed Christians every day for a living. There is no sin that is too ugly that He won't forgive if we ask repentance. There is no deep black well He can't reach in and pull us out of.
 

BillG

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Just ignore him, he's DISGUSTING talking about stuff like that and thinking of women in that way... just ew. Like yes sex is useful to make babies, and is for married people. But like... women are people, not machines of sex like this person is making out.

Who even WANTS to know the size of his part? Why is this even being allowed to be posted on this forum? Surely talking about sex and the size of your sexual part and how good you are at sex and etc is against the rules?
Absolem posted something whilst high on meth.

All you have seen is what he has posted.
Did you think why has he posted this?
I did and thought when I read it he was pissed (that was before he admitted he was high on meth)
I saw beyond what he posted and as to the reason why.

To be honest I don't think you did that and you have been offended.

To be honest I am actually pleased and proud of him, the fact that he was so honest to realise and admit he posted what he did when high on meth and was willing to accept his responsibility even if it meant him being banned.

He admitted a meth problem that, the problem is not what he said, the problem is that for some reason he needs meth at times.

When people get high on something, the barriers go down and what's really on their heart and mind comes out.
That is evident in his post.

To be honest we need to be in a place where we can be like Jesus.
I do not think for one minute Jesus would have been offended by what Absolem posted.

If you can get past what upsets you that you have posted, like Jesus would have done then you would not ignore him.
 

blue_ladybug

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I've read more graphic stuff than this, in romance novels.. lol..
 

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I have read in Bible how we are supposed to confess our sins to one another. He was apologetic and was embarrassed by his original way of wording so how forgiving are we ? Jesus forgave a man who killed Christians every day for a living. There is no sin that is too ugly that He won't forgive if we ask repentance. There is no deep black well He can't reach in and pull us out of.
You have written a very empathic post and for that I commend you.
 

BillG

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LOL Thinking like this is probably why God waited until I was in my early 40's before He had me actively engage in therapy sessions with Sex Offenders.

OwzK, this is probably the largest single problem half of the world fights. We help no one by pretending it isn't there.
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I have read in Bible how we are supposed to confess our sins to one another. He was apologetic and was embarrassed by his original way of wording so how forgiving are we ? Jesus forgave a man who killed Christians every day for a living. There is no sin that is too ugly that He won't forgive if we ask repentance. There is no deep black well He can't reach in and pull us out of.
Amen and well said.

I think further.

I actually think when we are in the deep well he actually comes and sits in it with us.
He sits in the crap bin of our lives with us.

How God is Jesus?
 
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Cerwin

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Cerwin, to make it easier, use the "reply with quote" button when you respond to someone.. :)Thats what I'm doing Thats why you see your quote here. Maybe I misunderstood the lesson.
 
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Bloody hell, so many here bashing me for having a go at some druggie who was posting sexual comments xD says a lot about the type of people on here, if they're so defensive and willing to justify some sex abuser druggie

It's like they say, anyone who defends them are just as bad
 
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Bloody hell, so many here bashing me for having a go at some druggie who was posting sexual comments xD says a lot about the type of people on here, if they're so defensive and willing to justify some sex abuser druggie

It's like they say, anyone who defends them are just as bad
. Godbless you.
 
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Cerwin

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More than just honesty, I admire his COURAGE. I suppose I'm not "trusting" enough to put myself out there like that. Even in Christian Chat.
 

blue_ladybug

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No one here is bashing you. They're just trying to tell you where the OP's mindset was, when he wrote this. He admittedly was high on meth. It's not necessary to call him a druggie or a sex abuser. He knows what he is, and he also knows he needs help for it. Haven't YOU ever done something in a wrong mindset and regretted it the next day? Of course you have. So why bash the OP for something that you've probably done yourself??

Oh and that crack about people who defend a sex abuser druggie, being just as bad as that person. Well, how bad a person does it make YOU, since you're the one who's offended by us setting you straight on what the mindset of the OP was? You're just as bad as we are, darlin'.. :)


Bloody hell, so many here bashing me for having a go at some druggie who was posting sexual comments xD says a lot about the type of people on here, if they're so defensive and willing to justify some sex abuser druggie

It's like they say, anyone who defends them are just as bad
 

BillG

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Bloody hell, so many here bashing me for having a go at some druggie who was posting sexual comments xD says a lot about the type of people on here, if they're so defensive and willing to justify some sex abuser druggie

It's like they say, anyone who defends them are just as bad
Ok Im not sure we are willing to justify him.

So can I ask you to do the following.

You are Jesus and you are walking down the road, like when he met Peter or Zacchaeus

You meet Absolem

So be like Jesus. You know all about him you have read his post.

Tell us how you be with him
 

blue_ladybug

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Yay.. You got the reply with quote, right.. :)


Naw everyones just expressing an opinion. No ones here to "have a go" at anyone anyways. Just expressing opinions.
 
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